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Is everyone having better sex than me?

2025/5/26
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Ladies, We Need To Talk
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Georgia Grace: 我认为好的性生活不仅仅在于性行为的频率和高潮的次数，更重要的是性体验本身。在咨询中，我发现人们追求的往往是性行为带来的连接感、愉悦感、探索欲，以及对自身性取向的认可。我们应该关注性行为前、中、后的感受，而非仅仅关注数量。 Alex Gorman: 我认为离异的50岁以上女性往往拥有更好的性生活，因为她们更了解自己想要什么，并且不会迁就次等的性体验。她们有勇气追求自己想要的，也有勇气拒绝自己不想要的。同时，停止与他人比较性生活，也是拥有更好性生活的关键。 Alex Lee: 作为有两个孩子的母亲，我的时间和精力非常有限，所以我希望其他人能有比我更精彩的性生活。当然，我也享受我的性生活，只是它可能不是那种值得我打电话告诉朋友的程度。我认为传统性爱并不等于无聊的性爱，关键在于个人的体验和从中获得的满足感。如果性爱能带来连接感和满足感，那么就不需要额外的花样。

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This chapter explores the common misconception that better sex is solely about frequency and orgasms. It emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying desires and motivations driving individuals' pursuit of better sex, such as connection, pleasure, exploration, and self-expression.
  • Better sex is about the experience, not just quantity or orgasms.
  • Understanding the motivations behind the pursuit of better sex is crucial.
  • Connection, pleasure, exploration, and self-expression are key aspects of a satisfying sex life.

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In a sex saturated world, it's easy to think that everyone's having hotter, kinkier, more interesting sex than you are. But are they really?

Yumi Stynes gathers together sex therapist, Georgia Grace, author Alyx Gorman and comedian Alex Lee for an urgent group chat unpacking what it means to have a satisfying sex life and why comparisons to others are a boner killer.

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This episode contains references to sex, marriage, orgasm gap, orgasm, lesbian, masturbation, queerness, relationships, sex positivity, sex toys, therapy, children, libido, divorce.