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Why 'plz' might be pushing people away. How to write better thank-you notes. Studaloo

2025/5/27
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David Fang: 我进行了一系列研究,以了解短信缩写(例如“plz”、“ty”)是否会影响信息接收和人际关系。研究结果表明,使用缩写会让接收者感觉发送者不够真诚,并且降低了他们回复的意愿。这种现象在陌生人之间和亲密关系中都存在。即使在经常使用缩写的年轻人中,使用过多缩写也会让信息显得不认真。虽然偶尔使用缩写不会对关系造成太大影响,但过度依赖缩写会让对方感觉不被重视。因此,为了建立更深层次的联系,建议在重要场合尽量避免使用缩写,用完整的单词表达你的想法。 Mignon Fogarty: 我分享了David Fang的研究结果,并表示自己也注意到短信缩写的问题。我兄弟经常使用缩写,虽然他可能不会完全改变,但已经开始尝试使用更完整的表达方式。这说明即使是习惯使用缩写的人,也能意识到其负面影响,并尝试改进。

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  1. Do abbreviations like “plz” and “ty” actually make your texts feel less sincere? New research suggests they might. We explore how shortened words affect how your messages are received — even in romantic conversations. Then, we offer practical tips for writing thoughtful, specific thank-you notes that reflect real gratitude.

The texting segment was written by David Fang, a PhD student in marketing at Stanford University. Sam Maglio, an Associate Professor of Marketing and Psychology at the University of Toronto, also contributed to the writing. It originally ran on The Conversation), and appears here through a Creative Commons license.

The "thank-you" segment originally ran on the OUP Blog) and appears here with permission. Edwin Battistella taught linguistics and writing at Southern Oregon University in Ashland, where he served as a dean and as interim provost. He is the author of "Do You Make These Mistakes in English)?" (OUP, 2009), "Bad Language)" (OUP, 2005), and "The Logic of Markedness)" (OUP, 1996).

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