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WHY DO FRIEND BREAKUPS HURT MORE THAN ROMANTIC BREAKUPS? ft. Susan Shapiro Barash
2025/5/16
Guys We F****d
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Christina Hutchinson
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Corinne Fisher
E
Eric
通过四年的激进储蓄和投资，实现50岁早退并达到“胖FI”状态。
H
Hannah
一个在网络上表现活跃且具有复杂心理状态的个体。
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None
P
Paige DeSorbo
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Susan Shapiro Barash
Corinne Fisher: 我一直认为朋友之间的分手比浪漫关系的分手更让人受伤。我们想深入探讨女性友谊这个话题，因为它既可以是天堂，也可以是地狱。我个人也经历过友谊破裂，所以很能理解这种痛苦。
Christina Hutchinson: 我觉得在友谊中，我们常常会遇到各种各样的问题，比如嫉妒、背叛、价值观差异等等。这些问题如果不及时解决，最终可能会导致友谊破裂。我希望通过这次讨论，能够帮助大家更好地理解女性友谊的复杂性，以及如何维护健康的友谊关系。
Susan Shapiro Barash: 我的研究表明，75%的女性认为与女性朋友分手比与恋爱关系或婚姻分手更难。这是因为我们选择这些朋友，而不是像家人一样。我们对友谊的期望很高，认为女性朋友会永远陪伴我们。但事实并非如此。我希望通过我的书，能够帮助女性更好地理解友谊的本质，以及如何在友谊中保护自己。
Deep Dive
A listener recounts a difficult experience with a friend, Connor, involving oversharing, substance abuse, and a subsequent apology. The hosts discuss the complexities of forgiveness, the boundaries of sharing personal news, and the challenges of maintaining friendships with those who have substance abuse problems.
- A listener seeks advice on a friend drama involving a former classmate, Connor.
- Connor's excessive drinking and aggressive behavior leads to a confrontation.
- The listener questions whether her acceptance of Connor's apology was appropriate.
- The hosts discuss the listener's tendency towards over-forgiveness and the importance of setting boundaries.
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