This conversation between NPR's Ailsa Chang and actor Brandon Kyle Goodman looks at authentic relationships and the performance of queerness. Goodman is Black, non-binary, and grew up in a religious household. Among humorous stories of love – and self-love – their new book You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are touches on dating, white privilege, and dating those *with *white privilege. Goodman's origin story helps readers understand what it means to fully love oneself.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices)NPR Privacy Policy)
