Episode 889 - NON-DOING is Magnetic AF. (Warning! This is advanced)
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The effects are what we can point to as personal magnetism, which is the natural result of being. Thus I titled today's conversation Mind Map. The result of being is all these things in perfect harmony.

The result of being is all these things in perfect harmony. So you are already that. You are being. Now you may say human being. What I refer to specifically is being, which results in the human appearances of personal magnetism,

In other words, you are already magnetic. You are already that. You are that pure awareness appearing to witness the power of awareness. That pure awareness is beyond the person in mind, prior to the person in mind.

and thus observes the person in mind who may suggest needing to do this or that in order to be magnetic. As you abide as you are in that pure awareness, still I am presence, you don't feel like you are separate from being. You do not think that you are separate from being.

Thus this person in mind who suggests needing to do this or that, who thinks that they can do this or that in order to be magnetic is illusory, not real. And as you know that you are that pure awareness, witnessing the power of awareness,

The power of awareness appearing as all these things appearing to be in perfect harmony. Harmonious relationships, thought transmission, we can point to it and call it thought transmission. By that it is meant specifically that people appear to say the same things that you imagine.

You imagine them to be in perfect harmony with you as that is reality. You as pure awareness witness pure being or all people appearing to be in perfect harmony. So they appear to reflect the thoughts of you being as you are in perfect harmony. This is also true for being transmission.

People appear to be in perfect harmony, and they may say, your presence is peaceful, loving, happiness, bliss. I feel fulfilled around you. You are being as you are. That's it. You know who you are. You are that still I am presence, that pure awareness that witnesses the power of awareness. Take form.

Divine presence manifested into form. That is you. And people appear to point to you and say the same things that you imagine them to say. All in perfect harmony. Wonderful relationships. In entrepreneurship, clients, vendors, team members, staff, etc.,

Different kinds of relationships, the way we would categorize relationships, which we don't need to categorize these relationships, yet they appear that way. We may say, this person is a client, this person is a vendor, this person is a mastermind partner. As ultimately there is no other, these people appear to be in harmony with you.

They appear to say the same things you imagine them to say. They appear to be in harmony with you and point to you being you as signs of your presence by indicating your presence is enough. I experience peace around you. We experience happiness together or something like that. So thus, you are already that. You are already perfectly magnetic beings

you might not know what that looks like which is perfectly fine it appears more so all these things added onto you in perfect harmony it appears that way so we can ask the question then what is that divine perfection that we may hear about spoken by those that speak of the result of being divine perfection could it be that pure awareness could it be that i am divine perfection

And also, can I witness that divine perfection as all these things, these appearances, thought transmission, being transmission, appearances of personal magnetism, which is the result of being. Pure being is divine perfection. You are divine perfection. You are that still I am presence that remains unaffected, is never affected by thoughts that suggest otherwise.

which belong to what the Bible refers to as the old man, this illusory person in mind that may suggest that you need to do this or that in order to be magnetic, that you are not magnetic, that you need approval, validation, or confirmation from the world that appears to be magnetic, which is illusory. So what is this divine perfection? Can I witness this divine perfection? Yes, certainly.

It appears as magnetism or personal magnetism or all these things added on to you, the result of being, all these things in perfect harmony. That perfect divine perfection is that still I am presence, the presence of God, Exodus 3.14. And God said unto Moses, I am that I am. Thus thou shalt say unto the children of Israel.

I am hath sent me unto you. Now, abiding in that still I am presence, the pure awareness, it seems like I get incorporated into the body of perfection in the silence. That's a way we could describe it. And thus then, I simply witness divine perfection appearing more so in physical form.

You simply witness divine perfection appearing more so in physical form, which we can point to and say personal magnetism. This is a magnetic being. People appear to say the same things we imagine, thought transmission, or without thought transmission, being transmission, practically speaking, in our presence, which is the mutual harmony presence.

In that still I am presence, in pure presence, we appear to transform. All of a sudden, the conversations appear to be in harmony. Did it really seem to be in conflict before? I don't know. You just abided as you are, as that pure awareness, and then witnessed the appearance of transformation, all these things appearing to transform. So I simply witnessed the divine perfection appearing more so in physical form.

The thoughts that suggest otherwise do not matter. They belong to what the Bible refers to as the old man, which suggests separation from being. See, being is the complete self. Being is the complete self. You are already complete. And no effort is needed to become magnetic thus. There is no person in mind trying to become magnetic. You are already that. The natural result is what we can point to and say personal magnetism.

magnetic being, and you did nothing to be. And by that is meant very specifically, you know that you are that pure awareness that is beyond the thoughts that can suggest otherwise. Thus, they do not matter. What matters then? Only being does. The mind is, we can say, being completely renewed. That is the mind in the presence of God, that I am presence which lumens the mind,

lumens the mind or purifies the mind is all that is in perfect harmony. So I simply abide in that still I am presence. You simply abide as you are in that still I am presence. And the appearances of that is all these things in harmony as the contents of mind that suggest limitation are illusory. There is no mind

containing limitation to you in perfect harmony. Thus, the mind is being completely renewed. Romans 12.2, do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you'll be able to test and approve what God's will is, his good, perfect, and pleasing will. The good, perfect, pleasing will appearances we can point to and say personal magnetism.

thought transmission, being transmission. That is reality, perfect as it is now. And you are reality, perfect as you are now, as you are that pure I am presence, which transcends any thoughts of limitation, any thoughts of lack. As you know, that existence is perfect bliss. How do you know?

existence consciousness bliss, truth consciousness bliss, sakshit ananda. The truth is experienced in consciousness as bliss for no reason, happiness for no reason, peace for no reason, or beyond reason. As the word ananda can be translated into bliss or happiness or peace or joy. Joy of simply existing.

peace of simply existing. Thus, presence is enough. Your presence is enough. The person in mind thinks they need to do this or that, change this or that in order to be magnetic, which is illusory. The person replacing one condition with another condition then looks for confirmation bias and if it is not there, which again, those beliefs formed in mind based on limitation, which is not based on the sure foundation.

The sure foundation is that still I am presence that remains as perfect love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment, and is not conditioned, cannot be conditioned. How can you condition the pure awareness? You are the pure awareness that the person in mind places conditions upon consciousness on. The illusory activities of the old man, the person in mind, ceases. Because you know that you cannot be conditioned by whatever.

You cannot be conditioned. How can you be conditioned? Who places the conditions in mind? You certainly do not place these limitations in mind. You remain as you are, being, and we can, the human being can point to it and say, divine presence manifested in form or personal magnetism. This person has personal magnetism. Magnetic being is not seeking approval, not looking for approval.

approval, validation, or confirmation in this world here to determine being, which is pure awareness that you are witnessing this appearances, all these things added onto you in perfect harmony. It is only the person in mind that seeks for external conditions to be met.

approval, validation, or confirmation? The person in mind thinks that that is the way to be. That is the way to be, to go around looking for conditions to be met. Does the magnetic being look for approval, validation, or confirmation? That just silences right there. Just that statement silences the person in mind, the seeker of this or that condition in order to be magnetic.

Being is already magnetic. Being appears to be felt by other people as ultimately there is no other. So being completely fulfilled, I am fulfilled. I am that pure awareness witnessing all these things appearing to be in perfect harmony. Thus I remain still as I am beyond reason, beyond condition and that appears as personal magnetism. So

A nuance point, you don't try to send out thoughts or personal magnetism. It simply appears as all these things naturally. It just naturally appears that way. They come up to you and they just happen to be saying the same thing that you imagine. They happen to be in perfect harmony with you. You're not trying to do anything in order to be, as that would be illusory, as you know that you are that pure awareness thing.

which is not conditioned by mind. It is not conditioned by appearances. Only being matters. Those thoughts that suggest otherwise don't matter. As they suggest limitation, as they suggest lack, how could they be you as you are the unconditionally loving observer of them, who witnesses them, and you imagine the world to be in harmony with you?

You naturally imagine yourself to be in harmony with people. You naturally imagine the world to be in harmony with you. So then being already who you are, pure awareness, witnessing the power of awareness can appear as personal magnetism in form. Appearances in form can include tone of communication,

what people point to and say your energy your gaze how you communicate etc all these things are the natural result of being it's not like being tries to adjust the tone or energy or gaze or language that's the attempts of the person in mind thinking they need to do this or that in order to be yet that person in mind is not real

That person in mind that thinks that they are limited being is illusory. As infinite being you are, witnessing the person in mind, compassionately, lovingly, the person in mind no longer appears. So thus pure being or personal magnetism, the result of that is made visible through the five senses from imagination.

You naturally imagine yourself to be in harmonious relationships with people. You naturally imagine them to have a wonderful conversation with you, wonderful relationship with you. As you know that you are that pure awareness, you know that you are that love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment beyond appearances. How do you know?

Because love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment permeate the body and the imaginal activity from the premise of truth permeate mind or saturate mind. And it naturally happens without effort as you know who you are. And that's what I mean by being is made visible or being made visible through the five senses from imagination. Everything appears to be in harmony.

Being appears more so as divine perfection. So that question earlier, what is that divine perfection? Is there such thing as perfection, divine perfection, absolute perfection? You know, that pure awareness that you are is divine perfection. Thus, you are divine perfection. Now, can you witness divine perfection? If I am divine perfection, can I witness divine perfection? It appears that way.

It appears that way more so with increasing frequency on a continuous basis as far as the senses perceive. And one of the ways that it appears is personal magnetism or charisma, which people can point to and say, you are being magnetic. And it is true. You are being magnetic. Being is the complete self. That's the natural fragrance of that.

is all these things which we can point to and say symbols of personal magnetism. Spontaneous love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment, all these things. So being is already magnetic. You are already magnetic. You no longer identify with the illusory thinker in mind. The person in mind dissolves. There is no person in mind.

Or more specifically, there is no person in mind that could suggest otherwise. There's no person in mind that could suggest separation from being. As there's only being, only being, the presence is felt. That's one of the ways it appears. People say they feel your presence. Or you could say you feel their presence. Or you could say presence is felt. As presence is enough. Presence is enough and everything appears to transform. Why does it appear that way? As there's only being.

Ultimately, there is no other. Now, one of the things that I've noticed is all desires to become magnetic and attract all these things are fulfilled in being. This is what we've been talking about recently as well. We spoke about this on Sunday. I don't know if you saw the video. I'll link a description to it. Being is enough. Existence is enough. Presence is enough. As being equals fulfillment. Presence equals fulfillment. You are fulfilled.

You are completely fulfilled. How do you know? You feel fulfilled. You naturally imagine yourself to be fulfilled as you abide in that still I am presence. You clearly witness this world to be in harmony with you as there is no distortion in mind of reality generated by the person in mind, which is not you. That is why I also say no shame, no condemnation.

because the person in mind can seem very real and can seem very convincing, suggesting that you are not perfect now. You have a problem that you need to fix in order to be love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment, in order to be magnetic. Yet you don't identify with this person. You are that pure awareness that cannot be convinced by this person in mind. This person in mind appears to disappear.

the thoughts that seem to belong to this person in mind also appear to disappear. So all desires to become magnetic and attract all these things are fulfilled in being. Being appears as relationships, success, joy, personal magnetism, etc. Natural confidence is the result or confidence is the result of being. Satchitananda.

that existence is pure bliss, that is who I am, conscious of being now. I am conscious of being who I am, perfect as I am, appearing to be more so with increasing frequency on a continuous basis. It appears that way. Why does it appear that way? Because you know in the silence that you are infinite love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment.

Yet the individual from the desires of the heart can desire to be or imagine themselves to be who they desire to be, which are symbols of that infinite love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment. How else would you experience? How else would you witness the being you are other than experiencing the being you are or witnessing the being you are? And these appearances are

We can point to, with respect to personal magnetism and say, this person is being magnetic, magnetic being, or the appearances of thought transmission, or the appearances of being transmission, being transmission, or it appears that way. It just appears that way as ultimately there is only being, being as the source, not the seeker. And for the human being, human who already is being,

the human realizes they are being and that there's only being. The manifestation of that, the natural result of it, that happens, it just happens, is, for example, these things here, all these things. Natural attractiveness. People seem to want to be around you and may or may not know why. This is an interesting one. They seem to want to be around you. It appears that way. If we think it's that way,

Yet the way it is, is perfect harmony. The individual may think that it's this way or that way, or they may interpret it. They may say they know why they want to be around you and point to some visible appearances or this or that, this concept, that concept. Yet it is pure being. It appears that way. It just appears that way to them, which is perfectly fine. Or they may not know why.

They might not know why. They might not explain why. Or they may say, I don't know why I want to be around you. Well, we know it's the result of being. What they want, we can say it this way, what they want is to know that they are that infinite love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment. So it appears that they experience, that they witness the love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment in your presence. Yet you know,

that there is no separation, that being is love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment. It just appears this way. It appears as this theater, which is perfectly fine, perfectly fine. So there is natural power or serene power or power just is, not dominating, but undeniable power, as that pure awareness is unshakable power, witnessing the power of awareness, appearing more so without resistance. It happens without resistance.

Magnetism, confidence, all these things naturally happen without resistance. Resistance is generated in mind, and mind is purified in the presence of God. Romans 12.2 Do not conform to the patterns of this world. So how does the individual not conform to the patterns of this world? By knowing who you are beyond conformity.

You cannot conform to the patterns of this world. The person in mind generates the illusions of conformity, yet you are not the person in mind. You are that pure awareness that witnesses the phenomena of mind, the person in mind, the appearances, so you know who you are. And as you abide as you are, all these things that the person was seeking for externally—approval, validation, confirmation—

based on particular beliefs that the person in mind is identified with as conditions, all these things naturally are experienced in the body. Love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment is experienced in the body without those conditions, without those appearances, beyond those conditions, beyond those appearances. And the person in mind is known to no longer exist or never existed in the first place.

Yet it seems so real. That's fine. Those thoughts that belong to the old man and the old man dissolve. You are not the old man. How could you be those thoughts of limitation? How could you be the suggester of limitation of lack when you know that you are that pure awareness witnessing the power of awareness happening to be in perfect harmony? So the appearances, again, people feel seen and heard without effort.

You're not trying to be. It just happens that way. It's interesting. Effortless, it happens. Even emotional magnetism, people feel peace in your presence. Synchronicities, people, opportunities, and ideas show up harmoniously, and they happen to be aligned in perfect harmony. Interesting. You did nothing. You just remained as you are. Being as you are, all these things appear to be in harmony. I remember James Allen in his wonderful book, The Heavenly Life,

said something like, "In the center of being is the music that orders the stars, that divine harmony." To being, everything is in harmony and appears that way. You can see the connections, you can see the patterns effortlessly in being. And as we've been discussing, the natural result of being is flow, just as the natural result of being is personal magnetism and all these appearances. They just happen naturally.

Speaking of flow, harmonious interactions, less friction, more flow, or so it feels that way. Flow more so, flow appearing more so. As you know that you are beyond identification to the thoughts of limitation that suggests not being, which is illusory. How could you not be? These thoughts that suggest not being don't make any sense. You are already that. You know that you are not because I said so. You know that you are.

You are already that, all that you desire to be. You already have all that you desire. You found it in existence. You found it within yourself. We can say it that way. You found it within yourself as yourself. I like to say it that way. You found it as yourself. Not I versus you, this versus that, this person versus that person. How is that magnetic being?

That is illusory being. If identified with the old man in mind, it appears that way. Yet you know that you are not the old man who suggests limitation, separation. So harmonious interactions, everything naturally flows. Conversations, exploratory. That's what I refer to it in my book. If you haven't seen my book, if you're interested in that, I'll link the description to it on Amazon. It's called The Direct Path to $1 Million. Turn what you already have into a fortune.

inspired by building three successful businesses and being an entrepreneur since 2009. And a person may say prospecting resistance, lead generation resistance, client acquisition resistance, or may associate limitation or lack or separation to these words or any kind of relationships in business. So what I call it is exploratory conversation. We in conversation explore relationships

The harmony points. There are so many harmony points and we relate on the harmony points. That's it. Why do I need to force myself to relate this way or that way? Why do you need to force yourself to relate this way or that way? There's no strong-arming, convincing or any of that in exploratory conversations. We have fun. We have joy. We have bliss because we are love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment, experiencing, witnessing that in conversation.

So inner and outer are experienced as one in being. There's no such thing as inner versus outer in being. There's only being in perfect harmony. So now let's talk about abiding in being, which can sound illusory because you are being, thus you are abiding in being. You know who you are, that pure awareness itself before the person, roles, and identity exists.

which all of those things appear to transform naturally as a result of knowing who you are and remaining as you are, which is you unaffected by appearances, being as you are, or as I say sometimes, being as I am. I am still, yet body appears to flow. So all these things appear to flow in perfect harmony. They appear to transform. Abiding as you are, as pure awareness,

what naturally results is the appearances of letting go. Naturally it happens, letting go. It's not like it is a thing to do. Now I must not conform to these patterns of the world or I must not identify or I must let go. It naturally happens as you know who you are, abiding as you are in that pure I am awareness. Just being, simply being.

It results in the appearances of letting go in the mind or of becoming. As we know that there's no person in mind trying to let go or to become, that everything is a natural result of being, just being. The seeking to fix, improve, or perform naturally ceases. Body appears to flow. Everything appears to flow in perfect harmony.

You thus then unconditionally and lovingly witness all that arises. You don't resist. You don't chase. As you are beyond resistance, you are beyond chasing. I am beyond resistance. I am beyond chasing. One could say there's no such thing as resistance or chasing to you as you are that eternal, everlasting love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment. So what are you resisting? Is being resisting being? That's illusory. There's only being.

You can thus lovingly observe thoughts, mind, body, emotions, rather than automatically believing the content of thoughts. Because, you know, if thoughts suggest limitation, they do not represent you. If thoughts suggest lack of being, or you need to do this or that in order to be, you know they're illusory thoughts, as you are already that.

Thus then you know that all qualities you seek are actually present in the seed of truth. Who is it that seek? The seeker in mind is seeking for the truth. The truth is you are already that. You do nothing to know that you are already that. You know that you are that still I am awareness, that pure awareness that is prior to the individual that seeks truth.

So the individual that seeks is looking for the source being. The source being I am, pure awareness in the source being I am, I found what I was looking for and I no longer seek. All these things naturally then happen. Then it is known that only being exists.

Only being exists, all people appear to be in perfect harmony. Any thoughts that suggest otherwise? Illusory. You no longer identify with them. Mind is purified in the presence of God, the undeniable presence of God, that still I am presence. Exodus 3.14 I am that I am. Thus thou shalt say unto the children of Israel, I am hath sent me unto you. There is absolute trust thus.

in that divine presence, the still I am presence, as it is the doer of the works, appearing to move in perfect harmony or rearrange everything in perfect harmony or transforming the appearances, body, person, world, etc. You are witnessing the transformation, purely being as you are,

as the doer of the works is not the person in mind that needs to figure it out. I can and myself did nothing. The Father within doeth the work. Now relationships thus mirror being, not imperfection, as imperfection is illusory. It's not real, as we discussed earlier. What is that divine perfection that I am? Can I witness that divine perfection?

That divine perfection is that still I am presence, the presence of God, that pure awareness, which witnesses the divine perfection appearing more so in physical form in a way that we can point to and say, oh, that was magnetic. That was magnetic being. They appear to say the same thing that you imagine, which we can point to and say thought transmission.

They appear to rearrange or transform in your presence, yet you know it's not me versus them. There's only the divine presence, the still I am presence, the pure awareness that is reality, which is appearing to transform everything to be in harmony. Thus, relationships mirror being.

Another way of saying it is harmonious relationships appear with increasing frequency on a continuous basis. You have more harmonious relationships with people. Naturally, without trying. They just naturally now are harmonious. They're not mirroring imperfection as imperfection is illusory, suggesting that being is imperfect.

be still and know that I am eternally love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment, perfection in the silence, then you know. Not because Joseph said so. Because you know already that you are that pure awareness that is perfect as it is now, cannot be affected by thoughts that suggest imperfection. There's no such thing as imperfection to being. You are perfection now. Existence is perfection.

Being is perfection. Presence is perfection. Divine presence, I speak of, is perfection. And you know, you know that still I am presence is perfection. As to suggest that still I am presence is not perfection is to suggest that the person in mind does not know God. And yes, the person in mind is seeking for God. So in the presence of God, the person in mind surrenders.

Surrendering thus is a natural result of being. The human can't help but surrender to being. It makes perfect sense now that surrendering is a natural result of being, just as personal magnetism is the natural result of being. And you do nothing to do all these things. You abide as you are already in that still I am presence, that pure awareness before the person rolls and dies.

Personal identity, thus you are already true identity beyond limitation. Infinite love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment appearing more so as all these things added onto you. That's what I meant by the presence, the divine perfection, the divine perfection can be witnessed as all these things. So relationships mirror being. You just no longer identify with thoughts that suggest not being anymore.

And you continuously witness, more so with increasing frequency on a continuous basis, the manifestation of being, harmonious relationships, exploratory conversations, the play of God, reality, perfect as it is now,

beyond any kinds of thoughts of limitation that suggest otherwise, as do they represent that pure awareness that is experienced in the body, which permeates the mind, which permeates the body, that love, happiness, peace, bliss, fulfillment, clearly illusory. So this appearance of personal magnetism, the divine presence manifested in form, appears more so for you. It's happening more so for you.

with increasing frequency on a continuous basis. It just happens to be. It happens that way. The result of being is all these things in perfect harmony. So I trust you found this video to be helpful. Let's conclude this with an auto-suggestion to further encourage. You could say, the result of being who I am is all these things added on to me in perfect harmony.

harmonious lifestyle, harmonious relationships, harmonious world, all these things represent reality, which is perfect as it is now, as I know that I am that pure awareness,

appearing to witness all these things, the love, the happiness, the peace, the bliss, fulfillment, added on to me with increasing frequency on a continuous basis as far as the senses perceive. If you would like a copy of this mind map, the link is in the description. Thank you very much for watching. I'll talk with you soon. Take care.