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蒋方舟
蒋方舟：贝蒂娜是一个极具争议的人物，她对歌德的痴迷和追求不朽的渴望，使她不惜编造与歌德的情书，甚至不顾尊严。然而，昆德拉对贝蒂娜的评价过于刻薄，将她简化为一个典型的文学人物，忽略了她作为作家和社会活动家的身份。贝蒂娜追求的并非歌德本人，而是一种被选中的感觉，一种通过与名人建立联系来获得不朽的渴望。但是，真正的爱并非被选中，而是被看见，被理解，即使是最不好的一面也能被接受。我希望被看见的是我的疲惫、软弱、不诚实和虚荣，被看到这些之后依然被爱，那这样的爱对我来说才是坚实的，我不用证明自己足够优秀，我不用证明自己是一个我其实不是的人。
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This chapter explores the complexities of relationships and the passage of time, using the author's personal experience of reconnecting with a long-lost friend as a springboard to discuss Milan Kundera's novel, "Immortality." The author emphasizes her appreciation for the novel's resonance with her own life during a period of personal reflection and challenges.
- The author recounts a reunion with a friend after many years, highlighting the contrasting feelings of awkwardness and effortless reconnection.
- The author introduces Milan Kundera's "Immortality" as a source of comfort and understanding during a challenging period.
- The author explains her approach to discussing the novel, emphasizing personal interpretation over strict textual analysis.
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