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First Love Mixtape: Side A (Encore)

2025/5/28
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Anna Martin
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Dan Jones
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Helene Cooper
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Lisa Selin Davis
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Mia Lee
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Lisa Selin Davis: 在我16岁那年夏天,父亲安排我在公园做体力劳动,希望能通过劳动和自然的力量来治愈我。在那里,我遇到了一个长发男孩,他让我感受到了爱情的萌芽。我曾试图通过讲述自己的过往来吸引他的注意,但似乎并不奏效。直到有一天,我们一起游泳,我才开始真正地了解他。他看到了我缺点背后美好的一面,就像歌曲《I'll Be Your Mirror》所表达的那样,他爱着我最羞愧的部分。这首歌教会了我,有人会因为我的缺点而爱我,这让我感到被治愈。即使多年过去,我仍然记得那段经历,以及那首歌带给我的感动。

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This chapter recounts the author's summer romance at 16, intertwined with Lou Reed's song "I'll Be Your Mirror." The song's message of acceptance resonated deeply with her as she navigated a challenging summer job and a budding relationship with a boy who saw her beyond her flaws.
  • Summer romance at 16
  • Lou Reed's "I'll Be Your Mirror"
  • Challenging summer job
  • Acceptance and self-love

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This episode of “Modern Love” features Lisa Selin Davis’s essay “What Lou Reed Taught Me About Love).” She writes about how the song “I’ll Be Your Mirror)” became the soundtrack to her summer romance with a floppy-haired “rocker kid” who inadvertently helped her find healing. Then, we hear from some members of the “Modern Love” team about the songs that influenced them as teenagers and about the memories — funny, empowering, nostalgic — that they carry with them.

Stay tuned for next week’s episode, where we’ll hear from our listeners about the songs that taught them about love.

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