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How to Fall (and Stay) in Love

2025/2/12
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Anna Martin: 我收集了许多听众分享的坠入爱河的瞬间,这些故事非常多样,有些浪漫如电影情节,有些则平淡而真实。我希望通过这些故事,探讨坠入爱河的真正含义。 Daniel Jones: 我认为坠入爱河往往发生在打破我们预设的爱情幻想的时刻。那些意想不到、不符合我们固有观念的人和事,反而更能触动我们。此外,通过提问深入了解彼此,建立脆弱的连接,是加深关系的重要方式。 Mandy Len Catron: 我通过亲身经历验证了“36个问题”的力量,它能帮助人们在短时间内建立信任和亲密感。虽然我最初对婚姻持保留态度,但与伴侣共同经历了许多挑战后,我更渴望庆祝我们关系的稳定和美好。我认为信任是浪漫关系中非常珍贵的基石。 听众: 坠入爱河的瞬间各不相同,可能是因为对方的一个举动、一句话,或者只是一个眼神。重要的是,在那个瞬间,我们感受到了与对方的连接,以及对未来的美好憧憬。即使最终未能走到一起,那些美好的回忆也值得珍藏。

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The Modern Love team asked you to share with us the moment you knew you were falling in love, and you delivered. Your stories took us to so many places — dinner dates, subway rides, sunsets, concerts — and showed us the many shapes of love. There were so many that we could not list them all.

In this episode, we listen back to your voice messages. Then, Daniel Jones, the editor of Modern Love, joins us to discuss the “36 Questions That Lead to Love)” and what they reveal about how we fall in love. And Mandy Len Catron, the writer who popularized the 36 questions in her Modern Love essay, “To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This),” reads her essay and tells us whether she’s still in love with the same man 10 years later.

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