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Lucy Dacus Might Not Text You Back

2025/3/12
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Lucy Dacus: 我创作了第一首使用女性代词的爱情歌曲《Best Guess》。这首歌表达了我对爱情的憧憬,即使我知道未来充满不确定性,但我仍然愿意去尝试。我通过TikTok公开选角拍摄音乐视频,这反映了我对爱情的开放和包容态度。在长期关系中,我害怕与伴侣失去联系,但我也相信,如果双方都愿意付出努力,这段关系是可以持续的。沟通和坦诚非常重要,我们需要给彼此空间和时间,去感受和理解彼此。我害怕在关系中感到孤独,即使我们在一起。在《Talk》这首歌中,我表达了这种害怕,以及在关系中失去联系的痛苦。 我是一个表达方式很热烈的人,在短信中会使用很多感叹号。我希望我的伴侣能够理解我的这种表达方式,并且能够看到我内心的真诚。我也理解有些人是糟糕的短信回复者,这并不意味着他们不关心你。重要的是,我们能够在生活中找到合适的方式去表达爱意,并且能够在面对冲突时坦诚沟通。 我欣赏Molly Paschal和她丈夫的故事,他们通过一起徒步旅行重新找回了彼此的联系。这让我明白,在长期关系中,我们需要不断地去寻找新的方式去连接彼此,去创造新的回忆。 Anna Martin: 我对Lucy Dacus的音乐和她的爱情观很感兴趣。她的音乐总是很直接,很真诚,这让我很欣赏。在节目中,我们讨论了她新专辑中的歌曲,以及她对爱情和长期关系的看法。我们还一起阅读了一篇关于夫妻如何重新找回沟通的《Modern Love》文章,这篇文章也引发了我们对长期关系中沟通重要性的讨论。 Molly Paschal: 在我的文章中,我讲述了我和丈夫在婚姻中经历的沟通障碍,以及我们如何通过一起徒步旅行重新找回彼此的联系。在婚姻的早期,我们无话不谈,但随着时间的推移,我们的沟通变得越来越少。我们意识到,我们需要主动创造机会去沟通,去分享彼此的感受和想法。通过一起徒步旅行,我们远离了日常生活的琐碎,重新找回了彼此的连接,也重新燃起了爱情的火花。

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On her fourth solo album, “Forever Is a Feeling” (out March 28), Lucy Dacus contemplates the fears and delights that go along with falling hard for someone. The song “Best Guess” celebrates the leap of faith involved in committing to a partner with the knowledge that both of you will change over time. And in another track called “Talk,” a couple realizes they’ve grown apart because they have nothing more to say to each other.

In this episode, Dacus reads Molly Pascal’s Modern Love essay “How the ‘Dining Dead’ Got Talking Again),” about a couple who sets out to bring conversation back into their marriage. And Dacus tells Anna Martin why she’s not afraid to put in the work for long-term love.

Lucy Dacus’ fourth solo album, “Forever Is a Feeling,” is out March 28.

Molly Pascal’s essay can be found here).

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