In a new memoir out next week, the singer-songwriter Neko Case shares some painful childhood memories. In the studio with Anna Martin, Case is open and unapologetically angry as she describes being treated like “an unwanted child.” Both parents, she says, struggled with trauma and addiction. They often left her with no food and only her pets for company. Case also reads a Modern Love essay about the complex heartbreak that comes with being estranged from a parent with an addiction, and the joys of finding love and acceptance in the wake of that pain.
Neko Case’s memoir, “The Harder I Fight the More I Love You),” comes out Jan. 28.
Caitlin McCormick’s Modern Love essay, “My Mother, the Stranger,” can be found here). McCormick, who recently published a short fiction piece in The Sewanee Review), is working on a novel.
Listener callout alert: For our upcoming Valentine’s Day episode, the Modern Love team wants to hear about a moment when you knew you were falling for someone. Whether it happened all at once or as a gradual process, we want to learn about how it happened. Where were you? What did it feel like? What did you do next? (You can tell us about a current relationship, a past love or something happening to you right now.)
The deadline is Feb. 5, 2025. The submission instructions are here).
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