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How to Resolve Team Conflict

2025/5/21
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Amy Bernstein
主持哈佛商业评论的《Women at Work》播客,专注于工作场所心理健康和职业发展话题。
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Amy Gallo
通过播客和媒体贡献,帮助女性应对工作场所中的心理健康挑战。
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Kelsey Alpeo
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Kelsey Alpeo: 作为一名管理者,我最初面对下属表现不佳时,倾向于回避冲突,选择自己承担所有任务。我意识到这种做法并不利于下属的成长,于是我决定与他们进行沟通。为了准备这次谈话,我做了充分的准备,写下了所有要说的话并进行了练习。然而,在实际的谈话中,我因为害怕而退缩了。最终,我意识到需要进行这次对话,这对我来说是一个转折点。我开始反思自己为什么会回避冲突,明明知道这对我和对方都有好处。我认识到,作为管理者,我需要克服对冲突的恐惧,主动寻求解决问题的方法。 Amy Gallo: 冲突不仅仅是争吵,而是任何时候你和他人的需求、愿望不一致的情况。冲突可能包括紧张的对话和言语。对冲突进行分类有助于找到解决方法。例如,流程冲突是关于如何完成任务的冲突。解决冲突有四种方法:忽略、直接解决、间接解决和放弃关系。直接解决是坐下来讨论,间接解决是使用故事或通过中间人,而放弃关系则是最后的选择。重要的是要明确目标,并根据目标选择合适的处理方式。如果选择的处理方式不正确,需要及时调整。冲突风格是一个光谱,会根据情况而变化。冲突回避者需要认识到,他们重视和谐和良好关系,这没有错。但要避免总是默认选择回避,要考虑长远结果。冲突寻求者需要注意,他们的行为可能会让冲突回避者感到压迫。冲突寻求者应该避免主导对话,不要为了冲突而冲突,有时让冲突过去是正确的选择。 Amy Bernstein: 作为管理者,解决误解和人际问题占据了大量时间。不同的情境需要不同的冲突处理方式。不要让默认的冲突应对方式决定你的选择,要根据具体情况和目标来决定。当一个人向你抱怨另一个人时,你需要听取双方的意见。了解冲突的根本原因,找到真正的问题所在。当你的老板和你的下属有不同的期望时,你需要权衡各方利益,找到最佳解决方案。

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People management consists of a fair amount of mediation and diplomacy, and you can’t expect to get the hang of it right away. You’re in the middle of a lot now. Initiating difficult conversations, and then getting all the way through them, takes planning and practice (and sometimes even a breather). Holding tension takes restraint.

Amy Bernstein and Kelsey Alpaio interview **Amy Gallo **about the types of conflict that new managers should expect to handle, as well as options for responding. They talk through real experiences and common scenarios. Like that time Kelsey needed to tell a direct report they were falling short of her expectations (but didn’t end up saying anything). Or that time Amy G started reporting to a friend. They also give guidance for intervening or not when team members are arguing and for discreetly clueing your group in about the office politics going on.

**Key episode topics include: **managing conflicts, interpersonal skills, interpersonal communication, difficult employees, hard conversations, leadership