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AEE 2437: Are You Good Cop or Bad Cop?
2025/7/3
All Ears English Podcast
Michelle Kaplan: 我通常是扮演好警察的角色，倾向于温柔育儿，更注重道歉和理解。虽然我也有严厉的时候，但总体上我更像是一个容易被孩子‘推翻’的家长，很难坚持执行我所设定的规矩和后果。我意识到自己在这方面需要加强，学习如何更好地设立和维护界限。
Aubrey Carter: 在我的家庭中，通常我扮演好警察，而我的丈夫扮演坏警察，他更严格，更会‘依法办事’。但随着孩子们长大成为青少年，这个角色开始转变。现在我们都需要重新定义好警察和坏警察的角色。我认为坏警察不一定意味着很坏，而是更能够坚持原则和执行后果，帮助孩子们养成良好的习惯。我发现坚持执行后果对我来说更难，因为我经常会做出一些空洞的威胁。
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This chapter explores the dynamics of good cop/bad cop parenting styles, using the hosts' personal experiences as examples. It also discusses the concept of empty threats and how different approaches work with children of varying ages.
- The good cop/bad cop dynamic is common in parenting, often shifting as children age.
- Empty threats are common and ineffective parenting strategies.
- Different parenting styles work better at different ages and stages of child development.
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