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026丨一次失败的考试

2024/9/29
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一个代号
啦啦啦啦啦啦的彩铅画
大欣
常青树
栗子
胆大的小粟子
莴苣
阿急
青青
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胆大的小粟子:我2013年考研失败,初试没过线。十年来一直在消化考研失败这件事,不断化解内心的困惑和自责。工作后,我发现学历歧视确实存在,但学历和收入、人生格局没有必然联系。我通过给学弟学妹分享经验,以及持续学习,逐渐放下执念。 一个代号:我学习努力但成绩平庸,高考和专升本都失败了。我曾因成绩不好而自卑,害怕与聪明人交流,但后来我接受了自己的平庸,并通过工作和生活中的努力,获得满足感。 青青:我和妹妹的高考经历,让我明白高考失败本身并非最痛苦的,父母的回应方式才是真正伤害我们的。我高考失败后没有复读,而是直接就业,并通过成人高考提升学历。我妹妹高考失败两次,但我最终支持她继续读书,并承担她的学费。 阿急:高考和考研的失败经历让我明白,外部环境和自身状态都会影响考试结果。高考时我重度失眠,考研时遇到压榨研究生的导师,导致我最终选择离开医学生涯,转行做兽医。 栗子:高一时月考成绩下滑,父母的言语攻击和物质惩罚让我至今仍对自身价值产生怀疑。父母的评价让我对自身价值产生怀疑,并影响我的文理分科选择。 啦啦啦啦啦啦的彩铅画:小学四年级时,美术老师以考试不及格相威胁,对我进行性骚扰,这段经历给我留下深刻的心理阴影。我至今仍会想起这段经历,并感到恐惧。 常青树:高考和艺考的失败,以及家庭经济状况的限制,让我对艺术道路充满遗憾。我最终选择摆摊卖画,并从中找到新的方向。 莴苣:在教育行业工作期间,两次竞聘培训师岗位失败,以及二战律师资格考试的经历,让我深刻体会到焦虑和职场的不公平。我最终通过了律师资格考试,并开启了新的职业生涯。 大欣:大学期间多门课程不及格,多次补考重修,最终通过作弊的方式试图通过考试,但被抓,这段经历让我深刻反思。作弊被抓后,我深刻反思,并最终顺利毕业。

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Key Insights

What percentage of the submissions received for the podcast were about failed postgraduate entrance exams?

About 36% of the submissions were about failed postgraduate entrance exams.

Why did '胆大的小粟子' feel unqualified to return to her alma mater for a sharing session?

She felt unqualified because she saw herself as just an ordinary worker, unlike other alumni who had achieved notable success, such as earning PhDs or working in central government units.

What was the outcome of '一个代号's' college entrance exam?

She did not pass the undergraduate entrance exam and ended up attending a vocational college.

How did '青青' manage to improve her qualifications after failing her college entrance exam?

She improved her qualifications through adult education, eventually earning a bachelor's degree after initially failing her college entrance exam.

What was the turning point for '阿急' to decide not to pursue a career in medicine?

The turning point was her experience with a demanding and unsupportive mentor during her medical internship, which led to her mental health struggles and ultimately her decision to leave the medical field.

What was the significant impact of the monthly exams on '栗子' during high school?

The significant impact was the severe criticism and emotional abuse from her parents, who were disappointed with her declining performance in subjects like math and physics, leading to a strained family environment.

What was the traumatic experience '啦啦啦' had with her elementary school art teacher?

She experienced inappropriate behavior from her art teacher, who made sexually suggestive comments and actions, leading to a deep-seated fear and mistrust that affected her emotional well-being.

What was the major setback '常青树' faced in her pursuit of becoming an art student?

She faced financial and familial constraints that prevented her from attending art school, despite her strong desire and talent in painting, leading to a significant personal and professional setback.

What was the reason '莴苣' failed her first bar exam?

She failed her first bar exam because she did not pass the subjective section, despite having passed the objective section, leading to a highly stressful period of preparation for a second attempt.

What was the consequence of '大欣's' attempt to cheat during her final university exams?

Her attempt to cheat was discovered, leading to the cancellation of her exam results and the necessity to retake the exams, which delayed her graduation and caused significant emotional distress.

Chapters
一位嘉宾分享了十年来消化考研失败的经历,从最初的困惑和自我批评,到后来通过与同学和老师交流,以及持续学习,逐渐放下执念,认识到学历并非成功的唯一标准。
  • 考研失败后,嘉宾用了十年时间消化这段经历。
  • 嘉宾逐渐认识到学历和成功没有必然联系。
  • 持续学习和自我反思是化解失败的关键。

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高考、考研、考公,雅思、托福、月考、中考、驾照、艺考、毕业考、业务考……

不是每个人都会成功。

本期大哭预警⚠️ 大笑预警⚠️

  • Highlights:

03:10 “我这十多年,一直在消化考研失败”丨胆大的小粟子

14:18 “难道我的脑子真的很不灵光吗?”丨一个代号

24:31 “我还是继续去坐火车,但不再是一个准备入学的大学生,而成为了一个灵活就业者”丨青青

45:01 “算命先生说我命里学医,当兽医不也是医生吗?”丨阿急

56:24“我妈不相信,问,那你为什么要感冒?!”丨栗子

1:05:57 “他叹了一口气,特别严肃地对我说,我只能给你打40分”丨啦啦啦 啦啦啦的彩铅画·她说:“怎么说呢,我和美术的关系也没有那么差”

1:20:24 “那个和我一样在书展摆摊的人毕业于中传,我想,我们殊途同归了”丨常青树

1:36:15 “HR问我前一份工作为什么要离职,我说因为领导是傻X”丨莴苣

1:47:56 “虽然我提前一周什么都没干,但提前一天我决定通宵复习”丨大欣

  • BGM:

미란이 (MIRANI) / Wonstein / 넘어지고 싶어作词 : Evan/미란이 (MIRANI)/Wonstein作曲 : Evan/Kwaca/미란이 (MIRANI)/Wonstein所属专辑:ME TIME

  • 感谢参与本期节目录制的:

胆大的小粟子丨一个代号丨青青阿急丨栗子丨啦啦啦常青树丨莴苣丨大欣

  • 感谢参与本期节目录制但未在成片中出现的:

尔雅

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