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660: Hoaxing Yourself

2024/10/27
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Sean Cole在十四到十六岁期间使用英国口音,并深信自己是英国人。这种行为源于他探索自我认同的渴望,以及对英国文化的向往。他将这种行为视为一种自我表达的方式,试图通过扮演不同的身份来寻找真实的自我。然而,这种行为也给他带来了困扰,让他难以承认自己曾经伪造口音。 Joel Lovell在大学入学初期,为了融入看似优越的同学圈子,他编造了关于自己家庭和饮食习惯的谎言。他谎称自己是素食主义者,并以此塑造一个与众不同的形象。起初,他只是为了迎合周围环境,但随着时间的推移,他逐渐相信了自己的谎言,并以此为基础构建了自己的身份认同。这种行为反映了他对自身价值和社会地位的不确定性,以及对自我认同的探索。他通过编造谎言来获得认同感和归属感,但这种虚假的身份认同最终给他带来了内心的冲突和痛苦。

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Why did Sean Cole start speaking with a British accent at age fourteen?

Sean Cole was fascinated by British TV shows and characters, particularly Lady Harriet Makepeace, who seemed superior and removed from American culture. This fascination led him to adopt a British accent as a way to escape his reality and feel connected to a different identity.

How did Sean Cole's use of a British accent affect his interactions with others?

Sean Cole's use of a British accent became so ingrained that he spoke with it from morning to night, affecting his interactions with friends and family. His mother eventually took him to a therapist to address the issue, but Sean's belief in his British identity persisted.

What was Joel Lovell's motivation for lying about his parents being vegetarians in college?

Joel Lovell felt out of place among his peers who came from more prestigious backgrounds. To fit in and create a more interesting persona, he lied about his parents being vegetarians, which he believed suggested a leftist, academic, and critical lifestyle, distancing himself from his working-class upbringing.

How did Joel Lovell manage his vegetarian persona in college?

Joel Lovell struggled to maintain his vegetarian persona, often eating iceberg lettuce and chickpeas. He occasionally sneaked out to eat meat, feeling a sense of illicit pleasure. He also adopted a distinct style of dress and speech to reinforce his new identity.

What was the telemarketing scam that David Diamond was involved in?

David Diamond was involved in a long-running telemarketing scam where he and others convinced people to invest in various fraudulent schemes, such as 900 number businesses, online shopping networks, and internet service providers. None of these investments yielded any returns, and the scammers pocketed millions of dollars.

How did the authorities catch David Diamond?

The authorities caught David Diamond by setting up a sting operation. They used a real victim, known as a 'mule' who would buy anything over the phone, and had an FBI volunteer pose as this victim. The volunteer recorded calls with Diamond, eventually leading to his arrest.

What was Shalom Auslander's plan to improve his family situation?

Shalom Auslander's plan was twofold: he aimed to win his school's Blessing Bee to make his mother proud and to sin excessively in hopes that God would punish his abusive father. He believed that by winning the bee, he could elevate his family's status, and by sinning, he could invoke divine retribution against his father.

How did Shalom Auslander's plan unfold during the Blessing Bee?

Shalom Auslander's plan to win the Blessing Bee was complicated by the intricate rules of the competition, which required knowledge of various blessings for different foods. He managed to advance but eventually lost when he was disqualified for claiming that the room smelled like feces, which technically was a loophole in the rules prohibiting blessings in certain conditions.

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Sean Cole recounts his teenage years spent speaking with a British accent, believing he was British, and the psychological impact of maintaining this false identity.
  • Sean spoke with a British accent from age 14 to 16.
  • His mother took him to a psychologist to address the issue.
  • Sean's belief in his British identity was so strong that he argued with the psychologist.

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People who tell a lie and then believe the lie more than anyone else. 

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  • Prologue: Sean Cole explains why he decided that he would speak with a British accent—morning, noon and night—from the age of fourteen until he was sixteen, and how he believed the lie that he was British must be true. (3 minutes)
  • Act One: The story of two young people who, in their search to figure out who they were, pretended to be people they weren't. Both were from small towns; both took on false identities. For two years in high school, producer Sean Cole spoke with a British accent. As a freshman in college, Joel Lovell told lies about his own diet and about his parents. (15 minutes)
  • Act Two: The story of a con man, one of the most successful salesmen in a long-running multimillion-dollar telemarketing scam, who finally got caught when he was conned himself. Producer Nancy Updike talks about the case with Dale Sekovich, Federal Trade Commission investigator. (16 minutes)
  • Act Three: Shalom Auslander reads his true story, "The Blessing Bee." It's about the time when, as a third-grader at an Orthodox Jewish school, Shalom saw his chance to both make his mom proud, and push his drunken father out of the picture. Part of his scheme involved winning the school's bee on the complicated Hebrew blessings you say before eating certain foods. The other part of the scheme: Sinning.  (19 minutes)

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