Hilary Gridley is the Head of Core Product at WHOOP and a passionate thought leader in leveraging AI to elevate product teams and management practices. With extensive experience tackling challenging problems in regulated industries and high-stakes environments, Hilary emphasizes the importance of building resilience and adaptability within teams. Previously, she was a senior director of product at Big Health) and a senior product marketing manager at Dropbox.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
• How to teach your team to be able to “take a punch”
• Specific tactics to counter negative perceptions and reframe setbacks productively
• Powerful behavioral strategies to form positive habits
• Practical approaches for creating space in your workday to encourage creativity and deep thinking
• The underestimated potential of AI in accelerating your personal and professional growth
• Why you’re not the protagonist at your company (and why that’s liberating)
• How WHOOP uses reward loops to drive real behavior change
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Where to find Hilary Gridley:
• X: https://x.com/yourgirlhils)
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hilarygridley/)
• Newsletter: https://hils.substack.com/)
• Maven course: https://maven.com/hilary-gridley/ai-powered-people-management)
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• Newsletter: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com)
• X: https://twitter.com/lennysan)
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lennyrachitsky/)
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In this episode, we cover:
(00:00) Hilary’s background
(04:31) Teaching teams to handle criticism and setbacks
(17:57) Behavioral activation and mental health in the workplace
(22:59) The importance of putting yourself out there
(27:51) Transparency and communication in leadership
(38:10) How to respectfully disagree with your manager
(41:49) How to use “magic questions” to decode how people think
(49:54) Why you’re not the protagonist at your company
(52:48) Aligning with the CEO's vision
(01:01:02) Building effective habits
(01:11:14) Promoting team well-being
(01:14:28) Creating space for creativity
(01:20:45) AI’s role in accelerating learning
(01:30:35) Pivotal career moments
(01:37:21) Lessons from failure
(01:39:49) Exciting new features of WHOOP 5.0
(01:44:19) Lightning round and final thoughts
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Referenced:
• How to become a supermanager with AI: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/how-to-become-a-supermanager-with)
• How custom GPTs can make you a better manager | Hilary Gridley (Head of Core Product at Whoop): https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/how-custom-gpts-can-make-you-a-better-manager)
• WHOOP: https://www.whoop.com/)
• Big Health: https://www.bighealth.com/)
• What is behavioral activation?: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/behavioral-activation)
• Will Ahmed on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/willahmed/)
• Joe Gebbia on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jgebbia/)
• Zach Abrams on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/zacharyabrams/)
• Coinbase: https://www.coinbase.com/)
• Bridge: https://www.bridge.xyz/)
• Stripe: https://stripe.com/)
• The paths to power: How to grow your influence and advance your career | Jeffrey Pfeffer (author of 7 Rules of Power, professor at Stanford GSB): https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/the-paths-to-power-jeffrey-pfeffer)
• Paths to Power course: https://jeffreypfeffer.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/Pfeffer-OB377-Course-Outline-2018.pdf)
• VO₂ max: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/VO2_max)
• Peter Attia on X: https://x.com/PeterAttiaMD)
• Hilary Gridley’s 30 days of GPT: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1zJ4rbi9YcQuGqGxc6-AQD0-44oT9l4Eyono0AdpgJbA/edit?gid=0#gid=0)
• The Handle Bar in Boston: https://www.thehandlebarstudios.com/ourstudios/charlestown)
• From chalkboards to chatbots: Transforming learning in Nigeria, one prompt at a time: https://blogs.worldbank.org/en/education/From-chalkboards-to-chatbots-Transforming-learning-in-Nigeria)
• Product Management Logic Coach GPT: https://chatgpt.com/g/g-673290301700819084afa36bdbcdfa3b-product-management-logic-coach)
• Dropbox: https://www.dropbox.com/)
• WHOOP Advanced Labs: https://www.whoop.com/us/en/waitlist/?srsltid=AfmBOor2pP5qC3n7I23Z0ZIrYE99CjAKT9xSHQxbuyxmz_wFUBGH3e-n)
• Negative capability: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negative_capability)
• John Keats: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Keats)
• The Rehearsal: https://www.hbo.com/the-rehearsal)
• Zwift: https://www.zwift.com/)
• Beavis and Butthead Do ‘Creep’: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zv_gSmH0Ieg)
• “Sea Grapes” by Derek Walcott: https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/57111/sea-grapes)
• Free month of WHOOP: https://join.whoop.com/us/en/hilary/)
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Recommended books:
• 7 Rules of Power: https://jeffreypfeffer.com/books/7-rules-of-power/)
• Outlive: The Science and Art of Longevity: https://www.amazon.com/Outlive-Longevity-Peter-Attia-MD/dp/0593236599)
• East of Eden: https://www.amazon.com/East-Eden-John-Steinbeck-Centennial/dp/0142004235)
• The Sun Also Rises: https://www.amazon.com/Sun-Also-Rises-Hemingway-Library/dp/1501121960/)
• Anna Karenina: https://www.amazon.com/Anna-Karenina-Leo-Tolstoy/dp/0143035002)
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