How to Become What You Want to Manifest
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Today I want to show you how to become what you want to manifest. And now you might be saying, Sebastian, how dare you? You call me a thing. I'm not a thing. I'm a person. How dare you say how to become what you want to manifest and not who you want to manifest? Well, both of these ways of seeing it are correct.

To give you an example, if you want to manifest abundance, let's say you want to be a millionaire. Let's use this as an example for this episode because, well, it's something that I'm in the process of manifesting. So for the sake of this episode, let's use this as an example because it's a very simple goal, a very clear goal. And yeah, it's a very clear affirmation for your mental diet. So let's use that as an example.

how to become what you want to manifest. I want to be somebody who has a million dollars. Which means: What I want to manifest is a state in which I have these million dollars. But in the same way, who I want to manifest is myself

in this future potential, is myself in this millionaire potential that I want to draw to me from the quantum field. And the same is true if you want to manifest a loving relationship. You have to become what you want to manifest, which means you have to become the personification of love. But at the same time, who you want to manifest in this case is you being in that potential of a relationship.

The same is true for physical healing. What you want to manifest is a healed body, but who you want to manifest is you in that potential as somebody who is healed. And that's why it's so important to mention both of these words. Now you might be saying, oh Sebastian, that's just semantics. Nope, it's more than that. It's about realizing that you have to become somebody else.

It's not enough to meditate and to affirm and to then say, okie dokie, I am a millionaire. You have to go deeper than that. You have to become that which you want to manifest. And that which you want to manifest is you being in the state of

A millionaire. And of course, I want to say it again, I'm going to use this as an example right now for this episode, but you can replace it with whatever you want to manifest. If it's a loving relationship, if it's physical healing, if it's a certain experience. So let's go through the process. Neville Goddard talks about that you have to change your conception of yourself. That is also often described as your self-concept.

And that's exactly what we have to work on. We have to work on changing your self-concept in a way that it completely falls into alignment with the million dollars that we use as an example for this episode. So when it comes to your self-concept, your self-concept and this basically means who you are and then also in a sense who you want to manifest and what you want to manifest.

It's based on your feelings, on your thoughts, on your beliefs, on your perceptions of yourself and the world around you. And also, and this is something that so many people on this journey forget about, and yes, that's why I have to be passionate while talking about it, the way you act.

And I want to talk about this first, because it's so important. You most likely have heard me talk about beliefs and emotions and perceptions and feelings all the time, but you acting as a millionaire, this is so crucial. If I only say I'm a millionaire and I feel myself into it, but then I make choices every day that somebody who's truly financially abundant would never ever make, then I'm sending mixed signals into the quantum field.

To give you a very simple example, I affirm all day long, I'm a millionaire. I'm a millionaire. I am a millionaire. I am a millionaire. And then I'm in a restaurant with my friends and I have the choice between two dishes. One is the dish that I really want and the second one is a dish that I don't want. But the first one that I want is $5 more expensive than the second one. And I then say, hmm.

Hmm, okay, I guess I take the second one. Yeah, let's settle on that. Would somebody who has a million dollars in the bank who's truly abundant do that?

Of course not. They would go to the restaurant and they would order what they want to order. And please keep in mind that doesn't mean that you now have to go full into that experience and take it to a level where you're no longer comfortable, where you then sit in the best restaurants, order the lobster all day long, because it's the most expensive item on the menu, even though you hate lobster. That's not what I'm talking about. That also doesn't mean that you have to eat out every day now. Start small.

Every manifestation, every transformation starts with a simple step. And this step means that you step out of your old self. And yes, this is sometimes so deeply ingrained in us that we really...

have to give us a little bit of a wake-up call. Because I still remember, even when I was then manifesting decent money, and by decent I mean around $10,000 a month, which is very, very decent for a lot of people, especially when you come from the reality that I came from, where I never really made more

more than $1,000 a month, or if I made more than $1,000 a month, then I immediately lost it again as an entrepreneur. And it took a while for me to catch up to that reality that I'm now abundant. And every now and then, yes, I admit that as a manifestation coach, every now and then I fall into old patterns, because well, I'm a human being, and we all do that.

But then I pull myself out of it again. Just like Joe Dispenza says it. He says, I react all the time. But it doesn't matter if you react in that moment. It matters how long you react and to shorten that refractory period. And he also says that what if you go back to the old self a little bit, then just start doing the work again. It is okay. And I had these moments. I mean, even recently, which was really funny for me to catch where I was choosing between two different hotels.

And one of the hotel rooms was $150 a night and the other one was $180 a night. And I really wanted to stay in the one that's $180 a night. And I was then for a moment contemplating, yeah, should I take this one or that one? I don't know. What would be the better choice?

And then I snapped myself out of it. I literally snapped with my fingers. And I was like, dude, what are you doing? You're so abundant. You're making 20k a month. Often nowadays more than 20k. In fact, a lot more. So what are you doing here? Come on, you're abundant. But it's so interesting how that old self every now and then goes like, hello, hello, hello, I'm there. So that's what I want you to remember. If you're at the moment not making a lot of money, then step out of this old self and

slowly. To give you an example, when it comes to giving, I believe in giving. I believe in giving to people, helping people, making the lives of people better, making them smile. I just believe in that. I believe that the more you give, the more you signal to the universe, hey, I'm truly abundant. But if you're now on this journey and you want to become a millionaire, or maybe you just want to have your first $10,000 or $100,000 in the bank account,

and you then feel very uncomfortable with giving a lot, then give very small amounts. It's okay to give a little tip here and there. Or to even if you give $5 to a charity that you believe in, that is okay. You don't have to feel bad about this. I actually had quite a few clients who felt bad for giving just a little bit.

And then, of course, you're restricting the flow of abundance again because you introduce negative emotions into the giving process. And then, of course, the abundance can't flow to you. Remember that manifesting is not about boosting your ego and saying, I've given more than the other person. And also, oh my God, if I don't give more,

just a little bit and I'm a bad person. No, you are not. It's okay. Everybody has a different starting position. That's why I said in the beginning of my abundance journey, before I reached the amazing number that I now reach, which is half a million dollars, before I reached this number, when I had less than $1,000 in my bank account, I mean, I couldn't afford a fancy meal at a restaurant. So I ordered the French fries and I went to the better restaurant to feel abundant, to soak in the energy. But

these actions matter and also ask yourself in the morning,

how would a millionaire walk? How would a millionaire dress? And that doesn't mean that you have to run around like some weirdo in a Gucci suit. That's not what I'm talking about. But that you, I mean, if you're running around in a Gucci suit, please don't be offended. But I think it's kind of weird in these colored Gucci suits to say, oh, I can wear Gucci. But anyway, it could be simply you walking around with more confidence with a linen shirt, or even if it's just a $5 black t-shirt, if you feel good in it.

It doesn't have to be fancy-pantsy, always keep that in mind. It can be very laid-back. I mean, for me nowadays, if I have my Birkenstocks and my short pants, this for me signals, hey, dude, you're so abundant, you don't have to go to an office. So it can also be that kind of style. But remember, to become what you want to manifest, you truly and fully and completely have to become that which you want to manifest. You have to become that person.

And then of course, the more you step into that reality every day of dressing like it, speaking like it, making decisions like the person you want to become, like the millionaire, that's when this reality will then come to you. That's when you draw the potential from the quantum field to you. And in week number three of my Abundance Reality Shift coaching program, we're going to dive deep into this creation process. We're going to create your new self. We're going to step into that new self.

We're going to define in the tiniest detail your abundant self. And we also practice with method acting techniques so that you can fully immerse yourself in that new self, that you can then practice it every single day. And this is a truly transformative experience. And if you're ready to work with me one-on-one on making this experience your reality, you can go to affirmation2manifestation.com slash abundance or click on the first link in the description to find out more.

And then remember that during this process of you becoming what you want to manifest, you also want to change your environment. And I know that right now in your physical reality, this might not immediately be possible. But at some point, the more you immerse yourself into acting like it and feeling like it and becoming it, the more it will be possible, which means to surround yourself with people who

who are abundant with more and more abundant energy. I mean, I already mentioned that it's a good idea to go to environments where there's a lot of money in abundance. But also keep in mind that meetups, for example, a lot of real estate investment meetups or

a lot of these free meetups where they then have an upsell for you, where they want you to spend $10,000 on a certain software, that the initial meetup itself is free. And you don't have to feel guilty to go there, even if you don't have the intention to buy that $10,000 stock software or whatever they're selling. For example, I still remember how at the beginning of my abundance journey, I went to one of these free seminars for...

from, what's that guy's name again? I don't remember the name, but from Rich Dad Poor Dad, this book that I've read years ago. And I went to the seminar, and it was all about pitching that kind of software that they had, if I remember correctly. And of course, I didn't buy the software. But I went there to talk to people, and some of them were already quite successful. So that's something that you can do. You can go to meetups of remote workers, of

digital nomads, you can go to meetups for investing for everything. I mean, they have Facebook groups, their meetup groups, they're all these kind of events that you can go to. And you can then also walk around just walk in a neighborhood that is more wealthy, that is more abundant, like just soak in the energy. And then remember that by you combining the environment,

With the action steps, with the right people, with the beliefs and emotions of how would you feel as a millionaire, what would you believe as a millionaire, what choices would you make every day as a millionaire, that then this reality can and will flow to you.

And that's what I wanted to share with you today. And of course, I also want to invite you that if you're ready to find out more about my 11 Days to Manifestation Mastery program, which is my audio program that contains practical exercises, detailed lectures, and powerful hypnosis, you can go to affirmation2manifestation.com slash mastery or click on the second link in the description. In fact,

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