The Way You Look at Others Manifests Your Reality
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The way you look at others manifests your reality. Here's what Neville Goddard said: "If a man looks upon any other man and estimates that man as less than himself, he is stealing the other's birthright, that of equality." And this is a powerful sentence and while I was reading and then re-reading this sentence again and again, I also thought about it from a different perspective.

And that's that if you look upon any other person and you estimate that person is less than yourself, then yes, as Neville Goddard says it here, you are stealing from the other. You are stealing the other's birthright, that of equality. But you're also stealing from yourself because remember, we are all one. We are all interconnected. The world is you pushed out.

in the same way as the world responds to you. You respond in a certain way to the world. And if you respond to the world in a way that is not in alignment with your desire, then the world will respond to you with the exact same energy. So for example:

Let's say you want to manifest a loving relationship and you have this desire, you feel lonely, you feel alone, you want to get out of this state of lack and you then focus on manifesting a loving relationship. That's your goal. You really want to have this loving relationship. So what do you do now? How do you manifest it?

you manifest it by, yes, going into the imaginal act, of course, and also by feeling the feeling of the wish fulfilled. Yes, that is true. But you also manifest it by looking at people who are in a loving relationship in a certain way. Because if you look at a happy couple,

and you look at this couple in a judgmental way, then of course the universe can only respond in that same energy, which will not lead to a loving relationship. You might attract somebody, but this person will then judge you all the time, because that's the energy you send out. Because if you look at another person, and you see this person as less than yourself,

then this energy will bite you in the butt again. That's the best way of formulating it. Because think about it this way. If you, for example, walk down the street and you then see a happy couple and they are smiling, and even if it's just a small thing, let's say one person has a tattoo or has multiple tattoos, and you then say, and you maybe not say it out loud, but in your mind you go...

How does that person have a fulfilling relationship and I don't?

Or this person has some piercings, or this person has a different skin color than you, or this person comes out of a sports car and you're judging because of that. And you're then saying: "Oh, you know, they are only together because he has money." Or you might consider another person more attractive and you see them with a partner and you say: "Yeah, I can know it's because they are beautiful and if I had that beauty then I would also be in a loving relationship."

This is a place of judgment, that's a place of lack, that's a place of scarcity. If you think about people in this way, no matter if it's skin color, if it's tattoos, if it's piercings, if it's money, if it's beauty, whatever it might be, whatever might trigger you feeling these negative emotions, you are separated from the loving relationship you want. You are completely disconnected from it.

I mean, this is something that, for example, Joe Dispenza also mentioned in one of the advanced retreats I went to, where he said, how can you possibly imagine that the divine finds you, that the divine comes to you, if you can't even look past another person's skin color? That's not how it works. That's not divine.

If you want to manifest a loving relationship and you're judging people when you see happy couples, no matter if it's about the couple, again, if it's about the skin color, the piercings, whatever it might be, then you're separated from the reality that you want.

The same is true when it comes to physical healing. If you are currently bedridden and you are then looking at people who are healthy, who are enjoying their life, and you find ways to judge them and to say, oh, that person is a horrible human being, how dare they be healthy, and I am here suffering.

And this is actually something, believe it or not, that I was struggling with at the beginning of my physical healing journey because I was blaming everybody. I was blaming my parents for bringing me into this world. I was blaming society. I was blaming, yeah, everyone. And I was then, I still remember that so vividly. That's why I want to share this now with you. I remember how I was watching some YouTube video. I don't even know how I came to watch it, but I guess the universe wanted me to wake up in this moment.

from some really rude person who was harassing people for clicks like I don't know how this video found me but it had to find me in this moment or yeah not really harassing but he was just being I don't know a dumbass is that the right way of saying it it's hard to describe but he was just doing some stupid pranks that were yeah not really funny and that were annoying people so anyway

This YouTube video found me at this stage. And I still remember how I was thinking back then, "Oh, this person is healthy, this person is enjoying their life, and I'm here, bedridden? That's unfair. That's not fair."

And from this energy, I was of course not able to create healing. I was not able to create physical well-being, because I was in separation. I was focused on this person in a judgmental way. And from this energy, you can create wholeness. That's not the divine energy. And I know that it's very tempting, because so much content nowadays, I mean, not just nowadays, but

Throughout history, throughout every time period, it's all about negativity because it speaks to our survival instinct, which means, oh my God, if we know that, then we are more likely to survive. That's why negative news are so addictive. It's for that simple reason, because our...

Reptile brain in a sense thinks: "Okay, if I know this fact, then I'm more likely to survive." That's why it's so addictive. But by you going into these negative energies and by you looking at other people as less than you, you are only hurting yourself. And of course, you're also hurting these people, don't get me wrong. As Neville Goddard says here, you are stealing from them, you're stealing the other's birthright and that of equality. But you're also hurting yourself in the process.

And that's why my spiritual mentor said these beautiful words at the beginning of my manifestation journey. She said that somebody who's truly spiritual looks at a billionaire and at a beggar in the exact same way, with the same empathy, the same understanding. And she even said that we can bow in front of the beggar to show, and now I try to translate it from German, I would say,

admiration to show humility. I hope these are the right words for the tough situation that they're in. And this truly opened my heart back then. And I promised myself, I promised myself that no matter how rich I get, I will treat everyone with kindness, everyone with respect, everyone with love.

And this is what distinguishes somebody who's truly spiritual and who then gets guidance and who gets, so to speak, touched by the divine from somebody who stays in this judgmental attitude. I mean, let's take, for example, manifesting money.

If you look at somebody getting out of a sports car and you then say to yourself, look at that rich bastard, I'm convinced that this person is a criminal. That's the only way for them to afford this car. I mean, yeah, that's a very extreme example now, but that's how most people think. This, of course, keeps you separate from the money that you want. Because how can money flow to you when you clearly hate money when you look at that person? That's not how it works.

you're in separation. Or if you see somebody who's more well-off than you, who is in a higher paid profession, higher paid job, whatever it might be, and you look at them with envy, with jealousy, with rage even, or even if it's just like a little dismissive, huh, okay, look at that person. You have to change that. Be happy for the ones who are abundant. Be grateful for their abundance and you are in a state of receivership so that more abundance can find you.

That's how it works. That's how the universe works. And if you want to enter a state of abundance and you're ready to draw more and more money, more and more abundance to you, then I invite you to go to affirmation2manifestation.com slash abundance or to click on the first link in the description to find out more about my 8-week abundance reality shift coaching program because you are worthy of living an abundant life. You are worthy of living a life full of abundance. And

you are also worthy of remembering that whenever you are looking at somebody, the way you look at them, the way you think about them and the way you feel about them influences not just their birthright, that of equality, but also it influences your manifestation and the way you feel about yourself,

the way you feel about your own worthiness of manifesting what you want, no matter if you're consciously aware of it or not, it will impact you. So always remember that the way you look at others manifests your reality. And that's what I wanted to share with you today.