Why Letting Go of 'How' is The Ultimate Manifestation Hack
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Today I want to show you why letting go of "how" is the ultimate manifestation hack and is a true superpower for everybody who wants to manifest their dream life. Because one of the biggest mistakes that people make is to obsess over the "how".

which means how does my manifestation show up in my physical reality and even Neville Goddard said no man knows how the manifestation will show up and how it will materialize nobody knows not I not you the only one who knows it is the universe and

The good news is that you don't have to know how your manifestation will show up in your physical reality. It's not a requirement. But of course we human beings are so conditioned biologically to always want to predict everything, because, well, it signals a higher rate of survival if you can predict whether

when the saber-toothed tiger will attack you, then you can get in defense mode and you can defeat the saber-toothed tiger or the T-Rex or whatever is attacking you. So yes, we human beings, we want to predict everything. But in order for you to become successful at manifesting, in order for you to become a powerful creator, you need to step out of the realm of predictability and you need to get comfortable with swimming in the river of change

and the river of change is a river of the unknown. Of course, the best way to predict your future is to create it, as Joe Dispenza always says it so beautifully. However, that doesn't mean that you have to know, or should know, or can know, how you will create your future. It's all about knowing.

what kind of end scenario, what kind of end state. And that sounded now just like some end time movie. But anyway, it's not about this end state where everything goes down the drain. It's about the end state of you being in a fulfilled reality, you living in the beautiful reality you want to live in. And this reality...

will come to you if you only reach the frequency that is in alignment with this reality. For example, you want a loving relationship, the frequency of love. You want to experience physical healing, then we talk about the frequency of wholeness. What about a certain income or a certain net worth, then we're talking about the frequency of abundance.

And by you reaching these frequencies, you then allow the universe to receive that signal and to send signs and synchronicities back to you, or how Neville Goddard calls it, the bridge of incidence will be built for you. So that this bridge will be built, which is a combination of all the signs, synchronicities and serendipities, that you can then easily walk over to the other side, and on the other side, your manifestation waits for you.

Or let's better say the materialization of your manifestation. Because always remember, controlling, or let's say trying to control, because in the end you won't be able to control it anyway, but trying to control the how, shrinks possibility. When you narrow your vision to one path, you cut off possibility.

all the different possibilities that would actually lead you to your desired dream life. And I did the exact same thing at the beginning of my manifestation journey. I had this one struggling business with which I was making less than $1,000 for most month, every now and then more than $1,000 a month, but not a lot more. And I thought in my limited way because...

I couldn't see any other possibilities for my limited money consciousness. I thought, okay, that's the only way for me to get rich, so I will somehow make more money with this struggling business. And I did also make more money with it once I started manifesting, but not as much as I really wanted to make.

But that's when I then changed my perception at some point after having Neville Goddard and Joe Dispenza and everybody in the spiritual realm talk about infinite possibilities. I then said to myself, okay, right now I'm restricting the flow of possibilities. Right now I'm restricting my abundance.

So now, Universe, I proclaim, I hereby proclaim that I'm open to every possibility, to every opportunity. And that's when the synchronicity started to happen. That's when the serendipities reached me. That's when finally all these amazing things that I was desperately looking for were coming to me. And I was like, "Whoa, ho, ho, ho! Where was that all the time?"

And yeah, it wasn't available to me because I was not in a state of receiving these opportunities, these signs, these synchronicities, these direct downloads. Because I had said to the universe: "Universe, I know exactly how my abundance will come to me. It will be with this one struggling business and this will be a wonderful business." And the universe was facepalming itself and saying: "Dude, I'm ready to send you all these possibilities, all these opportunities.

But you have to be open to them. So remember that trying to control the how will only shrink your ability to draw your abundance to you because it shrinks possibility. And attachment to the how also signals something that is in complete misalignment with your desired reality. And that's doubt.

Because if you truly believe that your manifestation is already in your physical reality, that you've already claimed it, that you are the abundant self that you want to be, that you are that which you want to manifest, you wouldn't care about the how, because you feel it's already there. But trying to control how it happens means that you don't believe that it will happen, unless you force it to happen.

And it also signals mistrust or at least a level of doubt in the universe. And that's not something that the universe likes. Because yes, think about it, you are doubting the universe whenever you say: "Oh, I have to control how it comes to me." This means that you want to take away the so important job of the universe. You want to do the universe's work. But you have to do your work in the spiritual realm. The universe will take care of the rest.

And by you saying, "How will it come to me? I have to predict how it will come to me." You are sending the signal out into the field, "Universe, I don't really trust you because I need to control it. I don't trust that you will bring it to me in a way that's right for me." That's why letting go creates energetic space. Micro-managing everything leads to a tense and tight energy. But receivership is always open and light.

And that's why surrender is the signal that you're ready to receive. Letting go shows that you believe your desire is already done, it's already there in your physical reality, or at least it's on the way and it's just a matter of time till you experience it. And it also, on top of that, signals that you're ready to work in harmony with the universe, that you see the universe as your ally, as your best buddy,

who brings all the desires you want to you. But if you still say, "Universe..." I mean, you might not say it consciously, but subconsciously you do, whenever you think about the how, or how the manifestation can possibly flow to you, you are saying, "Universe, I don't really trust that you know how to do that. I don't really trust that you can bring what I want to me in a way that's right for me, so... Well, I mean, I guess I have to predict it."

And the only way for you how you can shift into an energy and therefore into a frequency that is in alignment with abundance is if you let go of the obsession with how. Because letting go of this obsession aligns you with flow and not force. And flow is where miracles live. Force is where resistance grows.

And when you then release this resistance, then all the synchronicities, all the signs, all the serendipities, all the direct downloads, all the meetings that you could have not predicted in any way that give you insights how you can create more abundance in your life can and will flow to you, but only then. And then...

you are now ready to receive all these beautiful breadcrumbs, as I always call them, directly from the field. And also keep in mind that every sign, every synchronicity is already by definition an act of the unknown. It's something unpredictable.

predictable. Which means that if you try to predict everything by focusing so much on the how, by being obsessed with the how, you are also sending a signal out into the field that you are not ready for synchronicities, you are not ready for serendipities, you are not ready for direct downloads, because you want to predict everything. And these synchronicities are not predictable. Yes, the bridge of incidence will be built for you,

But how that bridge will be built and how you then walk over this bridge with these signs and ideas and direct downloads, you don't know. And that's something that Joe Dispenza knows, it's something that Neville Goddard knew, and it's something that I know from my own experience, and of course also from having helped so many people to completely transform their lives and to now live abundant lives. And they all at some point had to let go of this fixation with the how.

how things will flow to you. You just don't know, you don't have to know. Enjoy the process and let's be honest, I mean, if you then immerse yourself in this process of manifesting, at some point you will enjoy the fact that you can predict it.

because it still leaves me in awe when I think about all the amazing synchronicities and ideas and downloads that I receive all the time. And that makes manifesting fun. And that's what I wanted to share with you today. And if you're ready to work with me on creating the abundant dream life you've always wanted,

I invite you to go to affirmation2manifestation.com slash abundance or to click on the first link in the description to find out more about my 8-week Abundance Reality Shift coaching program. And of course, you can also click on the second link in the description or go to affirmation2manifestation.com slash mastery

to find out more about my audio program. And if you want to first book an individual coaching session with me, you can also go to affirmation2manifestation.com slash coaching or affirmation2manifestation.com slash session.