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#165. Gabor Holch: On The Beach

2025/1/25
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Gabor Holch: 我最近经历了人生的低谷，这让我意识到感恩和保持积极心态的重要性。我将生活中的困境视为一种叙事，这有助于我从不同的角度看待问题，并从中吸取经验教训。自雇让我能够掌控自己的生活，选择自己想做的事情，并承担相应的后果。AI正在改变我们的工作方式，我们需要思考如何更好地利用AI，并确保其伦理和效率。清晰的人生目标能够帮助我们更好地组织生活，避免迷茫和倦怠。找到人生目标的方法是区分哪些因素是无法改变的，哪些因素是可以改变的。先天条件会限制我们的选择，但我们也可以通过改变环境或学习新技能来拓展可能性。我们可能因为环境的负面反馈而压抑了自己的天赋和愿望，需要通过自我解放来发现和发展它们。人生中需要平衡控制和人际关系，我的父母更注重人际关系，给了我很多自由去探索。无论父母的养育方式如何，成年后我们都会对他们的养育方式有所评价。不同的父母养育方式与孩子的个性类型相结合，会产生不同的结果，没有绝对的优劣之分。人们总是追求更多，并容易忽略自己已经拥有的东西。面对选择困境，我们可以选择改变现状或改变心态，停止对未拥有之物的渴望。清晰的人生目标能够帮助我们更好地掌控人生，避免生活被外界因素所左右。我们总是渴望更多，这可能源于人类进化过程中对资源的追求。人类对信息的渴求和对威胁的感知是根植于大脑中的本能反应。一些基本情绪，如厌恶，其进化优势是显而易见的，而另一些情绪，如嫉妒，则难以解释。人类的一切都始于反思，反思是理解自身和解决问题的关键。人们对自身及他人行为的评判往往基于主观期望，容易引发焦虑和恐慌。高管教练的工作是帮助高管们反思现状，并找到改进的方向，但需要谨慎处理与工作无关的个人问题。高管教练与生活教练的区别在于，高管教练主要关注与工作相关的问题，而生活教练则关注更广泛的个人问题。保持谦逊，不断反思自己的观点，对承担责任的人尤为重要。在工作中，像孩子玩耍一样投入其中，才能取得真正的成功。 Justin: (与Gabor Holch的讨论互动，表达对Gabor观点的认同和补充，并分享自身经验) Aric: (与Gabor Holch和Justin的讨论互动，表达对Gabor观点的认同和补充，并分享自身经验)

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Gabor Holch describes a challenging period for his family, involving difficulties in his personal and professional life. He emphasizes the importance of gratitude and using a narrative perspective to cope with these challenges. He highlights the benefits of self-employment in allowing him to prioritize and neglect aspects of his life.
  • Difficult time for Gabor's family (Chinese, Hungarian, and their own family)
  • Practicing gratitude
  • Using a narrative perspective to cope with challenges
  • Benefits of self-employment: prioritizing and neglecting aspects of life

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As we head into Chinese New Year, return guest and intercultural leadership coach Gabor Holch joins Justin and Aric for a thought-provoking conversation on self-reflection, leadership, and the human condition. Gabor shares how gratitude and perspective helped him overcome recent challenges while embracing the freedom of self-employment. Together, we explore the impact of AI on work, the influence of parenting styles on personal development, the roots of envy and why the grass always seems greener on the other side. Gabor emphasizes the importance of questioning beliefs, practicing humility, and fostering open-mindedness to bridge cultural divides, especially regarding perceptions of China. Packed with Gabor’s insights and stories, this episode offers practical wisdom for anyone looking to grow as a leader and individual.  Happy new year...

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