Queena chose to work in Iran because she wanted to break free from her comfort zone and avoid dependency on anyone. She had two offers—one in Iran and one in Canada—and she chose Iran to challenge herself in a completely unfamiliar environment.
During her six-week internship in Iran, Queena helped her boss secure multi-million dollar deals, primarily selling pistachios. Recognizing her value, she negotiated a significant commission and eventually acquired the company she interned at.
Queena retired after ten years of work because she had achieved financial freedom, earning enough money to support her lifestyle. She transitioned into a semi-retirement state, working only about 50 minutes a week while focusing on personal fulfillment.
After retirement, Queena's lifestyle became more relaxed and routine-driven. She spends her days meditating, reading, exercising, and enjoying time with her husband, a stark contrast to her previously hectic, globe-trotting work schedule.
Queena converted to Buddhism because she resonated with its teachings on compassion, wisdom, and the pursuit of enlightenment. She saw Buddhism as a way to cultivate a kind heart and benefit others, aligning with her personal values.
When her AI company faced a crisis due to a bank collapse, Queena had to lay off 80% of the staff. She helped the affected employees find new jobs by leveraging her network and offered free business consulting to companies that hired her former employees.
Queena initially applied nonviolent communication techniques to her workplace, which helped her resolve conflicts and improve relationships. Later, she used these skills to address deeper issues in her personal life, particularly in her intimate relationships.
Queena and her husband, Yannick, developed a deeply connected relationship through constant, meaningful conversations and mutual support. Yannick transformed physically and emotionally, becoming healthier and more confident, which strengthened their bond.
Queena advises recent graduates to spend time understanding their true desires and motivations. She suggests exploring opportunities in overseas markets, similar to Japan's experience, and emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and courage in making career choices.
Queena views her past struggles and pain as sources of strength and wisdom. She believes that overcoming these challenges has shaped her into a resilient and compassionate person, allowing her to navigate life with greater clarity and purpose.
【内容简介】本期节目邀请到我的挚友——Queena聊聊她的人生经历。一位在工作十年后赚够了一辈子的钱开始退休的AI公司创始人,是个素食佛教徒,有个会做饭洗碗的帅气老公……但这些标签是她带着爱与耐心拆解一个个伤口后生命的褒奖。如她所说,我是她亲密关系痛点时刻出现的救命稻草,而她也是我生命中启明星般的存在,希望我们的对谈给予你启发与力量,活出自己的生命。 【摘要】 00:01:51 是凉意的学生也是挚友,集齐爽文元素的嘉宾Queena 00:03:16 职业生涯关键词:伊朗实习收购公司、回国AI创业、工作十年退休 00:06:34 退休前的生活状态VS退休后的routine 00:12:20养育健康幸福小孩的核心是成为拥有创造幸福能力的家长 00:16:15 为什么大学毕业只考虑出国的工作并选了伊朗 00:20:16 Queena在伊朗实习六周收购公司的闯关经历 00:32:15 Queena决定皈依佛教的初衷 00:39:40 皈依佛教的 Queena如何在残酷的商业战场守持内心,修行自我? 00:45:00 善护念与福报的发生:当银行停摆公司被迫裁员80% 00:59:10 在亲密关系巨大痛点的时刻去找凉意学习,却用非暴力沟通扫平职场 01:06:29 Queena如何让荷兰老公变帅,厨艺变好?——又一个善护念的实例 01:12:16 从卷王模式过渡到chill退休模式背后是好奇心驱动力模式的转变 01:19:15 助人但不圣母,护持但不喂饭 01:23:25 带着现有智慧的Queena重新毕业会先做什么? 01:27:30 非暴力沟通真的可以做到健康爱人与为他人给我的爱除杂 01:32:32 做彼此的启明星,成为如启明星般的引路人 【开场、过场、结尾音乐】 Amani|Beyond| Beyond 25th Anniversary 【主播】 凉意 | 非暴力沟通教育工作者|亲密关系教育工作者 | 心理咨询师 微信公众号:“有点凉意”、“启盒练爱” 【剪辑】Daisy;凉意 非常期待你的留言和反馈! —————————————————————— 【超智游戏ComplexGame听友群】 想加入听友群的听众朋友请搜,微信号:13355214008 注明听众