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E172 向内看,看更深,走出去,去更远|Queena

2024/12/15
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Queena: 我在工作十年后实现了财务自由,选择退休。我的职业生涯经历丰富,包括在伊朗实习期间收购公司,回国后创办AI公司,以及现在运营一家咨询公司。我的成功并非偶然,而是源于我始终保持理性,并不断学习和成长。我皈依佛教,这帮助我保持内心的平静和慈悲,即使在残酷的商业竞争中也能保持善良。在亲密关系中,我学习并应用非暴力沟通,这使我和我的伴侣的关系更加和谐美满。我的人生经历充满挑战,但这些挑战也让我不断成长,最终获得自由和幸福。 我的人生中有很多重要的转折点,例如父亲去世、选择去伊朗工作、皈依佛教以及决定退休。这些经历都让我更加了解自己,也让我更加坚定地走自己的路。我曾经是一个工作狂,几乎没有休息时间,但现在我拥有了时间和精神上的自由,生活更加轻松和充实。 我的人生哲学是:保持理性,保持善良,不断学习和成长。我从不害怕挑战,因为我知道痛苦能够让我变得更强大。我帮助过很多人,也从中获得了福报。我的人生目标是做一个善良的人,利益众生。 凉意: Queena 的经历非常励志,她十年工作后财务自由退休,这体现了她强大的能力和智慧。她的故事告诉我们,成功需要理性、善良和不断学习。她的经历也让我对亲密关系和自我成长有了新的理解。Queena 的成功并非偶然,她经历了父亲去世、在异国他乡工作等诸多挑战,但她始终保持积极乐观的心态,并不断学习和成长。她皈依佛教,这让她保持内心的平静和慈悲。她学习并应用非暴力沟通,这使她和伴侣的关系更加和谐。Queena 的故事告诉我们,即使在残酷的商业竞争中,也能保持善良,并获得成功。 Queena 的故事也让我对亲密关系有了新的理解。她与伴侣之间深入的灵魂交流,以及互相支持和鼓励,让他们的关系更加和谐美满。她的故事也让我对自我成长有了新的认识。她不断地反思和总结经验,并从痛苦中学习,最终获得了自由和幸福。 Queena 的经历值得我们学习和借鉴。她的故事告诉我们,成功需要努力,更需要智慧和善良。她的故事也给我们带来了希望和力量,让我们相信,只要我们坚持不懈,就能实现自己的梦想。

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Why did Queena choose to work in Iran after graduation?

Queena chose to work in Iran because she wanted to break free from her comfort zone and avoid dependency on anyone. She had two offers—one in Iran and one in Canada—and she chose Iran to challenge herself in a completely unfamiliar environment.

What was Queena's experience like during her six-week internship in Iran?

During her six-week internship in Iran, Queena helped her boss secure multi-million dollar deals, primarily selling pistachios. Recognizing her value, she negotiated a significant commission and eventually acquired the company she interned at.

What motivated Queena to retire after ten years of work?

Queena retired after ten years of work because she had achieved financial freedom, earning enough money to support her lifestyle. She transitioned into a semi-retirement state, working only about 50 minutes a week while focusing on personal fulfillment.

How did Queena's lifestyle change after retirement?

After retirement, Queena's lifestyle became more relaxed and routine-driven. She spends her days meditating, reading, exercising, and enjoying time with her husband, a stark contrast to her previously hectic, globe-trotting work schedule.

Why did Queena decide to convert to Buddhism?

Queena converted to Buddhism because she resonated with its teachings on compassion, wisdom, and the pursuit of enlightenment. She saw Buddhism as a way to cultivate a kind heart and benefit others, aligning with her personal values.

How did Queena handle a major crisis in her AI company involving layoffs?

When her AI company faced a crisis due to a bank collapse, Queena had to lay off 80% of the staff. She helped the affected employees find new jobs by leveraging her network and offered free business consulting to companies that hired her former employees.

What role did nonviolent communication play in Queena's life?

Queena initially applied nonviolent communication techniques to her workplace, which helped her resolve conflicts and improve relationships. Later, she used these skills to address deeper issues in her personal life, particularly in her intimate relationships.

How did Queena's relationship with her husband evolve over time?

Queena and her husband, Yannick, developed a deeply connected relationship through constant, meaningful conversations and mutual support. Yannick transformed physically and emotionally, becoming healthier and more confident, which strengthened their bond.

What advice would Queena give to recent graduates today?

Queena advises recent graduates to spend time understanding their true desires and motivations. She suggests exploring opportunities in overseas markets, similar to Japan's experience, and emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and courage in making career choices.

How does Queena view her past struggles and pain?

Queena views her past struggles and pain as sources of strength and wisdom. She believes that overcoming these challenges has shaped her into a resilient and compassionate person, allowing her to navigate life with greater clarity and purpose.

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本期节目邀请Queena分享她十年职业生涯:从伊朗实习到收购公司,再到回国AI创业,最终在十年后财务自由退休。她的人生经历如同爽文,但背后是她对伤痛的疗愈与成长。
  • 十年职业生涯,财务自由退休
  • 伊朗实习期间收购公司
  • AI公司创始人
  • 皈依佛教,素食

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【内容简介】本期节目邀请到我的挚友——Queena聊聊她的人生经历。一位在工作十年后赚够了一辈子的钱开始退休的AI公司创始人,是个素食佛教徒,有个会做饭洗碗的帅气老公……但这些标签是她带着爱与耐心拆解一个个伤口后生命的褒奖。如她所说,我是她亲密关系痛点时刻出现的救命稻草,而她也是我生命中启明星般的存在,希望我们的对谈给予你启发与力量,活出自己的生命。 【摘要】 00:01:51 是凉意的学生也是挚友,集齐爽文元素的嘉宾Queena 00:03:16 职业生涯关键词:伊朗实习收购公司、回国AI创业、工作十年退休 00:06:34 退休前的生活状态VS退休后的routine 00:12:20养育健康幸福小孩的核心是成为拥有创造幸福能力的家长 00:16:15 为什么大学毕业只考虑出国的工作并选了伊朗   00:20:16  Queena在伊朗实习六周收购公司的闯关经历 00:32:15  Queena决定皈依佛教的初衷 00:39:40  皈依佛教的 Queena如何在残酷的商业战场守持内心,修行自我? 00:45:00  善护念与福报的发生:当银行停摆公司被迫裁员80% 00:59:10  在亲密关系巨大痛点的时刻去找凉意学习,却用非暴力沟通扫平职场 01:06:29   Queena如何让荷兰老公变帅,厨艺变好?——又一个善护念的实例 01:12:16  从卷王模式过渡到chill退休模式背后是好奇心驱动力模式的转变 01:19:15  助人但不圣母,护持但不喂饭 01:23:25  带着现有智慧的Queena重新毕业会先做什么? 01:27:30  非暴力沟通真的可以做到健康爱人与为他人给我的爱除杂 01:32:32  做彼此的启明星,成为如启明星般的引路人 【开场、过场、结尾音乐】 Amani|Beyond| Beyond 25th Anniversary 【主播】 凉意 | 非暴力沟通教育工作者|亲密关系教育工作者 | 心理咨询师 微信公众号:“有点凉意”、“启盒练爱” 【剪辑】Daisy;凉意 非常期待你的留言和反馈! —————————————————————— 【超智游戏ComplexGame听友群】 想加入听友群的听众朋友请搜,微信号:13355214008 注明听众