Life is constantly fluctuating and changing, good things and bad things all of the time. With so many of our lives we live a good life one we rarely ever have to recollect or think about until something bad happens.
In that moment as a negative comes into our lives we have many decisions; happy or sad, angry or accepting. The ultimate realization is that most of the time these negatives are out of our control. A moment in time that leaves us aloof as to the next step.
That moment acts as a piece in time to decide to embrace or discourage your own fate. Accept the moment for what it is and make the most of the opportunity or wallow in it.