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Vol.96|逐格留住美好的画面,是我对无常最尽力的抵抗。

2024/11/21
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一人之境

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阿车:我最近最大的感受就是人总得学会背叛自己一次。这源于我今年二月份辞职后在香港的经历。那段时间我辞去了做了六年的工作,给自己安排了一段自由放空的时间,去香港旅行,看演唱会,看电影。 这段时间让我重新思考自己的人生,也让我怀念当时那种自由自在、无所事事的状态。虽然当时也曾迷茫、焦虑,担心自己做出了错误的决定,但现在回过头来看,那段经历让我有机会去探索新的可能性,去发现自己内心真正的需求。 长期的稳定工作让我习惯了舒适区,也让我失去了对外部世界的感知。在熟悉的环境中,人与人之间的关系过于亲密,反而会掩盖一些问题,让人忽视自身成长的需求。辞职就像一场分手,虽然痛苦,但却是必要的,它让我有机会去重新审视自己,去寻找新的方向。 时间并不能冲淡一切,真正让我释然的是意识到“背叛自己”并没有带来想象中的灾难。反而,它让我获得了更多的自由,认识了更多的人,尝试了不同的工作和身份,让我的人生充满了更多的可能性。 我也想把这段经历分享给那些正在迷茫、痛苦中的人们。不要害怕改变,不要害怕背叛自己,勇敢地去尝试新的事物,去探索新的可能性。生活会给我们答案,好的答案,坏的答案都是答案,重要的是我们要先告诉自己不要一直做着同一份卷子,不要在类似的题目上面一遍又一遍的咬紧鼻头也要责怪自己为什么没有办法记住解题的思路,没有办法很迅速把它做出来。真的,我们的人生不是做题,前面十几二十年大家做的题还不够多吗?现在我很想鼓励大家背叛自己一次,把手上那一份你看似无法摆脱的考卷撕成碎片扔到楼下让它飘在空中,然后我们换上一套自己觉得好看舒服的衣服戴上耳机听着自己兴奋的音乐,然后不用想任何事情就奔向你生活的前方那就够了。很多时候可能性就是因为你做了一个看起来没那么对的决定而开始的。

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Why did the host, Acher, decide to quit his previous job after six years?

Acher decided to quit his previous job because he felt stuck and wanted to explore new opportunities. He had been with the company for six years, and while he had deep connections with his colleagues, he felt the need to break free from the comfort zone and challenge himself. He described the decision as a form of 'betraying himself' to pursue personal growth and new experiences.

What was Acher's emotional state after quitting his job and during his trip to Hong Kong?

Acher experienced a mix of emotions after quitting his job, including guilt, doubt, and a sense of liberation. During his trip to Hong Kong, he filled his schedule with activities like attending concerts and exhibitions to distract himself from the emotional turmoil. He described the experience as similar to a breakup, where he had to convince himself that his decision was the right one despite the pain of leaving behind familiar relationships.

What lesson did Acher learn from his decision to quit his job?

Acher learned that 'betraying himself' by quitting his job did not lead to catastrophic consequences. Instead, it allowed him to explore new possibilities, meet new people, and take on different roles in his career. He realized that stepping out of his comfort zone was necessary for personal growth and that the fear of regret should not hold him back from making bold decisions.

How did Acher's friend cope with being transferred to a new workplace?

Acher's friend struggled with the transition to a new workplace, feeling disconnected from the new team's work style and missing his old colleagues. He frequently met with his former coworkers to reminisce and vent his frustrations, often staying out late to talk. Acher compared this behavior to a child weaning off milk, highlighting the emotional difficulty of leaving a familiar environment.

What insight did Acher gain from watching The Do Show interview with Wong Tze Wah?

Acher gained insight into the importance of stepping out of one's comfort zone from Wong Tze Wah's career journey. Wong transitioned from being an actor to a comedian, then back to acting, and eventually became a successful filmmaker. Acher admired Wong's willingness to embrace change and take risks, which inspired him to reflect on his own decision to leave his previous job and explore new opportunities.

What message does Acher want to convey to listeners about making life decisions?

Acher encourages listeners to 'betray themselves' by making bold decisions that challenge their comfort zones. He emphasizes that life is not about repeating the same patterns or sticking to familiar routines. Instead, it's about embracing uncertainty, taking risks, and discovering new possibilities. He believes that sometimes, the best outcomes arise from decisions that initially seem wrong or risky.

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本期节目分享了主播阿车离开工作六年公司后的心路历程,以及对“背叛自己”这一主题的深刻思考。阿车细致地描述了辞职后的迷茫、痛苦与反思,并鼓励听众勇敢尝试改变,突破舒适圈,寻找新的可能性。
  • 离开待了六年的公司,进入一段自由的过渡期
  • 在香港旅行期间反思辞职决定
  • 将辞职比作“背叛自己”,一种必要的痛苦经历
  • 鼓励听众勇敢尝试改变,突破舒适圈

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主播:Acher/阿车

制作:左右

匆匆忙忙的一周,给各位更新一期“存货”,录制于我的搭档左右出发北海道旅行前。(刚刚回来啦)虽说是存货,但这期播客也记录了我最近想跟听友们分享的心里话。关于工作变动,关于我在经历一些略微痛苦的情感割舍大半年后,终于找到一个向大家倾诉的契机。

本期依旧是在开车通勤路上录制的,稍微升级了一下录音设备,各位听起来可能会更舒服一点。很喜欢加缪在《坠落》里写的:“在我的一生中是有一种伟大的爱情,其对象一直是我本人。”如果你听完这期节目,也许能明白我想表达的主题是什么啦。人总得学会背叛自己一次。

对了,顺便预告一下:如无意外,下周我们将会分享一个好消息。「一人之境」官方周边即将上线啦,除了此前跟大家分享过的同款紫色地毯,还有我们精心筹备一段时间的“办公室挚爱好物”。如果你想拥有,记得留意我们的更新。100期将至,答应给听友「境内人士」们的福利,一定不会忘了的。祝大家11月最后一周顺利。

本期提及歌曲:

Schoolgirl byebye - 爱是

leejean - stupid

I don‘t like mondays. - MOON LIGHT

Delorians - Out of melodies

Nightly - on your sleeve

Cuco - Lo Que Siento

这期就不放shownotes啦,尝试放松地听完吧。