Acher decided to quit his previous job because he felt stuck and wanted to explore new opportunities. He had been with the company for six years, and while he had deep connections with his colleagues, he felt the need to break free from the comfort zone and challenge himself. He described the decision as a form of 'betraying himself' to pursue personal growth and new experiences.
Acher experienced a mix of emotions after quitting his job, including guilt, doubt, and a sense of liberation. During his trip to Hong Kong, he filled his schedule with activities like attending concerts and exhibitions to distract himself from the emotional turmoil. He described the experience as similar to a breakup, where he had to convince himself that his decision was the right one despite the pain of leaving behind familiar relationships.
Acher learned that 'betraying himself' by quitting his job did not lead to catastrophic consequences. Instead, it allowed him to explore new possibilities, meet new people, and take on different roles in his career. He realized that stepping out of his comfort zone was necessary for personal growth and that the fear of regret should not hold him back from making bold decisions.
Acher's friend struggled with the transition to a new workplace, feeling disconnected from the new team's work style and missing his old colleagues. He frequently met with his former coworkers to reminisce and vent his frustrations, often staying out late to talk. Acher compared this behavior to a child weaning off milk, highlighting the emotional difficulty of leaving a familiar environment.
Acher gained insight into the importance of stepping out of one's comfort zone from Wong Tze Wah's career journey. Wong transitioned from being an actor to a comedian, then back to acting, and eventually became a successful filmmaker. Acher admired Wong's willingness to embrace change and take risks, which inspired him to reflect on his own decision to leave his previous job and explore new opportunities.
Acher encourages listeners to 'betray themselves' by making bold decisions that challenge their comfort zones. He emphasizes that life is not about repeating the same patterns or sticking to familiar routines. Instead, it's about embracing uncertainty, taking risks, and discovering new possibilities. He believes that sometimes, the best outcomes arise from decisions that initially seem wrong or risky.
主播:Acher/阿车
制作:左右
匆匆忙忙的一周,给各位更新一期“存货”,录制于我的搭档左右出发北海道旅行前。(刚刚回来啦)虽说是存货,但这期播客也记录了我最近想跟听友们分享的心里话。关于工作变动,关于我在经历一些略微痛苦的情感割舍大半年后,终于找到一个向大家倾诉的契机。
本期依旧是在开车通勤路上录制的,稍微升级了一下录音设备,各位听起来可能会更舒服一点。很喜欢加缪在《坠落》里写的:“在我的一生中是有一种伟大的爱情,其对象一直是我本人。”如果你听完这期节目,也许能明白我想表达的主题是什么啦。人总得学会背叛自己一次。
对了,顺便预告一下:如无意外,下周我们将会分享一个好消息。「一人之境」官方周边即将上线啦,除了此前跟大家分享过的同款紫色地毯,还有我们精心筹备一段时间的“办公室挚爱好物”。如果你想拥有,记得留意我们的更新。100期将至,答应给听友「境内人士」们的福利,一定不会忘了的。祝大家11月最后一周顺利。
本期提及歌曲:
Schoolgirl byebye - 爱是
leejean - stupid
I don‘t like mondays. - MOON LIGHT
Delorians - Out of melodies
Nightly - on your sleeve
Cuco - Lo Que Siento
这期就不放shownotes啦,尝试放松地听完吧。