Listener confessions: My first spanking
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Hello, hello, dear Spanky Next listeners. I'm one of your hosts, Anna. Hey, and I'm Gregor. Spanky Next is the podcast where we talk about all things fetish and BDSM. And this week, we've got something special for you.

We've been recording these episodes for a couple of years now, if I'm not mistaken, Gregor, and there's so many new listeners that we get each month that we want to encourage you to go back and listen to the episodes that we think are really special, that are important at a certain time in the year. So we're going to be reposting old episodes for you to listen to alongside our newer episodes that come out twice a month.

Exactly. These episodes are hand-selected by the two of us and this week's episode is one that we think you should really listen to. So without further ado, let's get into the episode and please enjoy an older episode of Spanky Next. Hi Spanky Next. So here's my first kinky experience.

And my first experience wasn't what I expected at all. And I'll start by saying I have a huge fetish for spanking and for women's lingerie. And those two combined made my experience really outstanding. And yeah, so my first spanking, I'd always been afraid of living out my desires in my hometown because, you know, I was worried I would come across someone I knew or yeah, you know, so...

Yeah, this was about five years ago and I was traveling with work to a German city named Essen and this trip felt like a great way to explore kind of, you know, away from home. And I'm an absolute newbie at this stage. I've got no experience and I had no idea how to find someone to spank me. The only thing that I could imagine was going to a brothel. And yeah, I didn't even know that there were professional dominatrices back then or anything and

It took me two tries even before I even kind of got the courage to go in and enter the brothel. It was this kind of brothel that they call a Laufhaus in Germany and the way it works is the sex workers are standing next to their rooms in a hallway and you walk through the hallway until you find someone that catches your eye and

I saw one woman dressed in like this black net top, latex hot pants, knee-high boots and she just looked, she looked like a dominatrix. I mean it actually turned out that she had never done any kink play with a client but at the time I didn't know that and I told her that I wanted to be spanked. Two minutes later I'm giving her 50 euros for 15 minutes of spanking.

I lay across her lap with my pants pulled down to my knees and she began spanking me with her hand before switching to a soft pink leather paddle which I think was the only BDSM toy that she had. At first it felt great, it felt like all of my desires and fantasies were coming true but about halfway through I started to feel

feel kind of strange and I realized that there was no chemistry between us. Like she didn't say a single word, I didn't say a single word, she didn't change the tempo, she didn't change the strength of the impact. I would call it boring and I made it through the 15 minutes and to be honest I was happy when she told me that our time was up. My bum was bright red and it was warm to touch and I did feel some pain but

it didn't feel satisfying or live up to what I was expecting really and that was my real first time experience but after that I really questioned whether BDSM was right for me and I'd had these fantasies for at least 20 years and if that was everything that I could expect from it then maybe you know it wasn't for me. At that point I left my kinky desires behind for a bit but

The fetish that I had for wearing women's lingerie was growing. And I knew that I was still, you know, deep down kinky at heart and vanilla sex like wasn't going to cut it for me.

So I decided to take a trip to Vienna to visit a BDSM bar called No Limits. Yeah, No Limits in Vienna. The bar was everything that I expected. You know, the atmosphere, the ambiance, there's toys everywhere. There's fetish imagery. There's a TV behind the bar showing a movie of a woman whipping a guy. So I go in, I sat at the bar.

I had a beer and I had no idea what to do. I'm just sitting there drinking my beer. And after some time, I eventually start up a conversation with someone at the bar and I told him that I've got no experience and I wanted to get involved with the local BDSM scene. He asked me what I'm looking for. And he mentioned that he knew one of the female bartenders at the bar really well and that she was a really experienced dominatrix.

And he asked me if he should request a spanking from her for me, like kind of on my behalf. And you know, I didn't know what to say. So I just said, yeah, why not? An hour goes by and nothing happened. I'm just sitting there. And at this point I'm thinking, this is a joke. Like how stupid can someone be to believe that the bartender would spank them like in the bar?

So I decided, I finished my drink and I go to leave and just as I'm about to leave this bartender walks over to me and asks me, "Are you sure that you want to be spanked?" So I whispered, "Yeah." So she tells me to get a chair from the corner. And it was just at this moment that I realized that I'm wearing some pink lace panties. And you know, I normally wore female lingerie when I thought

no one else was really going to see them and suddenly I felt super shy and kind of a bit embarrassed and I tell the bartender like I think you know there's a problem and she asks what problem so I pull the panties the pink panties just above my trousers so that she can see that I'm wearing them and I had no idea like how she was going to react what she was going to think but

To be honest, I got the most reassuring answer that I could have got which was she just said "If it's fine for you, we now at least have a reason why you deserve a spanking" and she pulls out a leather strap and a paddle and she sits down on the chair and then she kind of demands me "Drop your pants to your knees" I obeyed, she pulled me over her lap telling me that I could stop at any time if it gets too intense and the bartender starts slowly with her hand

working up to harder, more painful slaps. I was loving every moment of it. And like I hadn't even noticed that there's other people in the bar that could see us and were staring at us. And she then told me to stand up. I touched my cheeks and they were sizzling with pain. But she asked me if we could go a step further or if we should go a step further with the strap and the paddle. I don't know if I can stand any more pain, but I bent over the chair. She pulled out the strap and started whipping me.

and it sent shivers right down my spine. Then the paddle came out with a few sharp licks and it kind of made me squeal with like sweet pain. It was fucking amazing. After the bartender finished, she hugged me and asked me how I was feeling. And, you know, I'd never even heard of aftercare before, but I, I quickly understood how important it is and how deeply psychological the impact of a session like that can be. And, um,

you know, I think that experience formed my whole relationship with BDSM and how I live it with other people now. So yeah, that's my first King story.

More than just a little tipsy. He got me wise so I won't talk. Hey there girl, give me your cup. I don't think you're strong enough. You're thinking about it way too much.

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