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Mailbag: We answer your kinky questions

2025/1/21
logo of podcast Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast

Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast
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Anna: 我想知道这种渴望是否来自于想要了解他们的受虐者感受。施虐者可能需要克服心理障碍，接受自己可能具有双重倾向的事实。不要强迫受虐者扮演施虐者的角色。施虐者和受虐者承受痛苦的能力没有绝对的强弱之分。这完全取决于你背后的意图。如果你真的对此感到不舒服，那么你必须与你的伴侣进行一次艰难的谈话，并说，你知道，这不是我想要的。你不必这样做，因为别人要求你这样做。 Gregor: 我同意你的说法。我认为这里有一个真正的障碍。我也必须不同意施虐者比受虐者更坚强这一说法。因为通常是谁在承受痛苦？受虐者。我认为，施虐比承受痛苦更容易。接受并认可自己的性取向，只要不伤害他人或违反法律。

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Listeners question if they are a "bad sub" after a negative interaction on a kinky dating website. The hosts emphasize that not all subs are into degradation and that stating boundaries is acceptable. They advise checking out a previous episode about kinky online dating.
  • Not all subs enjoy degradation.
  • Stating boundaries in online dating is crucial.
  • Negotiation and exploration are key in new kinky encounters.

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It's over to you, dear listeners! In this new mailbag episode, Anna and Gregor answer your kinky questions and concerns. 

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