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Episode 223: Feedback rage and making up for lost time

2020/8/17
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Soft Skills Engineering

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In this episode, Dave and Jamison answer these questions:

Questions

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Hello. Thanks for hosting such a great podcast. I recently finished binging all the previous episodes.

I’ve recently noticed in conversations with my team, whether synchronous or asynchronous, after I propose an idea or stake out a position, I easily get defensive if a teammate tries to give feedback on my idea.

I don’t mean to get angry, but I sometimes don’t notice until it’s too late.

I think it has gotten to the point where my teammates might have caught on, and I don’t want this to lead to a state where they never disagree with me.

Have you ever dealt with this, in yourself or others? How have you dealt with changing this mindset?

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My first software developer job lasted two years. I didn’t learn much.

  - We deployed legacy Java apps with SCP

  - We had no tests

  - We didn’t have CI/CD

  - We were using a beta version of an old framework which we never upgraded

  - Our repos were not in sync with our production code

  - A lot of commented out code, dead code over the place

  - Using multiple languages across the board. We were using Java for something, Node for some, PHP for web/api, JS for client side. Basically the devs were cowboy coding to get the stuff out.

I am three years into my current role & have already learned so much more than in my first role. I feel like my first job set me back. How do I overcome this?