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Episode 455: UX designer without a mentor and I get bored too easily and stressed too easily

2025/4/7
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In this episode, Dave and Jamison answer these questions:

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A listener named Dakota asks,

I’m a UX designer, and I’m constantly looking for growth opportunities. I’m having trouble finding mentors to help challenge me, as every time my boss/senior designer leaves the company, I assume their work and we don’t backfill their spot or my old position.

This leads me towards podcasts like this as I’m trying up-skill and to learn how to be a better team member and support other roles.

I’d love your perspective on working with product/ux designers. What have the challenges been? What makes you love working with a designer? Have there been times where you’re both arguing for the best user experience, but fail to agree on what experience is best?

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Hey guys!

It seems like lately, I only work in two modes:

  - Stressed and tired

  - Bored and disengaged

I often get to own large, urgent initiatives. I spend weeks or months on them. This work is fascinating! I end up being stressed, tired, and counting days until my next vacation.

When they finish, I go back to regular tickets - ones that take a day or two, maybe a week to complete.

And its great! For a few days. Then the boredom sets in. I pick through the tickets, trying to find something interesting. I finish a ticket and realize there are another 4 hours before the end of the day. I start to miss the rush of working on a complex puzzle, even though it’s terrible for my work/life balance.

A month or two pass, and a new complex and urgent initiative comes in. The cycle continues.

So my question is: Is this a common feeling? Are there ways to find a “easy-work/hard-work” balance? Do you have any advice on not overworking when urgent tasks come in, and not dying from boredom when there is no interesting work?