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Ep#03: 5 Love Languages - Understand Other People's Needs

2022/11/16
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Melody Su和Victoria Gu两位主持人以自身经历和身边案例，探讨了Gary Chapman提出的五种爱语理论（肯定的言语、赠送礼物、高质量陪伴、肢体接触、服务行为）对恋爱关系的影响。她们指出，了解自身及伴侣的爱语排序，并坦诚沟通彼此需求，是维系良好关系的关键。在节目中，两位主持人分享了她们在恋爱关系中遇到的挑战，例如爱语错配导致的误解和沟通障碍，以及文化差异对爱语表达方式的影响。她们认为，中国传统文化可能导致人们难以坦诚表达情感和需求，而美国文化则相对更开放和直接。通过分享自身经验和故事，两位主持人鼓励听众思考自身的爱语排序，并与伴侣进行沟通，以更好地理解彼此的需求，从而建立更健康、更长久的恋爱关系。 两位主持人还特别强调了在异地恋或文化差异较大的恋爱关系中，爱语的理解和沟通尤为重要。她们认为，即使关系最终结束，也应该以平和的心态去面对，并保持良好的朋友关系。节目最后，两位主持人鼓励听众思考自身的爱语，并与伴侣进行沟通，以更好地维系彼此的关系。

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Melody and Victoria introduce the concept of the Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman and discuss how understanding these languages can enhance relationship communication and satisfaction.

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The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate is a 1992 book by Gary Chapman. Referencing Chapman's five core love languages (words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, & physical touch), Mel & Vic analyze how love languages can make or break a relationship. 1. Not every couple speaks the same love language2. Establish what your love language is3. Learn to compromise4. Communicate what you need to feel lovedHosts: Melody Su and Victoria GuMusic Credit: Keep Calm & PodcastCONNECT WITH US