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How to 'shift' your emotions

2025/2/6
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Marielle Segarra: 我在工作中不小心割伤了手指,这个小意外却引发了我对情绪管理的思考。情绪,就像身体的疼痛一样,对我们具有保护作用,但如何更好地管理它们,使它们在我们的生活中发挥积极作用,而不是成为阻碍,这是一个值得探讨的问题。 Ethan Kross: 我认为情绪管理并非一成不变,而是一个动态调整的过程。我们需要根据具体情况,灵活地选择面对或回避某种情绪。一味地认为必须直面所有负面情绪才能解决问题,这是一种误解。有时候,策略性地回避,给自己一些时间和空间,反而能更清晰地认识问题,找到更有效的解决方案。例如,当我收到一封令人不快的邮件时,我不会立刻回复,而是会先去做一些其他的事情,分散注意力,过一段时间后再回来处理。这时,我可能会发现问题已经不再重要,或者我已经有了新的视角和更冷静的态度。此外,人际关系中也需要这种灵活性。有些人需要时间来冷静,给予他们空间,反而能促进更顺畅的沟通。

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You have more power over your emotions than you think, says psychologist and neuroscientist Ethan Kross. In his new book, Shift: Managing Your Emotions — So They Don't Manage You), he says there are specific tools you can use to "skillfully push" your feelings around in a way that's useful, whether that's confronting them in the moment or avoiding them until you're ready to process them.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices)NPR Privacy Policy)