the grief is killing me
Christ With Coffee On Ice
Deep Dive
Why did the host decide to talk about grief on this episode?
The host, Ally Yost, felt the Holy Spirit prompting her to discuss grief, a topic they hadn't covered before, especially as she was personally experiencing it due to the recent loss of her cousin Kelly in a tragic accident.
How does the host describe her cousin Kelly?
Kelly was described as an embodiment of love, someone who never gave up on people, had a big heart, and was always herself, especially around family. She was a fun, loving, and goofy person who was also a great mom to her three-year-old son.
What does the host compare inviting Jesus into grief to?
The host compares inviting Jesus into grief to pouring rubbing alcohol on a wound. It stings but is necessary for healing, cleansing the wound and speeding up the healing process despite the pain.
How does the host describe the experience of grief?
Grief is described as a weird and confusing experience, characterized by moments of numbness, denial, and intense emotional waves. It doesn't make logical sense to the brain but is something one has to feel and go through.
What does the host believe is the best way to handle grief?
The host believes the best way to handle grief is by inviting Jesus into it, allowing him to be part of the healing process. This involves not rushing through the stages of grief and being honest with Jesus about one's emotions.
What does the host say about the stages of grief?
The host mentions that the stages of grief (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance) are not always experienced in order and can vary in intensity and duration for each person. Grief can also resurface years later, especially during significant events.
How does the host interpret the story of Lazarus in relation to grief?
The host interprets the story of Lazarus to show that Jesus felt grief and compassion, even though he knew the outcome. This demonstrates Jesus's deep empathy and willingness to walk through grief with us, offering comfort and eventual redemption.
What does the host encourage listeners to do with their grief?
The host encourages listeners to hand their grief over to God, allowing him to transform it. She suggests praising God, even in the midst of grief, as a way to combat the enemy's attempts to isolate us from God during hard times.
What biblical references does the host use to support her points about grief and healing?
The host references several scriptures, including Psalm 62:8, Psalm 30:2, Psalm 107:20, Exodus 15:26, Matthew 8:2-3, Exodus 23:25, Isaiah 40:29, James 5:14-15, 1 Peter 2:24, Psalm 34:18, and Isaiah 61:3.
- Inviting Jesus into grief is a healing process, though painful.
- Grief feels like waves of numbness and intense pain.
- Letting Jesus in is like applying rubbing alcohol to a wound—it stings but heals.
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