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what people think of you doesn't matter

2024/12/20
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Allie Yost: 本期节目中,Allie Yost分享了她与"惧怕人"(过度在意他人看法)的斗争经历。她认为,过度关注他人评价会带来痛苦,但同时也能带来属灵上的成长。她分享了两个触发她"惧怕人"情绪的事件:新项目的发布(Jesus Freaks和周边产品)。她意识到,之所以会反复陷入这种情绪,是因为忘记了耶稣的完美无瑕以及他对自己的认可。她强调,耶稣的认可比任何人的认可都更重要,因为耶稣是完美无瑕的,而其他人都是有缺陷的。她引用罗马书5:7-9来对比耶稣为罪人牺牲的爱与世人对我们的爱,进一步说明耶稣的认可才是最重要的。她还提到,选择惧怕世人而不是耶稣,就像当年众人选择释放巴拉巴而不是耶稣一样。她解释了"惧怕人"的定义及其负面后果,包括灵性枯竭、焦虑、孤立、做出错误决定等。她还区分了取悦人和侍奉人的区别,并指出那些施加压力,阻碍个人成长的人并非真正意义上的朋友。她强调与上帝的关系比任何世俗关系都更重要,并鼓励听众在困境中相信上帝的供应,而不是屈服于他人的压力。她指出,魔鬼通过操纵来运作,其目的是破坏我们与上帝的关系,而"惧怕人"正是魔鬼常用的手段之一。她以扫罗王的故事为例,说明了"惧怕人"会导致毁灭性的行为。她提醒听众,耶稣也曾不被所有人接纳,因此不必害怕他人的负面评价。她认为,期望所有人都喜欢自己是一种骄傲的表现。作为基督徒,应该效法耶稣,不惧怕他人的评价。跟随耶稣意味着既要享受喜乐,也要承担苦难。最后,她提出了克服"惧怕人"的五个步骤:承认恐惧、重建思维模式、信靠上帝、承认自己不需要他人的认可、悔改。她分享了一些关于克服"惧怕人"的圣经经文,并鼓励听众效法耶稣,不惧怕他人的评价。

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Why does the fear of man often resurface even after overcoming it in the past?

The fear of man can resurface due to vulnerabilities and temptations that arise in different seasons of life. It’s not a one-time overcoming but a recurring challenge that may need to be addressed multiple times.

What does the Bible refer to as 'fear of man'?

The Bible refers to 'fear of man' as the desperate quest for the approval of other people, which can lead to making decisions based on human approval rather than God’s will.

What are some consequences of fearing man?

Consequences of fearing man include spiritual dryness, irrational anxiety, emotional isolation, bad decisions, sin, denying Christ, compromising values, and people-pleasing, which can rob joy and intimacy with God.

How does the fear of man relate to denying Christ?

Fearing man can lead to denying Christ, as seen in Peter’s denial of Jesus three times before His crucifixion. It involves prioritizing human approval over God’s will and commands.

What does the story of Barabbas and Jesus illustrate about fearing man?

The story of Barabbas and Jesus illustrates how people chose a criminal over the sinless Savior, showing that fearing man can lead to valuing human opinions over God’s perfect will.

How does the fear of man manifest in the church?

In the church, the fear of man can manifest as seeking approval and avoiding criticism from fellow believers, which can be a challenge for those who have previously overcome fear of man in the world.

What does the Bible say about people dying for righteous or good individuals?

Romans 5:7-9 states that very rarely will anyone die for a righteous person, and even for a good person, someone might possibly dare to die. However, while we were still sinners, Jesus died for us.

How does the fear of man affect decision-making?

The fear of man can lead to making decisions based on the approval of others rather than God’s will, resulting in spiritual dryness, bad decisions, and compromising one’s values.

What is the role of repentance in overcoming the fear of man?

Repentance is crucial in overcoming the fear of man. It involves acknowledging the sin, surrendering it to God, and asking for His strength to overcome it.

How does the devil manipulate people into fearing man?

The devil manipulates people into fearing man through tools like money, careers, being canceled, or not having friends, which can lead to compromising one’s values and prioritizing human approval over God’s will.

Shownotes Transcript

Hey y'all ! Welcome to another Friday with CWCOI ! In this week's episode, our host, Ally Yost talks through the fear of man. We all struggle with other's people's have to say about us and what they think of us but we are called to look to Jesus and seek approval from Him only - our spotless, perfect, and flawless Father.

"Behold, God is my salvation; I will trust, and will not be afraid; for the Lord God is my strength and my song, and he has become my salvation." Isaiah 12:2

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