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65: Dumb Blonde: Baby Girl Bella- Sex Work, Fem Dom & Spirituality

2020/9/30
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一位专注于喜剧、趋势和生活方式的播客主持人,通过《Dumb Blonde》播客与听众分享各种热门话题和个人经历。
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Baby Girl Bella 分享了她充满挑战的成长经历,包括父亲因海洛因过量去世,以及父母因贩毒被捕等。这些创伤经历深刻地影响了她的人生轨迹,但她并没有因此沉沦,而是积极面对生活,并最终在 OnlyFans 平台上取得了成功。她认为自己人生中的每一次经历都是为了让她走到今天,并对自己的职业选择感到满意。她还谈到了自己曾经的吸毒和酗酒经历,以及如何克服这些问题,最终戒除毒瘾和酒瘾。Bella 还分享了她对性工作的独特视角,她认为性工作可以帮助她治愈过去的性创伤,并赋予她掌控自己人生的力量。她还详细描述了她从事女权主义性工作(Fem Dom)的经历,以及她如何通过 OnlyFans 平台获得独立和创造性。此外,Bella 还分享了她进行阿яхуаска仪式后的精神觉醒经历,这让她对人生有了新的理解和感悟,并更加注重精神层面的成长。 Bunnie 对 Bella 的经历表示理解和支持,她认为性工作者往往比人们想象的更加坚强,她们能够克服各种困难,并活出精彩的人生。Bunnie 也分享了她对性工作行业的看法,她认为这个行业中有很多非常棒的女性,她们善良、有爱心,并且在精神层面非常强大。她还强调了在 OnlyFans 等平台上获得成功的重要性,并鼓励女性要努力工作,坚持不懈,才能获得自己想要的生活。

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Bella discusses her early life, moving to Charlotte, and how her boyfriend's involvement in gay porn influenced her decision to enter the sex work industry.

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Baby Girl Bella, one of OnlyFan’s top 0.04% of content creators, talks to Bunnie about what it’s like being in the sex work industry and how she got her start on OnlyFans.  She also explains what it’s like to do Fem Dom and how a spiritual awakening with Ayahuasca changed her mentality and her lifestyle. 

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Takeaways:

  • Bella was born in Wisconsin, but grew up in Arizona

  • Her dad passed from a heroin overdose when she was 8 years old

  • Her mom and stepdad got arrested for drug trafficking when she was in high school

  • She pressed on, graduated high school, and went on to college

  • The first boy she kissed ended up passing away from a heroin overdose as well

  • Bella moved to Charlotte, NC

  • She was in the party scene and began working doing sex work

  • Back then, her drug of choice was Molly

  • She started off doing cam work and modeling

  • She recently moved to California and loves it

  • OnlyFans gives Bella the opportunity to be independent and creative in the industry

  • Bella doesn’t consider herself ever being a drug addict, but she drank every single day; she was mostly a social drinker and drank a lot when she was a dancer

  • She realized after a while that drinking was giving her social anxiety

  • After being a dancer in Charlotte, she moved back to Arizona and started doing Fem Dom

  • Bella explains small penis humiliation: some guys don’t even have a small penis but guys that are into being subbed want to be controlled and not be the boss

  • There’s a fetish for everything- from ball busting to cum eating instructions

  • Bella did Fem Dom cam work for about 6 months and then her friend showed her how to use premium snapchat

  • She did snapchat for about 2 years before she started making good money from it

  • Bella had a scary experience with a guy that was trying to manipulate her into being sold into sex slavery and try to make it seem normal

  • 2 years ago, Bella started doing really well on snapchat and bought herself braces and her first boob job

  • She created an OnlyFans and after a period of trial and error with pricing and content, it started to really grow and become successful

  • Consistency is key to success with OnlyFans

  • The best thing about OnlyFans is you can do whatever you want and offer whatever you are comfortable with

  • Sometimes there are odd custom requests from subscribers; the weirdest thing that Bunnie has ever had someone request before is that she hang herself from a door

  • Bella has had guys send her videos of them putting baseball bats up their butts

  • Bella caters to the stepbrother/ stepsister taboo fetish that people have

  • About a year and a half ago, Bella had a spiritual awakening:

  • She was dating a millionaire who got arrested and it was really traumatic for Bella

  • Around a month later, she looked on YouTube searching for self-help videos to help her focus and better herself using natural remedies

  • She found videos on meditation and became a raw vegan, quit smoking weed, and started doing yoga and meditating

  • She even booked a trip to do Ayahuasca in Costa Rica

  • Ayahuasca is plant medicine that has DMT in it and allows you to bring you back to your soulful self and shows you who you have become through your life experiences

  • It’s a very intense process but it heals you on a spiritual level

Quotes:

“I believe the things that have happened in my life have happened for me to be where I am now” - Bella

“I don’t think people in the world understand how strong we (girls in the industry) are” – Bunnie

“I’ve used sex work to heal my past sexual trauma” – Bella

“Hard work pays off- you’re gonna get it if you want it” – Bella

“The most spiritual women and the coolest women I’ve ever met are in sex work” – Bunnie

 

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