Relisten to The Girlfriends S1, Ep 3: Bubbly, Bouncy and Very Alive
The Girlfriends: Our Lost Sister
Deep Dive
Why did Gail have psychosomatic asthma?
Gail experienced psychosomatic asthma when she became anxious, which was a response to stress and anxiety in her life.
What was Gail's relationship with her mother like?
Gail's mother was overbearing and had high expectations, which created tension, especially since Gail was more of a free spirit compared to her sister Elaine, who followed their mother's expectations.
How did Gail and her high school best friend, Denise, spend their time together?
They listened to music like Neil Young and Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young, went to New York City at 14, and explored Greenwich Village, meeting boys and feeling adventurous.
What was Gail's experience with depression and suicide attempts?
Gail struggled with chronic depression and had a suicide attempt in the late 1970s, which led to a hospitalization. However, by the summer of 1980, she was doing better and started dating again.
Why did Gail's family become concerned about Bob?
Bob's behavior, such as trying to drown Gail's cat out of jealousy and his controlling nature, raised alarm bells for Gail's family, who felt he was a danger to her.
What was Gail's wedding day like?
Gail's wedding day was tense, with arguments in the morning and a rushed preparation. She wore a modified mother-in-law's dress and a flower crown that didn't meet her expectations. Despite the stress, the wedding party at Terrace in the Sky was described as fun and happy.
How did Gail's relationship with Bob change after marriage?
After marriage, Gail became more subdued and quiet, feeling neglected as Bob worked long hours. She felt lonely and ignored, leading to affairs and a desire to leave him.
What was the turning point in Gail's marriage to Bob?
The turning point was when Bob strangled Gail during an argument, leading to a police report. Despite this, Gail tried to fix the marriage through therapy, but her family feared for her safety.
What were Gail's plans before her disappearance?
Gail planned to leave Bob and had sublet an apartment for herself. She was preparing to discuss the divorce with him over dinner, but her family feared the confrontation could turn violent.
- Gail's close relationship with her sister Elaine
- Gail's numerous romantic relationships before meeting Bob
- Gail's passion for music and her pursuit of a music career in NYC
- Gail's work as a cocktail waitress at Trax
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