Bonus #132 - Kush Brothers Vol. 20 w/ Ontonio Kareem [PATREON PREVIEW]
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Hi Stavi, hi whatever freak you have on there. What's up girl? I'm calling because I used to do sex work. Nice. And I recently fell in love, crazy. Yeah. Yeah, I met this guy, it was instant, it was everything they talk about. That's cute. Yeah, pretty fucking crazy.

And I was actually working when I met him. No, like I didn't meet him through sex work, but I was doing sex work. I met him and literally immediately decided to stop. I was like, this is perfect. This is the sign I needed. And I just want to be like surely in love and all that. Blah, blah, blah. Anyways, when is, uh, how do I go about that conversation? Do I bring it up nonchalantly? You know, like if something comes up, like I feel like there's been points in conversations where it could have come up.

My friend says I need to bring it up intentionally, sit him down and be like, hey, this is something I used to do. But I'm kind of like, I feel like for me, it's not a big deal. And if he really likes me, it shouldn't be a huge deal. But I mean, I understand it's a thing for people. But what do you think? Should I be nonchalant? Should I bring it up, you know, sit him down and...

you know, drop the bomb or what? And then show you sooner rather than later. We've been dating two months. He's definitely my husband and I love him and I'm crazy for him. This is nuts. Anyways, love you too though. Thank you. He also listens, so.

Maybe it'll be funny. Oh, shit. Anyways, have a beautiful, sparkling day. And hell yeah. Bye. Why do you do this when we're on Kush Brothers? Why do you always do shit like this? Save it for your honeymoon. Tell him on the beach. Yeah. Next call.

I mean, okay, I agree with you. You're like the person you're going to end up with. It's obviously not going to be a big deal for them, right? But at the same time, you do have to sit it. I think your friend is right. And it's like he might maybe, you know, this guy, you know, you for two months, whatever, you got a vibe that he wouldn't care that much. I assumed he knew when you guys started dating. You know what I mean? Because it's like.

That's sort of, in that case, it's like, well, yeah, he knows what he's getting into, whatever.

She said they met. She was doing sex work and they met. She was just doing that to pay the bills. Unrelated. They must have met. She didn't mean the day, the moment they met. She meant like at the time when they had met. She was like working continuously. It kind of sounded to me like she was on a job of some kind. I don't know what she did. I thought she was on a job, left the job. Encountered this guy through some other means. Like she was around.

Yeah, yeah. And then that night she was like, I'm done. I'm walking away from the game. But I don't think it was through... She didn't meet him through actual sex work. No, he wasn't the... She said he wasn't the client. Yeah, yeah. So anyway, I sort of just agree with your friend here. It's like, it is the kind of thing that it will be, you know, some people might not want to do it. So you just kind of have to be like... I mean, I agree that hopefully, like if somebody sits you down and says that and you don't care, then he'll just be like...

Thanks for telling me. That's cool. I'm good. You know what I mean? Like he'll have that conversation. If he reacts the way you want him to, it'll come up that way.

The same way as like nonchalantly I don't even know how you nonchalantly bring it up You know Yeah don't Don't do that That'll piss a nigga clean Yeah You just fucking You know how you paid for that That box of cereal I actually used to get paid to do certain things You know like there's no like Fun segue Yeah You could say it during a fucking You'd be like niggas pay for this Yeah Yeah

You're getting free. There's a bargain every time, bro. This is a pretty penny right here. So yeah, look, you just have to have a conversation. It's sort of like anything that might require some discussion.

That you think some people... You're clearly falling head over heels. And I think it's basically important for you to understand that you're on the same page with something like this before you get any deeper. Because that's another thing that could be kind of dangerous. Yeah, a pure Nora situation here. It's just like...

You want to tell him sooner rather than later, I think, for yourself, too, to just know that he's going to be chill with it. Or for your hog tied by Russian goons. But also, it's like, you know. The longer you wait, the more it's going to look to him like you were hiding something. I think that's probably true. Two months is the cutoff. Yeah, you're kind of in the, it's kind of like the way you would bring up anything that kind of,

Is, you know, is, like, makes things complicated. Like, I don't know. You'd have to be long. Like, you're going to move or you're going to fucking, like, you have, like, a kid or some shit. You know what I mean? Like, it's like you're in the... You've passed the get to know you stage. Now it's, like, next level. You want to know more about your partner at that stage. And I think...

It also doesn't have to be like, I'm not saying you have to fucking sit him down like it's an intervention, but you could be just hanging out and be like, hey, I want to talk to you about something. Yeah, order a little pizza. Yeah. Get him a little milkshake. Have a chipwich in the freezer ready to go. Exactly. If he has feelings about it. But yeah. In general, like when there's something big that's on your mind that you need to bring up, like...

it's easier said than done but sooner is better than later and like you're but the good thing to remember is like you're only making it harder the more you like if it's gonna it is gonna be hard now it's gonna suck but like it's only gonna get worse the longer you wait I agree stuff that I was and I think I think

I get wanting to make it nonchalant because I felt like, what if there was an easier way to get into this annoying conversation that should be a formality but, you know, you're nervous to talk about. And, you know, like I said, plenty of people are going to be fine with it. We're a pro-sex worker pod here. Sounds like, you know, I think Antonio's point is a very astute one. And so...

Will this guy be? Probably, it sounds like, since you seem to be in love with this guy. And if you're right, great. And then if not, you know, you move on, you find somebody else, and it's not the end of the world. You don't have to go back to selling pussy if you don't want to. You know, they're probably hiring at...

You know, there's a job training program going on. You send her to the job court. You can go back, though, I'm saying, you know. But she did stop. But it is crazy to have found someone that you're like, that night, you're like, I'm a different person. Yeah. I kind of got her out the game with it. That's, yeah, I'm scared. That's, I'm just scared that you're so emotionally, that's such an emotional high that,

I would just guard yourself a little more as your friend. You know what I mean? Like, don't get too wrapped up in this is your whole life. And then that's... I'm a little scared of that, but...

Anyway. Yeah. Good luck out there. It's a different thing because we all had jobs, but we have not done this. So it's like quitting. It would be different if like you, it's like I saw the most beautiful girl and I stopped driving Uber that day. Yeah. Why'd you do that? Yeah. Because I only drive my princess.