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I’m Still Sexually Attracted to My Ex-Wife

2025/5/19
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John Delony: 我认为,听众TJ对前妻的性吸引力不仅仅是性,更关乎他们之间长达20年的亲密关系和深厚的安全感。四五十岁的夫妻往往性能量最高,因为他们彼此了解,有安全感。TJ需要时间来建立新的关系,达到同样的信任和亲密程度。如果他一直将新认识的人与过去比较,那扇门永远不会关闭。重要的是,他和新伴侣是否能带着各自的包袱,选择家中的平静,以及尽可能多的快乐和新鲜感。他应该接受悲伤,然后继续前进,不要试图用随便的性行为来治愈伤口,这只会让他感到空虚。他应该暂停一下,充分悲伤,和他的朋友们在一起,然后开放地去约会。每个人都有包袱,重要的是如何一起解决这些问题。他应该尊重过去,放下肩膀,然后去认识其他人,并坦诚地介绍自己。 TJ: 我和前妻结婚23年,离婚3年,和其他女性交往感觉不一样。我同意John的观点,这种感觉可能与长期的亲密关系和安全感有关,而不仅仅是性。离婚后,我发现自己很难摆脱对前妻的性吸引力,每次约会时,我的前妻都会浮现在脑海里。我52岁了,约会市场上50岁的女性也有一些问题,她们也在经历离婚。我想要平静和安宁,我的前妻让我很难和家人相处,所以我花了很多时间和父母重新建立联系。我也在经营一家新公司,而且看起来很有盈利。我尊重现在的自己,也为离婚后的自己感到骄傲。

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On today’s episode, we hear about:

·       A man trying to get over feelings for his ex-wife

·       A wife struggling to reestablish trust with her husband and rebuild the marriage

·       A woman who still feels guilty about being involved with a married man

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