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My 50-Year-Old Husband Wants to Be a DJ

2025/6/30
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Jane: 我和丈夫结婚五年,他突然想当DJ,这种生活方式与我格格不入,这并不是我想要的婚姻。虽然我支持他追求自己的热情,但他的不诚实让我感到恐惧和羞耻。过去他有药物滥用问题,甚至因与未成年人发生性关系而被捕,这让我对他的信任荡然无存。现在他身处充满诱惑的环境,我担心他会重蹈覆辙。我尝试用母性的方式控制他,但这让我感到厌恶。我真正渴望的是诚实,哪怕是开放式婚姻,但我无法忍受被蒙在鼓里。 John Delony: 真正的问题不是DJ这个职业,而是更深层次的原因。你爱的是丈夫的能力,但更爱他在被限制时的状态。你认为你们之间建立的信任是虚假的,你真正感到的是羞耻,而不是睡眠时间或电子烟的问题。你在用母性的方式控制丈夫,这让你感到厌恶。你需要承认你内心的真实感受,并设定明确的界限。你可以选择离开,或者接受他的不诚实,并尽量避免让他处于需要说谎的境地。你们正处于人生的十字路口,两条路都很艰难,选择你内心真正想要的。

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A wife seeks advice on her husband's sudden desire to become a DJ, which clashes with her lifestyle and unearths deeper trust issues stemming from a past arrest and dishonesty.
  • Wife's concern about husband's new DJ lifestyle impacting their marriage.
  • Husband's past arrest for attempting to contact a minor.
  • Underlying trust issues and the wife's fear of dishonesty.
  • The wife's fear is not about the lifestyle but about the lack of trust.

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On today’s episode, we hear about:

·       A wife frustrated that her husband’s new lifestyle is impacting their marriage

·       A woman concerned about setting boundaries with her boyfriend

·       A mom wondering how to tell her kids the truth about her biological father

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