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My Wife Had an Affair Because She Doesn’t Find Me Attractive

2025/3/5
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一位专注于跨境资本市场、并购和公司治理的资深律师。
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Ryan: 我发现妻子与老板有三个月的婚外情,这让我非常痛苦。过去一年,她一直对我缺乏吸引力,说我对她欲望的表达让她感到压力。我们尝试了很多方法来改善关系,但都没有成功。虽然我很爱她,但这段婚外情让我对婚姻的未来感到迷茫,不知道是否值得继续努力。我需要弄清楚,这段婚姻是否值得挽救,或者我是否应该寻找其他的幸福。 我爱她胜过爱我生命中的任何人,但我不确定我们之间的差异是否可以克服,或者是否值得为之奋斗。我需要有人告诉我,这是否值得奋斗,或者我是否应该在别处寻找幸福。 我意识到婚姻中存在的问题,包括她对我缺乏吸引力,以及我对亲密关系的渴望超过她。我们彼此深爱,但这些差异让我感到困惑。我需要弄清楚,这段婚姻是否值得挽救,或者我是否应该寻找其他的幸福。 John: 婚外情很少是孤立事件,通常是双方共同创造的环境导致的。你应该专注于你能控制的部分,但不要因为婚姻无法挽救而责备自己。重要的是,你要认识到,即使婚姻结束,你也能过得很好。 你的妻子将你置于一个非常不公平的位置,如果这段婚姻失败,你的自我认同感会受到严重打击。她将婚姻失败的原因归咎于你,这对你来说是不公平的。你需要意识到,她做出了选择,而你是一个好人。你需要从这段关系中走出来,并重新建立你的自我认同。 你需要寻求专业人士的帮助,来处理你的情感和心理健康问题。你需要和你的妻子坦诚沟通,了解她内心的想法和感受。你需要明白,婚姻需要双方的共同努力,才能维持下去。

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Ryan struggles to save his marriage after discovering his wife's affair, while navigating feelings of inadequacy and love.
  • Ryan's wife had a three-month affair with her boss.
  • The affair led to a crisis in their marriage with a focus on attraction and emotional connection.
  • Ryan is considering therapy to navigate his feelings and decision-making.
  • The concept of self-worth and identity plays a crucial role in healing post-infidelity.
  • Infidelity almost never happens in a vacuum; both partners contribute to the relationship dynamics.

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On today’s episode, we hear about:

·      A husband trying to process his wife’s affair

·      A woman unsure how to proceed with a new relationship

·      A father wondering how to avoid his ex-wife without hurting his son

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