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ADHD or ND Kids? 8 Ways to Build Resilience, Confidence & Self-Control #446

2025/2/7
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Kirk Martin: 我认为社会常常传递一种错误的讯息,让家长们觉得自己的孩子“有问题”,需要被“修复”。但事实是,这些孩子只是与众不同,他们并没有什么问题。我曾经也一度不喜欢我的儿子,因为养育他对我来说非常困难,传统的育儿方法在他身上完全不起作用。我开始担心他是不是有什么问题,需要被“修复”。但后来我意识到,没有人喜欢被强行改变。重要的是改变我自己的心态,以不同的方式看待我的儿子。我开始接受他的与众不同,并支持他发展自己的优势。我意识到,虽然神经多样性的孩子可能在短期内面临更多困难,但从长远来看,这会让他们更坚强,更有韧性。那些从小一帆风顺的孩子,在成年后遇到挫折时可能难以应对。而我的儿子,小时候的挣扎让他现在变得非常坚强和有韧性。所以,不要试图改变你的孩子,也不要认为你做错了什么。重要的是接纳他们,并帮助他们找到自己的道路。 Holly Moses: 我完全同意Kirk的观点。我不希望我的孩子觉得自己做错了什么,我希望他们知道自己被接受,被爱。我最喜欢说的一句话就是“当然”。当然,每个孩子的道路都是不同的,重要的是正常化他们正在经历的事情,而不是让他们感到与众不同或有问题。作为家长,我们常常会收到很多不请自来的评论,但重要的是相信自己的直觉,抵制来自外界的评判。记住,课程不是为你的孩子设计的,所以不要强迫他们去做那些他们不擅长的事情。重要的是支持他们,帮助他们找到自己的优势,并让他们知道,他们的与众不同是一种优势,而不是一种缺陷。

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ADHD or ND Kids? 8 Ways to Build Resilience, Confidence & Self-Control #446

What are practical ways to foster emotional resilience and confidence, help kids with anxiety, and challenge social stigmas with ADHD or ND kids? How can we calm emotionally dysregulated kids? I absolutely loved this discussion with therapist Holly Moses on her Autism ADHD Podcast. I think you will find this enlightening and incredibly helpful. Learn more about Holly Blanc Moses and her fantastic podcast at https://www.hollyblancmoses.com).

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