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Kids Ignore, Resist, or Fight You? Get Them Moving More Quickly. #457

2025/3/12
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Kirk Martin
专注于家庭教育和儿童行为管理的专家,提供实用的策略和脚本来改变家庭和学校中的行为。
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我发现一个强大的策略,可以融化孩子的抵抗情绪,让他们更快行动,并创造亲子间的联结时刻,而不是权力斗争。这个策略的核心是:走进孩子的世界,与他们建立联系,然后再引导他们离开。 首先,我们需要观察孩子,了解他们的兴趣爱好和学习方式。例如,如果孩子喜欢篮球,我们可以在他们打篮球的时候进行学习辅导,这样会更有效。 其次,与其批评孩子,不如肯定他们的优点。例如,与其责备孩子不听话,不如赞扬他们坚持练习投篮的毅力。 然后,将权力斗争转化为亲子互动机会。例如,与孩子一起打篮球,在轻松愉快的氛围中与孩子沟通,让他们更愿意配合。 最后,记住,与孩子建立联系比要求孩子服从更重要。先与孩子建立联系,再引导他们,这样才能更有效地改变他们的行为。 在与孩子沟通的过程中,要保持耐心和理解,不要强迫孩子按照家长的意愿行事。要尝试理解孩子行为背后的原因,而不是简单地进行责备或威胁。 通过与孩子建立良好的亲子关系,才能更好地引导孩子,让他们更快行动,避免权力斗争。

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This chapter introduces the "enter in and lead out" strategy, demonstrating how to use it in the contexts of skincare and children's learning. It emphasizes observation and understanding of the child's preferences to improve communication and behaviour.
  • Observe children's preferences and use that knowledge to improve communication.
  • Use children's interests to create a connection and improve compliance.
  • The "enter in and lead out" strategy helps to address various parenting challenges.

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Kids Ignore, Resist, or Fight You? Get Them Moving More Quickly. #457

Why can't your kids just come when you ask them? Does it always have to be a fight? It's like they can't hear you when playing video games. They aren't grateful for time with friends--they lash out when you pick them up. And when you call them for dinner, all you hear is, "Just a couple more minutes" and they ignore you. It's frustrating! Kirk shows you a powerful strategy that melts resistance, gets kids moving, and creates bonding moments...instead of power struggles. Take advantage of the Black Friday Sale in March at https://celebratecalm.com/black-friday/)

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