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4 Signs of Emotionally Immature Parents & How to Heal

2025/5/15
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Mel Robbins: 我发现很多人都觉得和父母的关系不对劲,但又说不出来。如果你因为觉得和父母的关系可能不对劲而感到内疚,你仍然是对的。你没有疯,你没有太敏感,你没有反应过度,你的感受是被证实的。如果你难以设定界限,仍然渴望父母的认可,或者因为让父母失望而感到内疚,那是因为你成长在情感不成熟的家庭中。我请来了世界顶级专家,来帮助你摆脱内疚、困惑和无法满足的期望,通过今天的对话,你将会知道该怎么做。 Lindsay C. Gibson: 人们从Mel你这样的账户和节目中获得了很多验证,因为他们听到有人用语言表达了他们一直以来的感受,而这些感受却被告知是不真实的。重要的是客观地看待情况,了解这个人是谁,并认识到期望他们自己发生奇迹般的变化会让你感到沮丧,认识到你处于这种动态中实际上会给你改变你在其中表现方式的力量。我希望人们能够验证自己的经历,因为我们希望人们能够信任自己的主观性和内在生活,因为当你有一个情感不成熟的父母时,其中一件被剥夺的事情就是这个。你可以以一种信任自己的感觉生活,认为自己是一个值得被照顾和保护的人。

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In today's episode, you'll learn how to heal from an emotionally immature parent. 

If you've ever felt invisible in your own family, like your needs didn't matter, or if nothing you did was ever enough, this episode is for you. 

Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson is here to assure you that you're not imagining it. You're not too sensitive. You're not overreacting. And you're not alone. 

If you find yourself struggling to set boundaries, you’re still craving your parent’s approval, or you’re always walking on eggshells to keep the peace, Dr. Gibson says the reason you feel this way is because you grew up with an emotionally immature parent. 

And today you’ll finally understand what that means. 

You're about to learn the 4 subtle signs you had an emotionally immature parent and how that shapes your adult life – and the exact path to healing. 

Today’s episode is not about blame. It’s about clarity and finally having the language to describe what you’ve felt for years but couldn’t quite explain. 

You’ll learn how to name the behaviors that left you feeling dismissed or unseen, and you'll have the tools to begin healing. 

And that’s a big deal, because doing this work doesn’t just change how you feel; it changes how you live. 

For the last 30 years, Dr. Gibson has helped millions of people around the world break free from the invisible emotional suffering that has held them back since childhood. She is a pioneering expert on the topic of emotionally immature parents, and is the author of the New York Times bestseller "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents." 

 If you've spent your entire life feeling like something was off in your relationship with your parents, but you could never quite put your finger on it, Dr. Gibson is here to say: 

You were right. 

And if you feel guilty for just considering that something might have been off, you need to hear this conversation today. 

This is an episode you don't want to miss. 

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If you liked this episode, you’ll love listening to this one next: Why You Feel Lost in Life: Dr. Gabor Maté on Trauma & How to Heal)

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