We're sunsetting PodQuest on 2025-07-28. Thank you for your support!
Export Podcast Subscriptions
cover of episode Conquer Overwhelm: Your Ultimate Guide to Inner Peace With the Amazing Dr. Thema Bryant

Conquer Overwhelm: Your Ultimate Guide to Inner Peace With the Amazing Dr. Thema Bryant

2023/10/12
logo of podcast The Mel Robbins Podcast

The Mel Robbins Podcast

AI Deep Dive AI Chapters Transcript
People
D
Dr. Thema Bryant
M
Mel Robbins
一位专注于领导力和个人成长的著名_motivational speaker_和播客主持人。
Topics
Mel Robbins:本期节目旨在帮助听众在充满挑战的时期找到内在力量与平静,并保持与光明和爱的连接。节目重新发布了与Dr. Thema Bryant的访谈,分享应对压力的工具和方法。 Dr. Thema Bryant:分享了六个与自身脱节的迹象,以及如何通过自我关爱、群体关爱和精神层面来重新连接自我。她强调了诚实面对自己、接纳自我和爱自己的重要性。她还分享了西非寓言故事,鼓励人们相信自己有能力改变,即使过去经历了创伤和虐待。 Dr. Thema Bryant:详细解释了治愈的过程,包括接纳和爱自己,以及如何处理生活中易怒和愤怒的人。她建议通过同理心和理解来回应,而不是对抗。她还强调了自我关爱的重要性,包括健康饮食、充足睡眠和避免观看暴力电视节目。 Dr. Thema Bryant:讨论了治疗和灵性之间的区别,以及如何在两者之间取得平衡。她认为灵性是一种对超越我们所能看到的圣洁的意识,并强调了信仰在治愈过程中的作用。她分享了如何处理有毒的工作环境,以及如何认识到自己不仅仅是员工或伴侣,还有更广阔的自我。 Dr. Thema Bryant:提供了寻找治疗资源的建议,包括大学的培训诊所、社区诊所和在线支持小组等。她还强调了在自我治愈的过程中,要挑战认知扭曲,也就是那些不真实的信念和谎言。 Dr. Thema Bryant:分享了如何通过呼吸练习来平静身心,并从头脑中回到身体中。她强调了自我关爱的重要性,包括健康饮食、充足睡眠和避免观看暴力电视节目。她还讨论了易怒型抑郁症,以及如何以同理心和理解来回应那些易怒的人。 Dr. Thema Bryant:解释了治愈的含义,以及如何通过接纳和爱自己来实现治愈。她分享了如何处理有毒的工作环境,以及如何认识到自己不仅仅是员工或伴侣,还有更广阔的自我。她还提供了寻找治疗资源的建议,包括大学的培训诊所、社区诊所和在线支持小组等。 Dr. Thema Bryant:讨论了治疗和灵性之间的区别,以及如何在两者之间取得平衡。她认为灵性是一种对超越我们所能看到的圣洁的意识,并强调了信仰在治愈过程中的作用。她分享了如何挑战认知扭曲,也就是那些不真实的信念和谎言,以及如何通过相信自己值得拥有未曾经历过的美好来克服内心的不安全感。 Dr. Thema Bryant:分享了如何通过早晨仪式来为一天做好准备,包括早起、冥想、运动和阅读等。她强调了在有毒的工作环境中,要认识到自己不仅仅是员工,还有更广阔的自我。她还分享了如何处理不健康的亲密关系,以及如何通过结束这些关系来保护自己。

Deep Dive

Chapters
Dr. Thema Bryant discusses the concept of psychological homelessness and how it feels to be disconnected from one's true self.
  • Psychological homelessness is a sense of being ungrounded and rooted, feeling confused and disconnected from oneself.
  • People can spend years feeling lost and waiting for others to provide answers, losing their internal compass.

Shownotes Transcript

In this episode, Dr. Thema Bryant gives you the tools to conquer overwhelm and unlock your inner peace.

Dr. Thema Bryant is the current president of the American Psychological Association. She trained at both Duke and Harvard, teaches at Pepperdine University, has published multiple best-selling books, and has spent decades of her life researching how you can stay calm and centered in any situation.

She calls this kind of peace “coming home” to yourself, and she will teach you how to do it, even if the world around you is in chaos.

Dr. Thema is simply incredible. Just her presence alone will put you at ease. She has the unique gift of weaving together psychological strategies for healing with the deeper spiritual cornerstones of faith and trust.

This is an encore episode with new insights from me at the top of the conversation. Given how overwhelming the world seems right now, I believe this profound and actionable conversation is exactly what you and I need to hear.

With Dr. Thema's wisdom and tools, you can and will overcome the overwhelm, anxiety, and stress you are feeling right now.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • 3 ways to combat overwhelm and external stress.
  • 6 signs that you are disconnected from yourself.
  • What it means to be "psychologically wandering".
  • How to handle people in your life who are chronically irritable and angry.
  • The surprising signs of "irritable depression".
  • The 3 words to say to yourself before you can begin healing.
  • Why self-care is critical if you are in a toxic workplace.
  • Why you need to stop talking about your partner and your boss in therapy.
  • Where to find therapy when you can’t afford it.

 

When the world feels dark, you and I must stay connected to our inner light. This episode will teach you how. Please share this with your loved ones because the world needs all of us to keep the light bright, and together we will.

 

Xo, Mel 

In this episode:

  • 2:15: I got really emotional when I acknowledged how my life used to be.
  • 4:00: This is what it looks like when you’re connected to your own compass.
  • 6:30: The 6 signs that you’re disconnected from yourself and what that means.
  • 9:05: Even if you’ve never felt it; you can learn to be “home” with yourself.
  • 10:50: The West African fable that should be required reading for everyone.
  • 16:11: This is the first and most powerful step to your “homecoming.”
  • 21:45: Do people with a bad attitude actually have depression?
  • 24:50: What is healing, anyway?
  • 26:08: How do we handle people who are irritable, frustrated, and angry?
  • 29:40: It’s a big mistake if you wait for this before you start your own healing.
  • 32:40: What does self-care actually mean?
  • 34:10: Watching bedtime, high-crime TV? Then you need to hear this.
  • 36:50: How to know if you need therapy or you need spirituality.
  • 38:30: What is the definition of spirituality?
  • 41:20: How do you heal from a lifetime of messaging that you’re not worthy?
  • 44:00: This is how you handle being in a toxic work environment.
  • 47:30: You are more than an employee or a partner. 
  • 48:50: Look to these resources if you can’t afford therapy.

 

 

Want more resources? Go to my podcast page at https://melrobbins.com/podcast).

Disclaimer)