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How a Waitress at Denny’s Built a Billion Dollar Beauty Brand: This Incredible Story Will Unlock Your Purpose!

2023/6/8
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Jamie Kern Lima:我的故事始于在丹尼斯餐厅做服务员,那时我就有远大的梦想,但并不确定自己是否有能力实现它们。在成为一名新闻主播后,我发现市面上的化妆品都不能解决我的皮肤问题,这促使我开始思考如何创造一款适合自己的产品,并帮助更多女性。这个过程中,我经历了无数次拒绝和自我怀疑,也面临着经济上的压力。但我的直觉告诉我,我应该坚持下去。最终,我创立了IT Cosmetics,并将其出售给欧莱雅,实现了我的梦想。我的成功并非偶然,而是源于我内心的信念和对目标的坚持。我坚信,人生的步伐是有序的,即使看起来像是挫折的阶段,实际上也是为未来的目标做准备。看似挫折的阶段,往往是为我们最终的使命做铺垫。生活中的一切都在为我们服务,即使事情看起来没有意义。人生的意义并非在于最终的目标,而在于服务他人和自我实现的过程。我的使命是帮助女性看到自己的价值,并建立自信。人生中的每个经历,无论好坏,都在帮助我们成长,为未来的使命做准备。将过去的创伤转化为帮助他人的动力,是找到人生意义的一种方式。直觉像肌肉一样,需要不断练习和培养才能更好地感知。人生中最艰难的时刻,往往是为了让我们拥有更大的力量去承担未来的成功,或者是为了让我们通过帮助他人来获得最大的满足感和人生目标。在面临拒绝时,要学会倾听内心的声音,而不是被外界的否定所左右。真诚和真实才能保证成功,而伪装和迎合只会导致失败。拒绝有时是上帝对我们的保护,它能让我们避免错误的选择,并最终走向成功。人生的意义不一定要体现在工作中,也可以体现在生活中其他方面。 Mel Robbins:Jamie的故事激励着我们相信自己,即使在面对失败和质疑时也不放弃梦想。她的成功并非一蹴而就,而是经过多年的努力和坚持才获得的。她的经历告诉我们,人生的意义不在于最终的目标,而在于追求目标的过程。直觉和信念是成功的关键,我们要学会倾听内心的声音,并勇敢地追逐梦想。

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Mel Robbins introduces the episode by discussing the challenges of believing in oneself amidst life's transitions and uncertainties, setting the stage for Jamie Kern Lima's story.
  • Believing in oneself during life transitions
  • The importance of having big plans
  • Introducing Jamie Kern Lima, the founder of IT Cosmetics

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If you’ve ever dreamt of doing something big, today's episode will get your head spinning, open your heart, and inspire you to take the leap.

 

It doesn’t matter how young or how old you are.

 

You are meant to go big, to swing for the fence, and to do something no one has ever done before. 

 

No more small plans. You have something big to do.

 

And there’s no better person to inspire you to make big plans than my friend and IT Cosmetics Founder, Jamie Kern Lima. 

 

Jamie went from serving up stacks of pancakes at Denny’s to creating a product that would help millions of women around the world feel confident in their own skin. 

 

Today you’ll hear the story of how she transformed the beauty industry, created the most successful product launch in QVC history, and ultimately sold IT Cosmetics to L’Oreal for 1.2 billion dollars (becoming the first female CEO at L’Oreal in their history). 

 

If you think Jamie had it easy on the way there, you’d be wrong. And you won’t have an easy time either, but so what?

Her story is a rollercoaster of rejection and disappointment, fear, self-doubt, and near bankruptcy.

 

But when you’ve got big plans, you just keep going. Jamie never lost faith, and today she is teaching you how to never give up on your big plans either.

 

 

In today’s episode, you will learn 

  • What to do when you have no idea what you’re doing.
  • Why it’s okay to do something that’s been done plenty of times.
  • What it’s like to pitch live on QVC.
  • How to handle someone saying “Women won’t buy from someone who looks like you.”
  • How to believe in yourself when nobody else does.
  • A truth about success we rarely ever hear about.
  • What to do when QVC says “NO you can’t sell that way.”
  • How to react when some idiot tells you they won’t invest in you.
  • How to break into an industry event and pitch your idea.
  • How to harness belief in yourself when you want to give up.

Wow. Just wow.

 

If you don’t know what to get the graduates in your life, send this episode because it’s a real gift. 

 

Xo Mel

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

 

  • 4:50: Introducing today’s guest- my good friend, Jamie Kern Lima.
  • 7:30: Jamie learned this important skill while working as a server at Denny’s.
  • 9:00: Never disregard the seasons of your life that feel setbacks.
  • 10:00: What the hell does it mean that our lives are happening “for” us?
  • 10:45: Here’s how Jamie defines life’s purpose. 
  • 13:15: If you hate your job, listen to this.
  • 16:50: The moment where Jamie knew she was meant to do something meaningful.
  • 20:15: Not sure what your purpose is? Think about what you struggle with.
  • 24:00: This is the biggest reason we talk ourselves out of following our dreams.
  • 27:30: But how do you get started when you don’t even know what to do?
  • 32:00: Ever had a gut feeling? Hear Jamie define intuition and how to tune in.
  • 35:30: Try going through your day this way and build your intuition muscle.
  • 37:20: Two reasons why we go through horrible, unspeakable times.
  • 38:30: This was the biggest rejection moment that inspired Jamie to keep going.
  • 41:15: Listen to the “no” or listen to the “knowing.” You get to choose.
  • 44:30: How do you determine the NEXT right step?
  • 46:45: Jamie lands a ten-minute do-or-die spot on QVC after multiple rejections.
  • 57:00: Here’s how all that rejection became Jamie’s strength.
  • 1:02:00: Does your purpose have to be part of your job?

 

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