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How to Build Closer Friendships & Get Rid Of Loneliness

2024/6/24
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一位专注于领导力和个人成长的著名_motivational speaker_和播客主持人。
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成年人的友谊很难维系,因为人们很容易沉迷于社交媒体上看似完美的生活,而忽略了自身的需求和主动建立友谊的努力。成年人的友谊不是团队运动,需要主动出击,而不是被动等待。人们常常对自己说谎,这些谎言阻碍了他们建立良好友谊。这五个谎言分别是:1. 每个人的生活都是派对;2. 我格格不入,别人不喜欢我;3. 最好的朋友永远是最好的朋友;4. 我需要成为所有人的朋友;5. 我太忙了,太累了,不想出门。克服这些谎言的关键在于:1. 主动创造自己的社交机会;2. 相信别人比你想象的更喜欢你;3. 灵活对待友谊,接纳友谊的变迁;4. 不必成为所有人的朋友;5. 即使忙碌或疲惫,也要主动为友谊付出努力。建立友谊需要时间和努力,但友谊对幸福至关重要。为了建立更紧密的友谊,可以尝试以下三个方法:1. 将友谊分为三种类型:出于某种原因、某个季节或终生的友谊,并灵活对待不同类型的友谊;2. 主动采取行动,走出舒适区,结识新朋友;3. 每天主动联系朋友,增进友谊。

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Why is adult friendship so hard? 

Today, Mel is finally having the conversation on how to find your people, have more fun, and create meaningful friendships as an adult. 

In this deeply relatable episode, you’ll learn the 5 lies that you tell yourself about friendship that are keeping you from having the best relationships of your life—and the truths you must know. 

If you’ve been feeling lonely, left out, or just like your friendships are not as strong as they used to be, you’ll feel empowered and encouraged by the time you finish listening. 

Mel is giving you her exact 3-step playbook for finding, making, and strengthening your relationships. This is an encore episode with new and exciting insights from Mel at the top of the episode, that is packed with tools, tips, and scripts to create more meaningful friendships. 

For more resources, including links to the studies mentioned in the episode, click here) for the podcast episode page. 

If you liked this episode, especially the last 10 minutes of it (you’ll have to listen to know what I’m talking about!) you’ll love this one next: This One Hack Will Unlock Your Happier Life)

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