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Signs You’re Dealing With a Narcissist (New Research From World-Leading Expert Dr. Ramani)

2024/2/15
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Dr. Ramani Durvasula: 本期节目深入探讨了自恋人格，解释了自恋作为一种人格风格而非精神疾病的特性，并详细描述了自恋者的行为模式、思维方式和情感特点。她强调自恋的核心是权利感和对认可的渴望，并解释了自恋者如何通过操纵、贬低他人来维护自身形象。她还区分了自恋与虚荣、自负的区别，并指出自恋者并非完全缺乏同理心，而是其同理心具有可变性。此外，她还分析了自恋的成因，指出其可能与童年经历（逆境或过度溺爱）有关。她还解释了自恋的几种表现形式，包括夸大自恋和脆弱型自恋，并指出社交媒体对脆弱型自恋的放大作用。最后，她还讨论了自恋者是否能够改变以及如何帮助那些与自恋者有关系的人们进行疗愈。 Mel Robbins: 作为一名播客主持人，Mel Robbins 与 Dr. Ramani Durvasula 进行了深入的对话，探讨了自恋人格的识别、应对和疗愈。她分享了自己与自恋者相处以及从中恢复的经验，并表达了对自恋这一话题的关注，以及对受其影响的人们的同情。她还强调了区分自恋行为与正常行为的重要性，并鼓励听众在面对自恋者时要保护自己，并寻求专业帮助。

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Dr. Ramani defines narcissism as a personality style characterized by variable empathy, entitlement, grandiosity, and a core of insecurity, which manifests as a need for validation and control.

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Today’s episode is a masterclass in narcissism. 

 

If you want to know how to protect yourself from a narcissist, you first have to know how to identify one. 

 

You’ll learn the top 10 personality traits to look for, how to handle a narcissist in your life (that you can’t avoid), the difference between ‘love bombing’ and infatuation, and a whole lot more.

 

Joining Mel today is Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist and one of the world’s leading experts on narcissism.

 

Her mastery of all things narcissism has made her the #1 most requested guest on The Mel Robbins Podcast.

 

Dr. Ramani has been researching this topic for over 20 years and is here to give you the wisdom, practical advice, and well-researched tools and tricks to navigate what is one of the most unpredictable experiences: being in a relationship with a narcissist. 

 

According to Dr. Ramani, 1 in 5 people has narcissist traits, which means you know (and may love) someone who is a narcissist. After you listen, you’ll know what to do.

 

For more resources, including links to Dr. Ramani’s book, website, and social media platforms, click here) for the podcast episode page.

 

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