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The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You

2024/5/27
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Mel Robbins:在节目中介绍了Matthew Hussey提出的关系四个层次理论,并强调了解自己和伴侣所处的阶段对于维系健康的关系至关重要。她分享了自己的经验,说明了忽视重要对话可能导致关系破裂的风险。 Matthew Hussey:详细解释了关系的四个层次:欣赏、相互吸引、承诺和兼容性。他指出,相互吸引虽然重要,但它本身不足以维系一段长久的关系;承诺是建立长期关系的基础;而兼容性则体现在双方能否满足彼此的基本需求,以及在相处过程中是否轻松自然。他还强调了坦诚沟通的重要性,以及在关系中坚持自身标准的重要性。他通过角色扮演的方式,示范了如何与伴侣开启关于承诺的对话,并分享了处理关系中出现问题的策略。他强调,自我爱护是设定并坚持标准的基础,只有足够爱自己,才能在关系中保护自身利益,并选择适合自己的伴侣。 Matthew Hussey:详细解释了关系的四个层次:欣赏、相互吸引、承诺和兼容性。他指出,相互吸引虽然重要,但它本身不足以维系一段长久的关系;承诺是建立长期关系的基础;而兼容性则体现在双方能否满足彼此的基本需求,以及在相处过程中是否轻松自然。他还强调了坦诚沟通的重要性,以及在关系中坚持自身标准的重要性。他通过角色扮演的方式,示范了如何与伴侣开启关于承诺的对话,并分享了处理关系中出现问题的策略。他强调,自我爱护是设定并坚持标准的基础,只有足够爱自己,才能在关系中保护自身利益,并选择适合自己的伴侣。

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Do you want to know the best relationship advice no one has ever told you before? 

In today’s episode, Mel is revealing the one rule about relationships you must know.

There is a game-changing framework that will help any relationship go the distance, and once you hear it, you’ll want to share it with everyone you know. 

It reveals why some relationships fail, and it also gives you the secret to sustaining a strong and successful relationship.

Here to explain this “4 Levels” framework is New York Times bestselling author Matthew Hussey.

Matthew has been helping people for more than 17 years to feel more confident and in control of their relationships. His YouTube channel is number one in the world for love life advice, with over half a billion views.

By the end of today’s episode, you’ll know when it’s time to let go of a relationship, when it’s worth fighting for, and the 4 habits of all successful relationships.

For more resources, including links to Matthew Hussey’s new book and his videos, click here) for the podcast episode page. 

If you liked this episode, you’ll want to listen to this one next: 3 Simple Ways to Get the Love You Want).

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