We're sunsetting PodQuest on 2025-07-28. Thank you for your support!
Export Podcast Subscriptions
cover of episode “The Secret of a Happy Relationship…” the Best Advice That I Have Received

“The Secret of a Happy Relationship…” the Best Advice That I Have Received

2024/8/8
logo of podcast The Mel Robbins Podcast

The Mel Robbins Podcast

AI Deep Dive AI Chapters Transcript
People
M
Matthew Hussey
M
Mel Robbins
一位专注于领导力和个人成长的著名_motivational speaker_和播客主持人。
Topics
Matthew Hussey:在长期关系中,人们最大的错误之一是将伴侣的优秀品质视为理所当然。随着时间的推移,我们容易忘记伴侣的优点,将他们的付出视为理所当然。这会导致我们对关系的满意度下降,甚至在与其他人比较时发现自己错过了很多美好的东西。保持关系新鲜感的关键在于用新的视角看待伴侣,而不是寻找新的伴侣。持续的个人成长和新鲜感能使我们保持对生活的热情,并为伴侣带来新的活力。在一段关系中,伴侣带给你的价值不应该凌驾于你自身的价值之上。我们应该关注伴侣带给我们的感受,而不是他们的外在形象。在处理伴侣的缺点时,应先以同情和理解为出发点,再考虑自身需求。妥协应该建立在不产生怨恨的基础上,需要明确自身价值和需求。区分伴侣的行为是否侵犯了你的需求,还是仅仅因为对方与你不同而感到不满。长期单身的人应改变对自身和单身状态的负面认知,积极寻找机会结识新朋友。面对线上约会的疲惫和焦虑,应管理好自身情绪,并积极拓展线下社交圈。面对不理想的约会文化,应勇于创造属于自己的约会方式和标准。在恋爱中,应放慢速度,提高自身标准,并勇于创造属于自己的相处模式。在恋爱中,要既温柔又坚定,既能表达需求,又能果断地结束不合适的相处模式。 Mel Robbins:人们在寻求感情建议时,往往过于关注伴侣的缺点,而忽略了关系中积极的方面。无论单身还是已婚,个人成长都是改善感情关系的关键。在恋爱中,关注伴侣带给你的感受比关注伴侣的外在形象更重要。妥协应该建立在不产生怨恨的基础上,需要明确自身价值和需求。当伴侣无法与你保持同步成长时,应关注自身需求是否得到满足,并考虑关系的长期发展。

Deep Dive

Chapters
Matthew Hussey discusses the common mistake of taking a partner's positive qualities for granted over time.

Shownotes Transcript

This is expert relationship advice everyone needs to hear.

Whether you are single, dating, in a relationship, or married, you will learn the relationship secrets you never knew you were missing.

This is not the same stale relationship advice you’ve heard over and over again. The fresh advice you hear in this episode will jumpstart your relationship or help you find real and lasting love. 

Learn the simple habits of all happy relationships, how to find a great partner *without *a dating app, and get the quick advice you need to hear to improve your love life instantly.

Matthew Hussey is here to help Mel give relationship advice that will make your love life come alive, no matter what state it’s in right now. For more than 17 years, Matthew has been helping people feel more confident and in control of their relationships. His YouTube channel is number one in the world for love-life advice, with over half a billion views, and he is a New York Times bestselling author. Today, he is helping you.

Listen for the best advice you will hear for finding love, falling in love, and keeping in love.

For more resources, including links to Matthew’s book, website, and social media, click here) for the podcast episode page. 

If you liked this episode, you’ll love listening to Matthew’s first episode next: The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You), and for more great relationship advice, 3 Requirements of a Good Relationship)

Connect with Mel: