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Gabby Bernstein: You Can Heal Your Life! Release Negative Thought Patterns Holding You Back & Become Your Own Inner Healer

2025/1/7
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Gabby Bernstein: 本书的核心是一个基于内在家庭系统疗法的四步练习法,帮助读者识别和处理内心的“保护者”部分(例如控制欲、完美主义、成瘾等),这些部分实际上是为了保护内心受创的“被放逐者”部分(童年创伤等)。通过与这些部分建立联系、理解其需求,并给予慈悲,最终实现自我疗愈,从而改变生活。 具体步骤包括:第一步,选择与内在部分建立联系;第二步,以好奇心去探索这些部分的感受、年龄、形状和身体位置;第三步,以慈悲之心询问这些部分的需求;第四步,观察自我能量(平静、勇气、创造力等)是否出现。 Gabby Bernstein还强调了精神向导和天使的作用,他们可以引导人们的思想回归爱,并通过各种方式(例如巧合、直觉等)给予指引。她鼓励人们相信自己拥有神圣的使命,并从经历中学习和成长,将痛苦转化为目标。 Jamie Kern Lima: Jamie Kern Lima与Gabby Bernstein的对话中,她分享了自己在感到不知所措时会寻求完美来控制局面的经历,并通过与Gabby Bernstein一起进行四步练习法,体验了与内在小孩部分建立联系、理解其需求,并给予慈悲的过程。她强调了自我价值的重要性,以及相信自己能够克服自卑感,实现目标。

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How can we connect with our spirit guides?

We can connect with our spirit guides by attuning our energy through practices like spiritual conversations, meditation, or joyful moments with loved ones. Invoking them with a message like, "Thank you, guidance of the highest truth and compassion, for entering into my life right now," is key. Expressing gratitude affirms belief in their presence.

What is the difference between spirit guides and angels?

Guides often have a personal connection, like deceased loved ones or symbolic figures. Angels, while also having unique energies, primarily guide our thoughts back to love, bridging fear and faith. Both can communicate through sensations, images, or even interactions with technology.

How can connecting with spirit guides help with loneliness?

Developing a relationship with spirit guides can foster a sense of connection and alleviate feelings of loneliness, providing comfort and support, especially in challenging times.

How can we identify our divine calling?

Our divine calling stems from a pre-life checklist of soul experiences chosen to learn and transcend specific lessons. It's revealed through life events, even hardships, which can be reframed as opportunities for growth and purpose, ultimately leading to helping others.

Why is it important not to rush the process of finding purpose in pain?

Rushing to find purpose in pain can lead to spiritual bypassing, hindering true healing. It's crucial to allow time for grieving and processing difficult emotions before seeking meaning. A slow, steady recovery allows for genuine transformation and integration of experiences.

What is the four-step check-in process described in Gabby Bernstein's book "Self-Help"?

The process involves 1. Choosing to check in with oneself, 2. Expressing curiosity about inner feelings and sensations through questions, 3. Establishing compassionate connection by asking the activated part what it needs, and 4. Observing the calming, courageous, and compassionate qualities of self-energy emerge.

How can we befriend our "protector parts" and transform negative behaviors?

We befriend these parts by acknowledging they are protection mechanisms formed from past experiences. Through the four-step check-in process, we offer compassion, understanding, and a sense of safety, allowing these parts to relax and take on less extreme roles.

What is the significance of self-energy in the healing process?

Self-energy represents the inner parent, the God within, offering love, truth, and security to the activated parts. Connecting with self-energy allows us to access calm, courage, creativity, curiosity, connectedness, compassion, and confidence, fostering healing and transformation.

Is "Self-Help" a good starting point for those new to Gabby Bernstein's work?

While other books like "The Universe Has Your Back" or "Super Attractor" offer valuable spiritual principles and manifesting methods, "Self-Help" delves into the core work of healing through the four-step check-in process, providing a foundation for deeper transformation.

How does surrendering to spirit and the universe contribute to manifesting?

Surrendering to spirit and the universe aligns our energy with well-being, fostering feelings of magic, joy, and freedom. This positive energy becomes the catalyst for manifesting greatness, attracting abundance and positive outcomes.

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Do you have limiting beliefs in your life that are holding you back and keeping you stuck? Shifting my core, limiting beliefs has been life-changing for me and will be a practice I continue to strengthen the rest of my life, because I truly believe that in life we don’t become what we want, we become what we believe! 

 

If you’re ready to learn new tools and tips to shift your core limiting beliefs, hault the negative patterns in your life, and put an end to those toxic thoughts that often spiral, today’s episode is for you! Renowned spiritual teacher, highly sought-after speaker, and #1 New York Times bestselling author Gabby Bernstein is here to share this Self-Help Masterclass Part 2 with YOU!  

 

Gabby has been hailed as a “next-generation thought leader," by Oprah Winfrey. She’s the author of nine bestselling books including The Universe Has Your Back, and today, I’m so excited to share she’s releasing her 10th book called “Self-Help: This is your chance to change your life.” And today, she might just change yours with Part 2 of this incredible conversation packed with tools and tips you can apply to your life today! 

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Chapters:

0:00 Welcome to The Jamie Kern Lima Show

2:20 Spirit Guides

11:08 No Longer Feel Alone 

16:51 Turn Pain Into Purpose 

22:10 Seeking Control To Protect Yourself 

29:21 Gabby’s Life Changing 4-Step Practice 

34:48 Inner Child Healing

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