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12 More Rules For (A Frugal) Life

2025/1/31
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主持人:我不吹牛,我自认为相当节俭。有些人甚至叫我"节俭的克米特"。很久以前,我分享了我节俭生活的12条规则,你们都很喜欢。你们真是规则的追随者。今天,我将分享另外12条节俭生活的规则,以帮助你们省钱、简单生活并做出更明智的财务决策。在开始之前,请点击点赞和订阅按钮,并将此视频分享给你们的朋友,那些自认为节俭,但实际上只是吝啬鬼的朋友。你知道你在说什么。从慈善商店偷东西不是节俭,布莱恩。你是一个罪犯。我曾私下告诉你。好了,让我们开始吧。以下是节俭生活的另外12条规则。节俭规则第一条:如果你不买,一切都是100%的折扣。我喜欢促销活动,我不怕做一些工作来寻找一个10美元的折扣,用于全套合成混合油更换。但关键是,只有在你已经计划用你已经预算好的钱购买的东西上节省时,才利用这些优惠。你的新座右铭是什么?永远不要花钱,只存钱。折扣和大型促销活动通常只是营销策略,目的是让你花更多的钱。他们之所以这样做,是因为它有效。不要让噱头式的销售和冲动购买慢慢地耗尽你的银行账户,偷走你的平静。我不在乎东西是否比建议零售价便宜75%。如果你不需要它,最节俭的选择是走开。就像我五年级时避开那场打架一样。是的,我是个更大的人。或者更准确地说,是更小的人。无论如何,汤米不想打架。你想打我吗?节俭规则第二条:不要为了捡起便士而跨过美元。记住,我们试图节俭,而不是吝啬。有时我们过于关注这里和那里节省一点点,这实际上会导致我们花更多的钱。最好的例子之一是信用卡积分。谁不想免费飞往博伊西?对吧?但是信用卡公司创建奖励计划的方式会激励人们比他们计划的消费更多,使他们陷入债务的恶性循环。他们故意使用复杂的定价结构、混乱的积分系统和细小的免责条款,所有这些都是为了他们的底线和他们的利益,而不是你的利益。对于很大一部分人来说,这些奖励都会浪费掉。最近的一项调查发现,23%的人在过去12个月中没有兑换他们的奖励。然而,人们仍然像猫追逐激光束一样追逐信用卡积分和航空里程。你的精力最好花在购买更便宜的保险或增加收入等事情上,这些事情会对你的财务产生更大的影响。因此,在重要的地方花钱,在重要的地方省钱,但不要沉迷于多开12英里路程以节省3美分汽油,或者试图获得足够的信用卡积分来致富。这是不可能的。节俭规则第三条:如果你装富,你就会变得真穷。现在,我说的是"装富",指的是购买你真正买不起的昂贵的汽车、房屋、衣服、手表、小工具和机动玩具。我把"购买"放在令人讨厌的引号里,因为大多数时候这些东西不是买的。它们只是通过汽车贷款、住房净值信用额度、信用卡,甚至先买后付的应用程序来融资的。我来告诉你,如果你不能负担得起不用负债就能支付的东西,即使是暂时性的,你也负担不起。不要这样做。我不是说你永远不能买昂贵的东西。我只是说不要为了维持一种生活方式来取悦别人而负债,如果说实话,他们可能根本不喜欢你那么多。那么更好的方法是什么?好吧,创建一个储蓄基金来攒钱。等到你能付现金或找到更便宜的替代品。你现在超支可能会让你今天看起来很好,但它保证你明天会感到压力。与此同时,少于你的收入生活和练习延迟满足感是节俭生活的关键组成部分。或者正如瑞奇·马丁所说:"过着节俭的生活"。♪过着节俭的生活♪♪上上下下♪我不在乎你是谁,你肯定在人生的某个阶段通过收音机在录音机上录过这首歌。你多大年纪了?如果你不认识这首歌,感谢你观看我的频道,孩子们。节俭规则第四条:财务界限带来自律,自律带来财富。人类需要界限才能茁壮成长,这就是预算为你做的事情。与普遍看法相反,预算不会限制你。它实际上是自由。它让你能够有目的地花钱。它是一张花钱的许可证。你看,当你制定零基预算时,这意味着你的收入减去支出等于零,你正在为每一美元分配工作。通过跟踪你的收入和支出,你将清楚地了解你的钱到底去哪里了,以及你可以在哪里进行调整。这样,就不会在HomeGoods上毫无目的地花在猫相关的艺术印刷品上,除非它在预算中,在这种情况下,你被允许花钱。所以,如果你想节俭,确保你正在使用EveryDollar预算来练习财务自律。如果你想查看我最喜欢的应用程序,它叫做EveryDollar,我会在下面的节目说明中链接它。我知道。人们不喜欢我使用"预算"这个词。所以,与其说是预算,不如说是计划性支出。开心吗?很好。节俭规则第五条:对支出的每一次肯定都是对更大目标的否定。这完全是关于机会成本。举个例子,如果你经常在HomeGoods上花那么多钱,以至于你负担不起退休投资,那么如果你把这笔钱投资到退休账户中,你就会错过多年的复利增长。所以,那幅猫脸画在人身上的油画,也就是"喵丽莎",它的花费远不止你花的19美元。未来的你将为你现在买的所有垃圾付出代价。所以在购物之前,问问自己,这值得牺牲我的梦想吗?这比我的其他目标,如储蓄或捐赠更重要吗?所以在刷卡之前,问问自己,为了买这个,我放弃了什么?我对此满意吗?节俭规则第六条:不要仅仅因为你快乐、悲伤、愤怒或高兴而做出财务决定。如果我们从《头脑特工队2》中学到一件事,那就是情绪会影响你的判断。还有焦虑很糟糕。不,你是完全正确的。这个决定根本不会困扰我们一生。所以,如果你的情绪高涨,在花钱之前先冷静一下。一个好的经验法则是,在做出任何重大购买决定之前等待24小时。睡一觉,给自己时间仔细考虑一下,然后决定你是否真的需要它。大多数时候,你会发现自己放弃购物车或稍后保存,你的银行账户会感谢你。你知道什么也是个错误吗?让那些可疑的人继续搜索网站,收集和出售你的个人信息,而无需你的许可。但是你可以通过我们的朋友Delete.me来解决这个问题,它是今天视频的赞助商之一。Delete.me会从数据经纪人网站上清除你的个人信息,而且他们会全年一直这样做。他们甚至会向你发送一份详细报告,向你展示他们在哪里找到并删除了你的信息,以及他们为你节省了多少时间。我已经节省了整整66个小时。因此,使用Delete Me来保护自己免受在线诈骗和数据泄露的风险。现在,你可以通过访问joindeleteme.com/george或点击下面的描述链接获得20%的折扣。在我们进入下一条节俭规则之前,这里有一个奖励规则。如果你想永远不用担心数据限制,无限一切计划每月只需25美元。而且最酷的部分是,没有合同。你可以随时升级或降级。你可以在家里的舒适环境中开始。如果你想更加节俭,你可以通过访问tello.com/george或使用下面的描述链接,在第一个月的无限计划中额外获得5美元的折扣。好的,回到规则。节俭规则第七条:如果你的财富是看不见的,你就在正确的轨道上。当Ramsey Solutions调查超过10000名净资产百万富翁时,我们发现他们大多数人并没有过着奢华的生活方式,乘坐私人飞机和驾驶兰博基尼。事实上,他们大多数人驾驶本田和丰田。你可能无法仅仅通过观察他们来判断他们是百万富翁。这是因为真正的财富不在于炫耀的汽车或名牌服装。它在于看不见的东西,例如你的退休账户中有许多逗号,以及你的房屋净值,因为你已经还清了你的房子。这就是真正的自由和安心。这就是真正的财富。因此,看不见的财富是一个很好的指标,表明你已经把你的优先级理顺了,并且正在做出明智的财务决策。而且上次我检查时,Cybertrucks是看不见的,尽管我希望它们是看不见的。路上真正的碍眼物。节俭规则第八条:在商店购物之前先检查你的家。现在这个很简单,说实话不需要多解释,但在你跑出去花钱买你认为需要的东西之前,好好看看你的房子。无论是食物、衣服还是工具,你可能已经在某个抽屉里、阁楼里一个巨大的塑料箱里,或者储藏室后面意外地被你永远不会吃完的过期小麦薄饼盒藏起来的东西。如果你没有,看看你是否可以从商店租用它,或者更好的是,从朋友或邻居那里借用它。这还有一个额外的好处,那就是人际交往。你知道,就像过去我们一起出去玩而不是互相分享表情包的那些日子一样。更简单的时代。节俭规则第九条:时间是最昂贵的货币。你只在上帝的绿色地球上被给予一定的时间,你总是可以赚更多的钱,但你不能赚更多的时间。所以停止为了不必要的事情而交易你宝贵的时间。例如,如果你讨厌割草,并且你有额外的钱,那就雇人来做。你正在给别人提供工作,你正在给自己争取时间。节俭的人和富裕的人都知道,买回自己的时间比买另一个小玩意儿重要得多。节俭规则第十条:你拥有的东西越少,你就会感觉越富有。现在,这可能看起来违反直觉,但极简主义现在如此流行是有原因的。很容易陷入消费主义和与琼斯一家竞争的陷阱。但是,当你少花钱,专注于真正重要的事情时,你可以过上更有目的性的生活,并减少你的开支。在我看来,这就是节俭的意义所在。拥有几件你真正使用和喜爱的好东西,比中产阶级幻想并囤积一堆垃圾在你的阁楼和储物单元里要好得多,你的孩子有一天在你不可避免地搬到佛罗里达或去世时将不得不处理这些垃圾。有些人会说它们是一回事。没有人这么说。所以简化你的生活。更少的杂乱等于更少的压力、更多的快乐和更多空间来容纳真正重要的事情。这是我今天要说过的最漂亮的话。如果我这么说的话,我认为这非常辛酸。节俭规则第十一条:你不能通过花钱来获得有意义的生活。我不在乎你有多少钱,买更多的东西不会让你快乐。正如伟大的齐格·齐格勒曾经说过的那样:"钱不会让你快乐,但每个人都想自己去发现。"这是大多数人必须以艰难的方式学习的教训之一。但是,如果你想学习更容易的方法,请查看哈佛大学教授亚瑟·布鲁克斯在同一个房间里告诉我关于金钱和幸福的事情。事实证明,你可以用你的钱做五件事。你可以买东西。你可以买经验。你可以买时间。你可以把它送人,或者你可以存起来。这些是你唯一能用钱做的事情,对吧?其中四件会给你带来快乐,一件不会。你的大脑告诉你做一件不会带来快乐的事情,那就是去买东西。就是这样。不知何故,来自一位可爱的哈佛大学教授,看起来像斯坦利·图齐的远房表亲,这句话听起来很不一样。看,拥有好东西并享受它们是可以的。只是不要让那些东西控制你。不要指望事情让你快乐。相反,专注于你的目标、你的关系、你的精神生活和你的安心,这与我们的最后一条规则直接相关。节俭规则第十二条:投资于持久的事物。我说的不仅仅是一双做工精良的靴子,尽管这是一个好主意。你应该这样做。我认为优先考虑质量以从长远来看节省资金是明智的。事实上,这是我之前的12条规则之一。现在购买高质量的产品以避免以后购买更多产品。但这条规则不仅仅是关于物质和金钱。它关乎你的身心健康、人际关系、精神生活、信仰、事业以及你对周围人的影响。对我来说,这就是真正的财富和满足感。所以,这个频道的秘密是,我谈论金钱是为了让我们停止谈论金钱。因为当金钱不再是障碍时,我们可以专注于真正重要的事情,并成为我们真正想成为的人。然后,金钱就成为帮助你过上你为之自豪而不是感到筋疲力尽的生活的工具。所以,这些是节俭生活的另外12条规则。记住,节俭并不意味着你像《小鬼当家》里的弗兰克叔叔一样吝啬。它只是意味着你对你的钱非常有计划,这将包括制定和坚持每月预算。我的意思是,计划性支出。我用来创建我的计划性支出并跟踪我的支出的应用程序是EveryDollar。这是一个免费下载,而且非常易于使用,它基本上为你完成了所有的计算。所以,如果你想查看它,请点击描述中的链接或访问everydollar.com/george。和往常一样,别忘了点赞和订阅,如果你错过了我节俭生活的最初12条规则,请务必继续观看下一个视频或点击下面的描述链接。感谢观看。下次再见。

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I don't want to brag, but I consider myself to be pretty frugal. Some people even call me Kermit the Frug. No one calls you that. So a while back, I shared my 12 rules for a frugal life, and you guys loved it. Bunch of rule followers you are. And today, I'm going to share 12 more rules for frugal living to help you save money, live simply, and make smarter financial decisions. But before we jump in, hit those like and subscribe buttons, and share this video with your friend who thinks he's frugal, but is actually just...

a giant cheapskate. You know who you are. Stealing from Goodwill isn't frugality, Brian. You're a criminal. I told you that in confidence. All right, let's get to it. Here are 12 more rules for a frugal life. Frugal rule number one. Everything's 100% off if you don't buy it.

Look, I love a good sale, and I'm not afraid to do a little work to find a promo code for $10 off a full-service synthetic blend oil change. But here's the key. Only take advantage of these offers if you're saving on something you already plan to buy with money you already budgeted. Your new mantra? Never spend, just save.

just to save. Discounts and big blowout sales are usually just marketing tactics to get you to spend more money. And the reason they do that junk is because it works. Don't let gimmicky sales and impulse purchases slowly drain your bank account and steal your peace. I don't care if something is 75% off MSRP. If you don't need it, the most frugal choice is walking away. Just like I walked away from that fight in fifth grade. Yeah, I was the bigger man. Well, technically the smaller man. Either way, Tommy didn't want the smoke. You want a piece of me?

Frugal rule number two, don't step over dollars to pick up pennies. Remember, we're trying to be frugal, not cheap. Sometimes we focus so much on saving a little tiny bit here and there that it actually leads us to spend more money. And one of the best examples of this is credit card points. Who doesn't want a free flight to Boise? Am I right? But credit card companies create the reward programs in a way that incentivizes people to spend more than they planned, trapping them in a vicious cycle of debt.

They intentionally use complex pricing structures, confusing point systems, and tiny fine print terms that all exist for their bottom line and their benefit, not yours. And for a good chunk of the population, these rewards are going to waste. A recent survey found that 23% of the people didn't redeem their rewards

in the past 12 months. Yet people still chase credit card points and airline miles like a cat trying to catch a laser beam. Your energy would be much better spent on things like shopping for cheaper insurance or increasing your income, things that could make a bigger impact on your finances. So spend where it matters and save where it counts, but don't get caught up in driving an extra 12 miles to save three cents on gas or trying to get enough credit card points to become wealthy. It's not happening.

Frugal rule number three. If you live fake rich, you'll become real broke. Now by fake rich, I mean buying expensive cars, homes, clothes, watches, gadgets, and motorized toys that you really can't afford. And I put buying in obnoxious air quotes because most of the time these things are not bought. They're just financed through auto loans, HELOCs, credit cards, and even buy now, pay later apps. And I'm here to tell you, if you can't afford to pay for something without going into debt, even temporarily, you can't afford it. Don't

don't do it. I'm not saying you can never buy something expensive. I'm just saying don't use debt just to prop up a lifestyle to impress other people that, if we're going to be honest, probably don't even like you that much. So what's the better route? Well, start a sinking fund to save up for it. Wait until you can pay cash or find a cheaper alternative. Living beyond your means right now might make you look good today, but it guarantees stress tomorrow. Meanwhile, living on less than you make and practicing delayed gratification are key components of

of living that frugal life. Or as Ricky Martin would say, "Living la vida frugal." ♪ Living la vida frugal ♪ ♪ Upside and side ♪ I don't care who you are, you recorded that song on tape through the radio on a boombox at some point in your life. How old are you? And if you don't know that song, thanks for watching my channel, toddlers.

Frugal rule number four, financial boundaries lead to discipline, discipline leads to wealth. Humans need boundaries to thrive, and that's what a budget does for you. And contrary to popular belief, a budget does not restrict you. It's actually freedom. It frees you to spend intentionally. It's a permission slip to spend.

You see, when you make a zero-based budget, which means your income minus expenses equals zero, you're giving every single dollar a job to do. And by tracking your income and expenses, you'll have a clear understanding of exactly where your money's going and where you can make adjustments. That way, nothing will get mindlessly spent on cat-related art prints at HomeGoods, unless it's in the budget, in which case you have permission to spend.

So if you want to be frugal, make sure you're practicing financial discipline with an every dollar budget. And if you want to check out my favorite app, it's called EveryDollar, and I'll link it in the show notes below. And I get it. People don't like when I use the B word. So instead of budget, let's call it an intentional spending plan. Happy? Good.

Frugal rule number five, every yes to spending is a no to something bigger. This one is all about opportunity cost. Here's an example. If you regularly spend so much at home goods that you can't afford to invest for your retirement, you're missing out on years of compound growth if that money were invested in a retirement account. So that framed oil painting of a cat's face on a human body, aka the Meow-nalisa, is costing you way more than just the 19 bucks you spent. Future you is gonna pay the price for all the crap you're buying right meow.

So before you make a purchase, ask yourself, is this worth sacrificing my dreams? Is this more important than my other goals like saving or giving? So before you swipe that card, ask yourself, what am I giving up in order to buy this? And am I okay with that?

Frugal rule number six, don't make financial decisions just because you're happy, sad, mad, or glad. If there's one thing we learn from Inside Out too, it's that emotions can cloud your judgment. That and the fact that anxiety sucks. No, you're totally right. That decision's not gonna haunt us for the rest of our lives at all. So if your emotions are running high, cool off before you spend. And a good rule of thumb is to wait 24 hours before making any big purchases. Sleep on it, give yourself time to mull it over, and decide if it's something that you really need.

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Frugal rule number seven. If your wealth is invisible, you're on the right track. When Ramsey Solutions surveyed more than 10,000 net worth millionaires, we found that most of them aren't living flashy lifestyles, flying private jets and driving Lambos. In fact, most of them drive Hondas and Toyotas.

And you probably wouldn't be able to tell they're millionaires just by looking at them. And that's because true wealth isn't in flashy cars or designer clothes. It's in the invisible things like your retirement account with lots of commas in it and your home equity because you paid off your house. That's true freedom and peace of mind. That is true wealth. So invisible wealth is a good indicator that you've got your priorities straight and you're making smart money moves. And last time I checked, Cybertrucks are not invisible, although I wish they were. Real eyesore on the road.

Frugal rule number eight, shop your home before you shop the store. Now this one's pretty simple and honestly does not need much explanation, but before you run out and spend money on something you think you need, take a good look around your house. Whether it's food, clothes, tools, there's a chance you already have what you need in a drawer somewhere, tucked away in a giant plastic bin in the attic, or in the back of the pantry accidentally concealed by the expired box of wheat thins that you'll never finish. And if you don't have it, see if you can rent it from a store or even better, borrow it from a friend or neighbor.

And that comes with the added bonus of human connection. You know, like the good old days when we used to hang out instead of just sharing memes back and forth. Simpler times.

Frugal rule number nine, time is the most expensive currency. You're only given a certain amount of time on God's green earth, and you can always make more money, but you can't make more time. So stop trading your precious time for unnecessary things. For example, if you hate mowing the lawn and you have extra money, hire someone to do it. You're giving somebody a job and you're giving yourself some time back. Frugal people and wealthy people alike know that buying their time back is way more important than buying another thingamajig.

Frugal rule number 10. The less you own, the richer you'll feel. Now, this one might seem counterintuitive, but there's a reason that minimalism is so popular right now. It's easy to fall into the trap of consumerism and keeping up with the Joneses. But when you live with less and focus on the things that truly matter, you can live a more intentional life and reduce your expenses. That's what being frugal is all about in my book. Owning just a few nice things that you actually use and love is way better than being middle class fancy and hoarding a bunch of

crap in your attic and storage units that your kids are going to have to deal with one day when you inevitably move to Florida or die. Some would say they're one and the same. Nobody says that. So simplify your life. Less clutter equals less stress, more joy, and more room for what really matters. And that's the nicest thing I'm going to say today. I thought that was very poignant if I do say so myself.

Frugal rule number 11, you can't spend your way into a meaningful life. I don't care how much money you have, buying more stuff is not gonna make you happy. As the great Zig Ziglar once said, "Money won't make you happy, but everyone wants to find out for themselves." And this is one of those lessons most people have to learn the hard way.

But if you want to learn the easier way, check out what Harvard professor Arthur Brooks told me about money and happiness right in this very room. It turns out there's five things that you can do with your money. You can buy stuff. You can buy experiences. You can buy time. You can give it away or you can save it. Those are the only things you can do with your money, right? Four of them will bring you happiness and one won't.

Your brain is telling you to do the one thing that won't bring happiness, which is to go buy stuff. There you go. Somehow it hits different coming from a delightful Harvard professor who looks like a distant cousin of Stanley Tucci. Look, it's fine to have nice things and enjoy them. Just don't let that stuff own you. And don't look to things to make you happy. Instead, focus on your purpose, your relationships, your spiritual life, and your peace of mind, which ties right into our final rule.

Frugal rule number 12, invest in what lasts. And I'm not just talking about a pair of well-made boots, although that's a good idea. You should do that. I think it's wise to prioritize quality to save money in the long run. In fact, that was one of my last 12 rules. Buy quality now to avoid buying more later. But this rule is about more than just physical things and money. It's about your physical health, your mental health, your relationships, your spiritual life, your faith, your career, and the impact you have on the people around you. That to me is where true wealth and contentment

So here's the secret of this channel. I talk about money so that we can stop talking about money. Because when money is no longer an obstacle, we can focus on what really matters and become the people we really want to become. And money then just becomes a tool to help you live a life that you're proud of instead of exhausted by.

So those are 12 more rules for frugal living. And remember, being frugal doesn't mean you're a cheapskate like Uncle Frank in Home Alone. It just means you're very intentional with your money, and that would include making and sticking to a monthly budget. I mean, intentional spending plan. And the app I use to create my intentional spending plan and track my expenses is EveryDollar. It's a free download, and it's super easy to use, and it basically does all the math for you. So if you want to check it out, click the link in the description or go to everydollar.com slash george.

As always, don't forget to like and subscribe, and in case you missed my first 12 rules for a frugal life, be sure to keep watching this next video or click the link in the description below. Thanks for watching. See you next time.