The memoir focuses on Sophie's journey as a young evangelical Christian from Michigan who travels to Zambia, adopts two girls, and portrays herself as both a martyr and savior. It details her deep religious convictions and her experiences in Zambia, often emphasizing her role in 'saving' vulnerable children.
Sophie's younger daughter was diagnosed with alternating hemiplegia of childhood (AHC), an extremely rare genetic disorder affecting one in a million children. It is progressive and has no cure.
Sophie Hartman faced second-degree assault charges for allegedly subjecting her daughter to medically unnecessary surgical procedures and restraints. Records indicate her daughter underwent over 474 medical appointments since 2016, raising suspicions of medical abuse.
Sophie was under 25 at the time of adoption, which was against Zambian law. Additionally, she was less than 21 years older than her eldest daughter, M, which violated another legal requirement. Despite these hurdles, the adoptions were eventually approved in 2014 and 2015.
In Zambia, the term 'orphan' does not necessarily mean a child whose parents are dead. Due to the extended family system, children who lose their parents are often cared for by relatives. Orphanages in Zambia function more like foster homes, providing temporary care until children can reunite with family or become independent.
Sophie's memoir reduces Zambia to scenes of crushing poverty and suffering, which critics argue is unfair and inaccurate. She often describes the country as 'dusty' and hellish, omitting details of its urbanization, economic progress, and cultural richness. This portrayal has been compared to outdated charity advertisements.
Sophie's evangelical Christian faith was central to her life and decision to adopt. She frequently describes her conversations with God and views her mission in Zambia as a divine calling. Her memoir is filled with religious fervor, portraying her as a Christ-like figure saving vulnerable children.
Transracial adoption, especially involving white parents adopting Black children, carries significant complexities. Misconceptions include the idea that the adoptee should be grateful, and that any home is better than no home. It requires parents to prepare their children for a world where their lived experiences may differ drastically from their own.
Sophie's story initially garnered public sympathy and support, with many viewing her as a selfless mother. However, as details of her daughter's extensive medical treatments and the subsequent legal charges emerged, public perception shifted, leading to widespread scrutiny and criticism.
The phrase 'I don't want to get a poke,' uttered by Sophie's daughter in a non-medical setting, raised red flags. It suggested that the child had a heightened fear of medical procedures, which, combined with the excessive number of medical appointments, hinted at potential medical abuse.
We begin the season by delving into Sophie Hartman’s 2016 memoir about her time in Zambia, *Crowns of Beauty, *where we learn about how a young woman from Michigan came to be the adopted mother of two Zambian girls by the age of 25. We learn about Sophie’s deep roots in evangelical Christianity and her state of mind prior to and during the adoptions of M and C; examining the way she portrays herself as both a martyr and savior. We’re also joined by Chad Goller-Sojourner, a performance artist and transracial adoption coach, to help listeners understand the complexities of transracial adoptions.
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