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2024/12/19
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克里斯·霍伊爵士:身患绝症让他更加珍惜生活中的爱,并让他对爱的理解更加深刻。身患绝症让他对生活有了新的视角,不再为琐事担忧。写作帮助他处理情绪,让他变得积极乐观。他过去坚持锻炼的习惯,在患病后变成了坏习惯,因为疼痛其实是癌症的症状。直面癌症,需要时间,但最终可以找到希望,并重新享受生活。他过去运动员的思维方式,在面对生死攸关的癌症时不再适用。来自妻子的支持对他至关重要。他妻子在自身患病的情况下,依然给予他极大的支持。他妻子积极乐观的态度帮助他度过难关。专注于当下,不要过度担忧未来。保持积极乐观,避免消极情绪。在2003年世锦赛的失利,让他意识到要不断改进,专注于自身,而非他人。这次失败让他在雅典奥运会上取得成功。2003年世锦赛的失利促使他寻求心理医生的帮助。他运用史蒂夫·彼得斯的心理技巧来应对癌症诊断。“直升机技巧”帮助他从更大的视角看待问题,从而减轻压力。“掌控可控因素”的技巧,让他专注于自己能控制的事情。他将“掌控可控因素”的技巧应用于癌症治疗。他不再惧怕死亡,而是专注于当下。专注于当下,活在当下。在雅典奥运会上,他克服了压力,取得了成功。史蒂夫·彼得斯教他如何控制自己的想法,专注于过程而非结果。专注于过程而非结果,帮助他赢得了金牌。在化疗后骑车挑战大佛山,中途放弃,让他感到沮丧。他最终克服困难,到达山顶,这让他明白专注于当下,一步一步来。他将“一步一步来”的策略运用到化疗中。他分享了化疗的经历,并鼓励人们保持积极的心态。化疗过程中戴冰帽的经历非常痛苦,但他坚持了下来。他坚持戴冰帽,是为了减少脱发,也是为了儿子。他想起他二战时期在日本被俘的叔叔,让他重新振作起来。他呼吁人们重视早期癌症筛查。他呼吁降低前列腺癌筛查的年龄限制。他鼓励人们定期进行健康检查。他在古德伍德2014年撞车事故后感到羞愧和沮丧。他在斯帕站的比赛中获得第二名,让他重新燃起了希望。这次经历让他明白生活会有起起伏伏。他谦虚地看待“英雄”和“超级巨星”的称号。他回顾自己的人生旅程,感到不可思议。他今年的圣诞节比去年更平静祥和。他给那些刚被诊断出癌症的人一些建议。即使没有治愈方法,仍然可以找到希望,享受生活。珍惜当下,享受生活。 伊丽莎白·戴:对克里斯·霍伊爵士的采访,展现了他面对癌症的积极乐观态度,以及他的人生智慧。

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Why did Sir Chris Hoy and his wife, Sarra, consider themselves lucky despite their health challenges?

They both have treatable conditions: Sir Chris has stage 4 prostate cancer, and Sarra has multiple sclerosis. They feel fortunate that there are treatments available for their diseases, unlike many other conditions that offer no cure.

How has Sir Chris Hoy's perspective on life changed since his cancer diagnosis?

He now focuses on what truly matters, such as family and loved ones, and has learned to appreciate the present moment. He no longer worries about trivial things and has a deeper understanding of love and gratitude.

What role did Steve Peters, the psychologist, play in Sir Chris Hoy's life, especially during his cancer journey?

Steve Peters helped Sir Chris by providing practical tools like the 'helicopter technique' and 'controlling the controllables.' These methods helped him manage stress, focus on what he could control, and maintain a positive mindset despite his terminal diagnosis.

How did Sir Chris Hoy's cycling career prepare him for his cancer battle?

His experience as an elite athlete, particularly his mindset of pushing through pain and focusing on incremental improvements, helped him endure chemotherapy and other treatments. He applied the same discipline and determination to his cancer fight as he did in cycling.

What was the significance of Sir Chris Hoy's failure at the World Championships in 2003?

The failure taught him the importance of focusing on his own performance rather than reacting to others' results. This lesson proved crucial in his subsequent success at the 2004 Athens Olympics, where he won gold despite three riders breaking the world record before him.

How did Sir Chris Hoy's experience with chemotherapy compare to his expectations?

Chemotherapy itself was difficult, but the most challenging part was the ice cap, which he wore to minimize hair loss. The cap was extremely painful and uncomfortable, but he endured it for his son's sake, who was concerned about his father losing his hair.

What impact did Sir Chris Hoy's public announcement of his cancer diagnosis have on prostate cancer awareness?

His announcement led to a 700% increase in PSA tests for early detection and an eightfold increase in NHS searches for prostate cancer symptoms. He is passionate about early detection, believing it can save lives, especially for those with a family history of the disease.

How did Sir Chris Hoy's motorsport crash at Goodwood in 2014 influence his perspective on failure?

The crash was a significant failure, but his subsequent success at the challenging Spa circuit in the same year taught him that setbacks are part of the journey. It reinforced the idea that one should not get too high or too low, as fortunes can change quickly.

What advice does Sir Chris Hoy have for those facing a cancer diagnosis during the holidays?

He advises them to focus on the present, lean on family and friends for support, and remember that they are not alone. He emphasizes finding hope, even in the face of terminal illness, and making the most of each day.

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Sir Chris Hoy, a highly successful Olympic athlete, shares his experience of being diagnosed with stage 4 prostate cancer and the impact it had on his life and relationship with his wife, who was also diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis a month later. Despite the grim prognosis, he emphasizes the importance of love and focusing on what truly matters.
  • Sir Chris Hoy's diagnosis of stage 4 prostate cancer
  • His wife's MS diagnosis
  • Writing the book 'All That Matters' as a coping mechanism
  • Shifting perspective on what matters most in life

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Introducing Sir Chris Hoy - ‘There’s no cure but I still find hope’ from How To Fail With Elizabeth Day.

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It was an honour to record this episode. We overuse words such as ‘hero’ and ‘inspiration’ but Sir Chris Hoy is both. Not only is he one of Great Britain’s most successful Olympic athletes (during a record-breaking career as a sprint cyclist, he won six gold medals, one silver medal, and 11 world championships) but he’s currently living with a Stage 4 prostate cancer diagnosis. In September 2023, a seemingly routine trip to the doctor’s turned into a waking nightmare when he was given between two and four years to live. His beloved wife Sarra was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis a month later. And yet, these two extraordinary people say they are lucky.

Listen to this episode if you want to feel joy, hear wisdom and learn how to live with love in the face of death. Sir Chris - you’re an amazing human being. Thank you for spending this precious time with me.

If you or someone you love is going through a mental or physical health challenge, as Sir Chris Hoy says: you are not alone. You can call the Samaritans 24/7 on 116 123.`

All That Matters by Sir Chris Hoy is out now.

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