Allie's mother kept the policy a secret because she was afraid Allie would misuse it, which is illegal as the custodial rights dissipate at 21.
Dave Ramsey believes Allie shouldn't feel obligated because her half-sisters helped out of love, not for financial gain, and the father specifically left the money to Allie.
John felt guilty because he's focused on paying off debt and thought the $850 his wife saved for his Lego Millennium Falcon could have been used to pay down their remaining $8,000 debt.
Dave Ramsey advises against it because a vacation is not an emergency, and using the emergency fund could leave the family vulnerable when the wife stops working and the baby arrives.
Dave Ramsey recommends piling up cash to ensure they can cover any medical expenses, make good memories, and have a financial buffer for the future, given the uncertain prognosis.
Dave Ramsey advises Emmanuel to sell the car to get out of debt quickly and to avoid relying on others, especially his mother-in-law, while also focusing on getting a job and setting boundaries.
Dave Ramsey suggests that a credit score is not necessary because many apartment complexes will rent to people without one, often requiring a higher deposit instead.
Dave Ramsey advises against it because taking a mortgage is a financially irresponsible decision when you have the savings to pay in cash, and it could lead to resentment and a sense of failure.
Dave Ramsey believes the scripture refers to usury, not interest, and banks are institutions, not individuals, so they don't have the same moral responsibility as a brother.
Dave Ramsey advises Zachary to stay on track with the baby steps, using the layoff and fear as motivation to finish paying off debt and not to deviate from the plan by building an emergency fund out of order.
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