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Broke Is Normal—Do You Really Want to Be Like Everyone Else?

2024/12/19
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帮助用户通过财务教育和应用程序改善生活质量的专业人士。
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Dave Ramsey
帮助数百万人摆脱债务和实现财务自由的著名个人财务专家。
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Allie: 我继承了父亲10万美金的遗产,我的两个姐姐在我小时候照顾过我和母亲,现在她们希望我分一部分遗产给她们。我目前想用这笔钱买房,但是我觉得她们也应该得到一些。 Dave Ramsey: 你不应该因为愧疚而分享遗产。你父亲的遗嘱明确指定你为受益人,你的母亲非法隐瞒了你五年的遗产信息。你的姐姐们照顾你和母亲是因为爱,而不是为了钱。你没有义务用钱来回报她们的付出。 Jade Walsh: 我理解你想分享遗产的心情,但这不应该出于愧疚,而应该出于自愿。如果你想分享,那是你的选择,但不要因为愧疚感而这样做。 Dave Ramsey: 你父亲的遗嘱明确指定你为受益人,你的母亲非法隐瞒了你五年的遗产信息。你的姐姐们照顾你和母亲是因为爱,而不是为了钱。你没有义务用钱来回报她们的付出。如果出于你自己的意愿想要分享,那是你的自由,但不要因为愧疚感而这样做。你父亲如果想让你的姐姐们也受益,他会把她们的名字也写在遗嘱里。你母亲现在试图事后改变父亲的意愿。

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Why did Allie's mother keep the $100,000 life insurance policy a secret from her for years?

Allie's mother kept the policy a secret because she was afraid Allie would misuse it, which is illegal as the custodial rights dissipate at 21.

Why does Dave Ramsey think Allie shouldn't feel obligated to share the inheritance with her half-sisters?

Dave Ramsey believes Allie shouldn't feel obligated because her half-sisters helped out of love, not for financial gain, and the father specifically left the money to Allie.

Why did John from Kentucky feel guilty about his wife's expensive Christmas gift?

John felt guilty because he's focused on paying off debt and thought the $850 his wife saved for his Lego Millennium Falcon could have been used to pay down their remaining $8,000 debt.

Why does Dave Ramsey advise against using an emergency fund for vacation when expecting a child and planning to buy property?

Dave Ramsey advises against it because a vacation is not an emergency, and using the emergency fund could leave the family vulnerable when the wife stops working and the baby arrives.

Why does Dave Ramsey recommend Chris to focus on piling up cash instead of financial goals when his wife is battling cancer?

Dave Ramsey recommends piling up cash to ensure they can cover any medical expenses, make good memories, and have a financial buffer for the future, given the uncertain prognosis.

Why does Dave Ramsey advise Emmanuel to sell his $56,000 car immediately and get a $5,600 car instead?

Dave Ramsey advises Emmanuel to sell the car to get out of debt quickly and to avoid relying on others, especially his mother-in-law, while also focusing on getting a job and setting boundaries.

Why does Dave Ramsey suggest not to use a credit score to rent an apartment?

Dave Ramsey suggests that a credit score is not necessary because many apartment complexes will rent to people without one, often requiring a higher deposit instead.

Why is Dave Ramsey's advice to Rick against taking a mortgage when they have enough savings to pay for the house in cash?

Dave Ramsey advises against it because taking a mortgage is a financially irresponsible decision when you have the savings to pay in cash, and it could lead to resentment and a sense of failure.

Why does Dave Ramsey believe that charging interest to a brother is wrong but not through a bank?

Dave Ramsey believes the scripture refers to usury, not interest, and banks are institutions, not individuals, so they don't have the same moral responsibility as a brother.

Why does Dave Ramsey advise Zachary to keep working the baby steps despite being laid off?

Dave Ramsey advises Zachary to stay on track with the baby steps, using the layoff and fear as motivation to finish paying off debt and not to deviate from the plan by building an emergency fund out of order.

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